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Everyone here knows I have a dark sense of humor. (Except the few hair-trigger members who keep insisting I am just a terrible person). 🤣

I remember going to an adult bookstore with some ( drunken ) friends one night. We all got blowjobs through a glory hole. On the drive home, we all said that was the best B.J. ever. Then one of my friends said..."I don't think that guy had any teeth"!!!

You and I are wired the same way.

Well....at least you were scammed by someone worth trying for. 😂 Lesson learned. Thinking with your dick always ends badly. JUST SAY NO

The NYC Pride Parade attracts people from the entire Country and some foreigners. It most definitely does NOT represent who lives here. The point made by @marylander1940 is accurate. New Yorkers walk everywhere....we also exercise more and eat better than Middle America. I rarely see anyone who's grossly overweight who lives here. I live in Greenwich Village which has several gay bars and I don't see a lot of big oversized men going in and out of those bars. So this hypothesis that the village is just full of these happy overweight gay couples is just pure fantasy on the part of @KensingtonHomo. Anyway ...ALL of this is a distraction from the subject at hand. Which is PROVIDERS REQUIRING A PHOTO. @marylander1940 was kind enough to take the time and create a poll on an associated conversation thread. Let's all click on it and see how deep the split is on the subject. I have no problem sending a photo. But then I'm not at the point in my life where I am so grotesque that no one will fuck me. Hopefully I never get to that point. Escorts deserve our deepest respect for taking on people who otherwise would never have sex.

You are mixing up sexual preferences with "disdain". Again...projecting you own emotional insecurities. My first girlfriend is now quite chubby but I still adore her. Sexually I prefer FIT men or women. So obviously someone whos very overweight is the exact opposite of "fitness".

You comment doesnt make any sense. I just said my neighbor was a nice fellow and I enjoyed his company. How is that "hatred" ? You are projecting.

Lucky you, and your overweight friends. I dont have the same experience. My gay, overweight neighbor died sad and alone always complaining he couldn't meet anyone who loved him because of his looks. Nice fellow / was a fairly well known comedian on several TV shows. I always enjoyed his company. But his appearance prevented him from having a satisfying sex life / love life.

Yup. I second that opinion. Very nice young man. Very accommodating. Definitely would recommend .

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I rarely hit up escorts. When I do its when they are spectacular . Most of them ask for a photo. I have no problem providing one. (Tight t shirt torso + face / no nudity)

When I was younger, I had quite a few ballet dancers in my "little black book" of regulars. Their bottoming abilities were superior to every other human being I've ever met. 🍑 To this day when I meet a young man at a party and he tells me he's a dancer, I am working desperately to get a phone number (or at least their Insta)

Be careful asking directly on Twitter about "escort". These websites screen for terminology that can be caught up in sex trafficking charges. Always inquire about hiring for a "collaboration". Then discuss in private that you didnt want to film it for distribution.

I generally meet people through massage services. Not escort. Because of that, most of my initial sexual encounters with those providers have been NON-penetrative. Perhaps you should consider taking some courses in massage and focus on erotic massage services instead of traditional escorting. The expectations of fucking are much lower (to non-existent) with masseurs.

No first hand experience, but I would point out that ive seen many of these photos in years past. I am thinking SEVERAL years ago. Might be a good idea to ask for more current images before taking the plunge.

Sex isn't always about equity. sub/DOM fetish is a common interest group. Passive bottoms are highly regarded by dominant tops.

I think this issue is being regarded as WAY too binary: "Either you can fuck everything that moves or you shouldn't be a provider." 🙄 I completely disagree...and I repeat: EVERYONE has a right to run their business they way they deem appropriate. Don't like it/ don't shop there. To say I am: 60, fat and bald, certainly doesn't mean that everyone in that category is the SAME. People age differently, look differently, and the term "fat" is VERY general. I think that I AM "fat", when i dont work out regularly. To me, even a beer belly is "fat". To another person 300 pounds and a 48 inch waist is "fat". The description is only part of the picture and there have been multiple conversations here where providers hit a wall with a client who was particularly unappealing in appearance, even though they generally had a come-one-come-all attitude.

Well...according to some of the gentlemen here...its a new ask...but the providers have always had a right to run their business as they see fit. Same with deposits. Just say no. (If you dont like it).

Well...for the purpose of this conversation: Its the person who youre asking to have sex with you ! Everyone can take ONE good photo. One of my childhood girlfriends is now very fat. I still love her and am overjoyed when I see here. I don't think I could fuck her..but I still think she's sweet.She has some nice face.pix that she uses for her job. (LinkedIN) etc

Is that true ? I can't be THAT much of an outlier. I understand that some people only use escorts services because they are so unattractive that nobody would fuck them for free...so being rejected by their last chance at getting laid would be humiliating and sad. But the guys who I seek are good looking enough that they can pick and choose the clients they want. So I dont mind the momentary gatekeeping if it gets me what I want.

I have NO problem providing a photo. I dont send nudes to escorts. I send face/clothed body shots. Its not Grindr, but they do have a right to see who they are meeting.

We were talking about people flaking. I am not casting doubt on people coming and going in DC. THAT happens after every change of administration. I am saying that I dont think that many people are losing their job simultaneous to having contacted an escort so that they need to suddenly cancel.

He reached out to me recently and said hes on his way back to New York.

That doesnt make ANY sense. Does eveyone in DC get fired hours after contacting an escort ? 🤔

No one is in the city July 4th Weekend. Thats why.