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Is that true ? "MOST" ? I've met a fair number of sides and oral-only men over my many years playing the field.

Eggs and bacon. They aren't the same...but you often see them on the same plate. Just a reality of poverty in America.

This is true. I just find it hard to understand why you'd PAY to have sex with someone over 50. I could walk out my door and get laid within five minutes by a 50 year old for FREE.

I just turned 54. Maybe I should start escorting. 🙄

Catch him in his last year before he starts collecting Social Security. 🤣

I had a good laugh when I peeked at his profile still indicating that he's 25. I remember him from 10 years ago...and he was 25 then.

I still wear Calvin Klein briefs and t shirts. You just have to know where to get the real stuff. So many companies, today sell inferior quality goods at outlet malls under the same branding. Calvin Klein included. Most clothing is made in China now. Thats nearly unavoidable .

This is very true. However, my comment was about VOICES, not music. I mentioned Stefani because she can sing without all the technology. I don't particularly like any of her music. I grew up listening to some of my parents music (the Beatles, Mamas and the Poppas) and I thought these people have great voices. Whether of not I like the music, I dont hear anyone in today's scene who I feel is a talented singer. It's all stage performance, not vocalists that are important. I guess its the Madonna Ciccone effect. VERY successful performer in spite of the fact she took voice lessons for years and still embarrassed herself during the filming of Evita.

Dude. if you dont like opinions, then dont join conversations. No..you dont have to share opinions, but you do. Then others share THEIR opinion. Thats how conversations work. A valued member of the forum had a very different viewpoint: ("Bad news: studio only in Miami, so it was on a hotel bed, massage C-, extras B-. it was all over in 30 minutes, MT, HE".) So its really all a matter of YMMV on this fellow. No one is discounting your opinions. Just saying its all perspective. MY opinions are just that...opinions. Yours are the same. Others share different perspective and the reality of the matter lies somewhere in the middle of all the comments. If you want to continue join in and participate, I suggest you grow a little appreciation for the fact that in life, two people can have the very same experience and still portray it as very different in their mind.

Are there any "great singers" out there today ? Ive heard that Stefani Germanotta does actually know how to sing...but who else ? Can't think of anyone. Meanwhile I would totally fuck Benson Boone whether or not he can sing.

Last photo looks like hes put on quite a bit of weight compared to his other pix.

Ive seen him on Grindr many times. But we have a professional relationship already. So I dont try to get a freebie from Grindr.

I actually DID like him. I never watched his porn (I dont watch a lot of porn to begin with). But I used to hire his husband on a regular basis. Justin was often there. Always a pleasant and upbeat kind of fellow. So.... unlike all the gentlemen here who have nothing but disgust for the fellow ..I do recall the HUMAN BEING who I spent several joyful conversations with and who SEEMED a perfectly nice fellow. For me it only sad to discover his demons led him down some unfortunate pathways that were morally questionable and definitely illegal. I feel bad for him.

Rhubarb is quite a large plant...so needs time to grow. Late spring just before summer is its prime. Strawberry-Rhubarb pie always was a dish that preceded the summer picnic season when I was a child.

I should have included the sentence: "without the acrobatics".

I do enjoy that feeling. Its exciting to be able to enjoy the frontal penetration position with a masculine presenting trans person. I dont have any clear preferences between sex with biological men or women but it is nice to be able to face my partner during intecourse.

I wish there was more of that in general going on. I miss the days of meeting someone out, having a drink, chatting a bit before going home to fuck their brains out. Probably why I prefer meeting providers for a massage on a first meet. The encounter is more low key/ fewer expectations and more conducive to a little conversation. Wham*bam*thank*you*Ma'am isn't always what I am looking for.

Maybe I haven't followed this subject as carefully as you. ( Since I'm not "seeking" ) But my understanding was that the majority of the guys (/gals) on seeking are looking for immediate financial support. Are there actually people who DO agree to "date" to seek connection ?

You dodged a bullet. There is definitley something "off" about this person's constant demands to move to a different platform. In my experience when a young man wants to switch to a private communication its to discuss pay4play in a space where he cant be identified and found later if your experiences are problematic .

Wow. so..NOT true in MY case. I grew up in a predominantly white community surrounded by predominantly white communities. The Majority of my sexual exploits in my 20s (after I left my hometown) were with people who looked very different from me. Many of my relationships were with people of color. (Both men and women). I do agree that long term relationships require enough overlap of viewpoint that cultural commonality is important, but ethics, morals and priorities can span various geo-locations that included people of various races. Its often a matter of balance between the familiar to feel "at home" with someone but enough difference to feel challenged to grow as a person.

Its also a matter of individual expectations. You speak of this provider as your dream man, while others report a very mediocre experience. As far as the photos its fairly common to post images of themselves at their peak training with a beautiful six pak and exciting muscularity. Once you meet them, you discover that those photos were from six months to six years ago. At least this fellow posted his own and did in-fact have some glory days at one time regarding his looks.

That was my initial thought when I tried dating men. Eventually I learned that it's merely the frequency of dramatic communication that I avoided, not the drama itself. Interesting to note you found a relationship that wasnt merely transactional, on that site. Its been mentioned here on C.o.M. several times and the discussions are always about the costs. Some have said that housing and a little cash in their pocket was adequate and others have chosen guys who demand luxury lifestyles including travel in exchange for their companionship. In the end, we all want SOMETHING from a relationship. Its at least quid-pro-quo if its not transactional. Unconditional love is something your grandma gave you. Everything else has terms.

I just looked at their site. Its $109 per month or $290 for three months. You most likely misunderstood the offer. I seriously doubt that ANY membership that's normally $109 per month is going to offer 75% off unless they're going out of business.

Not that doing drag means you're gay....but honestly I always assume they are. Granted Flip Wilson did hysterical drag back in the 70's and he always claimed to be straight. As far as Tyler Perry, he was always on my gaydar as a DL bisexual. Sounds like he wasn't so down-low if he was that aggressive in hitting on pretty boys.

Beautiful guy. Is he worthy of sexual misconduct charges, though ? 🤔 Harvey Weinstein's fate should teach everyone in Hollywood to know where the line in the sand is. Leave a contract by the bedside to agree to sexual activity before the lawyers show up at your door.