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Transgender people aren't always part of the LGB community.

ABSOLUTELY 💯 I've been honest and open about my sexuality for several decades now. MUCH has changed in how people accept gay and bisexual men and women and its all been for the better. Anyone who tells you differently is looking at the world through a lens of unwarranted fear, that is constantly being carved out by media sources trying to manipulate you.

I have witnessed multiple pile-ons from the Karen's in the group who INSIST that everyone who disagrees with their subscribed gay-centric viewpoint is automatically a homophobe. Some of these people need to climb down from their barstool and greet the rest of the world more often. People have different life experiences and therefore draw separate conclusions about life. Tossing the "homophobe" moniker around everything someone disagrees is immature and counter-intellectual.

Seems to me that the "mean girls" here are the ones complaining about people who have opinions they disagree with. I was called out personally.(Although you misspelled my screen-name@BrickBuilder) I am guessing this is a reaction to the recent Sydney Sweeny controversy. For several years now the fashion industry has been going for shock value by featuring fat Victoria Secret models, transexual make up models, and ugly/deformed runway models. This has empowered people in the general population who feel left behind because of their unfortunate looks. Unfortunately the fashion industry has watched their profits plummet as the promotion of "ugly" backfired and the disadvantaged population of empowered people didn't show up to buy their product while the beautiful people left the room in disgust. So American Eagle reacts by swinging the pendulum back to where it was. This touches off a mini culture-war about the appropriateness of deifying beautiful people in 2025. It is interesting therefore that @CheckCar simultaneously starts a "mean girl" thread because as he states: he is - "a gay man of a certain age who is often invisible in bars and clubs catering to the gym-bodied under-40 crowd." So...since I was called out ..I think it's important for me to contribute MY two-cents in the matter as a counter-point to this idea of the "mean-girl". Although it may be an unfortunate reality of life that some of us are born less attractive than others and some of us lose our looks as we age. We all need to accept this as REALITY. You cant change that by PRETENDING that everyone is beautiful. C.o.M is a site where men pursue men who they find attractive. They choose to HIRE men who are MORE attractive than they can likely get without paying them. So the VAST majority of men here are concerned about the GOOD LOOKS of providers. NOBODY is here to take pity on a poor-sad provider struggling to get laid. We are all here to discuss the merits of skilled, good-looking men who can provide a high quality fantasy experience. So to call-out those of us who may make an opinion about this subject that doesnt follow the "everyone is beautiful" narrative is ridiculous, indeed !! @KensingtonHomo calls me "Regina George", because he's never been able to stand the fact that I have had the privilege of a life where I COULD pick and choose the cream-of-the-crop and NOT need to take what I can get, while pretending that "everyone is beautiful" so I feel better about myself. It's an interesting subject and although I don't agree with @CheckCar for including me on his mean-girl list. I thank @KensingtonHomo for bringing up the timely topic. In summary...I don't feel that its "mean" to make observations about a providers looks and/or performance. I actually think its ridiculous to even suggest such a thing on a site that is totally geared toward these discussions. As far as the rest of the issues about "mean-girl" behavior ..yes we should all treat each other with respect. But I could go back and find multiple snarky comments made to ME over the years simply because someone didn’t agree with my viewpoint. So as I started to say in my response...its not ME who's the mean-girl in those scenarios. Some people need to grow up and learn to agree to disagree, and keep the snark to themselves.

I am primarily a top. But when I was younger and more active in same-sex pursuits I would end up with a lot of masculine top men who wanted to fuck me...so I went along with it willingly. I also used to spend time at sex parties where I laid in a sling and let multiple men fuck me for hours. I DO still find myself fantasizing about bottoming for certain big muscular men or possibly being spit roasted...but its been many years since I arranged any of that.

Thanks. I live two blocks away. Tempted to check out the goods in person. He's quite a delicious dish.

Just out of curiosity, I reached out to the Rent.men ad ...but non responsive.

Bumping this forward. I haven't had a good dungeon scene with anyone for year. Curious if anyone has had any experience with ExtremPaulBig lately. He seems to be well equipped...wanted to know if hes also skilled . I do love a good bondage/milking/cumcontrol scene.

I follow this guy on social media. Hes absolutely beautiful. As everyone here knows, I love a fit body on a young cute guy. This one is my dream fuck. I've chatted with him through social media and have never gotten any hints that hes available for a one-on-one. He always directs your interest to his OnlyFans pay-per-view services. With his looks I would imagine an actual in-person meet (were it available) would be expensive 💲💲💲💲 indeed.

Somehow I figure this one's social media and modeling presence would have precluded him from a career in escorting....so I would proceed cautiously to confirm this is the real deal. Im thinking ....probably not.

There is a difference between "toxic" and "I dont agree with this".

^ THIS ^ The fact that only 20 people protested the shows cancellation speaks volumes, to the false narrative of Colbert being culturally relevant.

One year..(many years ago) I was fucking this sexy kid with an amazing ass at a bathhouse. Really tearing it up/tossing him around....mid stroke - legs in the air he looks up at me and says "I luv u". Lost my hard-on immediately . I felt bad for how sad and pathetic that was for him and the moment was gone. (Pity though) I really could have gone for another round or two with that 🍑 ass. But his miscalculated expression of affection ruined the mood. I was only there to fuck him...(and as many other hotties that I could find) that night.

Regulation height pool fence on the left would indicate it's someone's pool house.

IF they check, they check thoroughly. In all my many years of travel, I've never been checked. People who carry large amounts of luggage are particularly suspect. Customs tends to focus on people bringing large amount of merchandise for resale and checking for agricultural products crossing the border, not Louis Vuitton wallets meant for personal use or gifts. Technically anything over $800 is subject to import tax but virtually no one ever claims such purchases. If its out of its packaging and tags removed there is really no way to prove you just bought it and are cheating the customs rules.

*damn* I'd love to take THAT 🍑 for a ride...

Falling in love with someone isn't an "accident". We don't schedule and plan love. It just finds its way into our consciousness. But falling "in love" with an escort is typically a false love produced by an infatuation. The physical attention you get, paired with a physical attraction are triggers for relationship material. Unfortunately when you are PAYING, its all performance, not passion. So your "love" is no more real than their acting. You feel it. Its there..but its not genuine, because true love requires a circle, not a wallet.

The original source of thr claim is Matthew Belloni, Puck's founding partner and author of the report on Colbert's show. He told Snopes that he obtained the information in his article "from multiple anonymous sources with knowledge of the show's finances." He added that the $40 million number was "subsequently confirmed by multiple outlets," including The Wall Street Journal. Stephen Colbert’s ‘Late Show’ Was Canceled After Losing Tens of Millions - WSJ https://share.google/78xXy2fjZBShm2JeX

All seems to good to be true. Curious to see if anyone has taken the bait. I am too skeptical.

That tracks. I was a kid in the 70s. I remember people in the US would accept Canadian coins and even commented they were worth slightly MORE than US currency.

Nah...I like it down n dirty when I'm with a same-sex partner. THAT is part of my attraction to men. They are far more inclined to enjoy a rough pig fucking than most women do. I like providers who know how to do "naughty". Obviously "Austin" Wolfe's b.f. would be well familiar with the down-n-dirty. I just had no idea that Wolfe himself had such a disturbing dark-side to his "naughty". No idea if his partner was aware of what he was doing or if he turned a blind eye to it.

I seem to remember when I was younger that US and Canadian coins were somewhat interchangeable because the Canadian dollar was nearly one-to-one with the US dollar. A 28% difference DOES sound pretty depressed if that were true.

Yeah..its pretty absurd here. My house is worth far more than $3.5M but no where near $33M. This is one of the reasons New Yorkers eventually leave and head to Florida when they retire.

Well...its NYC, not Topeka Kansas. As far as Florida is concerned, its not so much the taxes as the insurance companies that are scaring people away. SO much of Florida real estate was built on-the-cheap by developers and hurricane season rips them apart due to shabby construction. So the insurance companies have decided that high risk means high prices.

It was not.