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Give your provider feedback for sure! Sometimes messages get mixed up. Honest feedback is really a gift that I think most providers will feel grateful for. Give it over text if that feels more comfortable for you. Lastly, be open to getting feedback from him. There may be something that's trivial to you that's really bothering him. Yes, he should be able to put things like that aside, as a professional, but sometimes there are things that we can't get past. The fix could just be Altoids... ya never know!

None of the escorts I'm in touch with ever require this. It (understandably) makes people feel judged. As @DznNYC, they aren't real escorts. I'd suggest looking for providers that are well-reviewed here, or at least have lots of RM reviews.

Love to see how into touching everyone is! Nice to know that particular talent isn't wasted 😇

I didn't mean to suggest he isn't real. I happen to know that he is. I just think his whole mystique is kinda fun.

Generosity is always a good thing. And it sounds like you're a lovely person 😍 This time of year can be really hard for us providers between family issues/fluctuations in bookings, etc. I think it's awesome to hear that people still think of us as people--outside of what we do for clients in bookings.

Plenty of us out there would be super grateful to be taken out to nice places like that! Maybe next time look for providers that have good reviews on here vis-a-vis BFE.

https://x.com/i/status/1993045119831097804 😉

It's really all over the map in terms of times. I find that Clients usually fall into the following groups related to timing: 1. Retired (9-5 works great) ✅ 2. On vacation (9-5 is possible here, you need to be in a vacation destination) 😎 3. Working from home (These guys often hire for a quickie between meetings)✅ 4. Business travelers (Won't work for 9-5 usually) ❌ 5. Working a normal job (won't work) ❌ Of course it's up to you which of these you take on.

If you're a pure top on RM, I'd say the expectation is that you have at least 7 (advertised as 8 or 9). Not sure if you're allowing vers or vers/bottom guys in your search, but based on my research in the NYC area, those are the guys that usually have 'Boyfriend Dick'. But yeah, you're probably right that the market prevents lots of guys that WANT to be tops from being escorts if they don't have the size. Bummer.

Yeah, totally. That's what I meant by all the attention they WANT. People who mostly wanna watch will tell you as much, in my experience.

This is absolutely a thing! You can always find something you love about a guy (or at least I can). The compliments are probably true, maybe a bit exaggerated, but true nonetheless.

I wouldn't worry too much about pre-planning. The great thing about groups is the multiplicative explosion of possible dick/hole/hand possibilities! 🤯 See what happens. Any provider worth their salt is going to make sure the clients get all the attention they want. If it's more than one client, it's the provider's job to keep that balanced. Doing stuff with another provider, while fun, isn't the main reason we're there, and we know that.

Hey, hey ... No one is mad about you tipping 😘 But I never really go into an appointment thinking 'this person will probably tip me well.' If you're meeting with the same provider a second time, though, it's like you're starting to become a regular. Regulars get VIP treatment for sure. I know I'm repeating myself here, but it really matters way more than a tip.

I always assume people reach out to a few providers initially. Once we are in a two-way conversation, it's a little different. Hopefully clients aren't asking 3 different guys to come at the same time and then ghosting two of them 🤨