GentJ

None of the escorts I'm in touch with ever require this. It (understandably) makes people feel judged. As @DznNYC, they aren't real escorts. I'd suggest looking for providers that are well-reviewed here, or at least have lots of RM reviews.

None of the escorts I'm in touch with ever require this. It (understandably) makes people feel judged. As @DznNYC, they aren't real escorts. I'd suggest looking for providers that are well-reviewed here, or at least have lots of RM reviews.

Love to see how into touching everyone is! Nice to know that particular talent isn't wasted 😇

Love to see how into touching everyone is! Nice to know that particular talent isn't wasted 😇

Love to see how into touching everyone is! Nice to know that particular talent isn't wasted 😇

None of the escorts I'm in touch with ever require this. It (understandably) makes people feel judged. As @DznNYC, they aren't real escorts. I'd suggest looking for providers that are well-reviewed here, or at least have lots of RM reviews.

None of the escorts I'm in touch with ever require this. It (understandably) makes people feel judged. As @DznNYC, they aren't real escorts. I'd suggest looking for providers that are well-reviewed here, or at least have lots of RM reviews.

Yes. Or after the fact. Just unsolicited affection.  Or for an overnight, if the provider would start up in the middle of the night, even waking me up, it would be beyond hot.

For me, initiation of touch. If the provider just rubs my arm unsolicited or initiates a sexual encounter, it would make the experience feel so much more satisfying and like a real BFE.

The contributions we get from providers here are highly valuable, although the number that do is small.  I want more providers to comment and participate on the forums. Having them participate creates less of an echo chamber. When we see a provider comment, often it is to clear up a misconception or defend themselves in a post - they are greeted warmly with "welcome to the fourm!" and then promptly disappear.  I see pile ons here and think 'this is why they don't'. 
So my question to the group is: 
1. Why do you think we don't see more providers post, and 
2. What can we do to encourage more of them to join in. 
(I am especially curious to hear from @Simon Suraci @nate_sf @GentJ Why do more of your colleagues not post here?) 

In addition to everything @big-n-tall said,  I also think a huge part of it is that there’s an element of fantasy built into the dynamic and forums like this can unintentionally disrupt that.
When providers show up here as fully formed people with their own opinions, boundaries, and perspectives, it shifts how some clients experience them. The illusion gets replaced with something more real, and not everyone knows how to engage with that. For some, that breaks the appeal a bit.
So instead of it just being about “why don’t they participate,” it’s also about whether the space allows them to exist as real people without being dissected, challenged, or pulled out of that curated dynamic they rely on professionally.

Why do providers not post on The Company of Men? I’m not sure anyone here has the emotional bandwidth or attention span for my response to this question.
I took a step back for many personal reasons. I’d rather hear first from clients why you think so few of us contribute.
When anyone values my opinion on a particular topic, feel free to ask. Tag me, I’ll see the alert, and respond on the boards when I have time.

I couldn't disagree more with this. For those who are starting off a bit late, those who haven't found their way through using the bars or the apps. Escorts make great 'training wheels'. People are fucking mean on the apps. And let's be honest, bars aren't the places to meet new people that they were in decades past. Start on 'easy mode'. Gain confidence. Then do the platforms/bars/apps. 

I couldn't disagree more with this. For those who are starting off a bit late, those who haven't found their way through using the bars or the apps. Escorts make great 'training wheels'. People are fucking mean on the apps. And let's be honest, bars aren't the places to meet new people that they were in decades past. Start on 'easy mode'. Gain confidence. Then do the platforms/bars/apps. 

I couldn't disagree more with this. For those who are starting off a bit late, those who haven't found their way through using the bars or the apps. Escorts make great 'training wheels'. People are fucking mean on the apps. And let's be honest, bars aren't the places to meet new people that they were in decades past. Start on 'easy mode'. Gain confidence. Then do the platforms/bars/apps. 

IMO Gentlemen_Justin is one of the hottest and sexiest guys on RM. In addition to his impressive physical attributes, he seems to be a genuinely interesting and intelligent guy! When I am visiting NYC this summer, I am hoping to meet up with him! He definitely ticks all my boxes, for a first rate provider! 

But being honest I love mens +50 they are so sexy. I am a daddy’s boy.

Nice ad, handsome fellow indeed. Looks a little like the actor; his name is something like Sean Williams Scott? Hope he travels to Texas.

https://rent.men/Gentleman_Justin
https://rentmen.eu/Gentleman_Justin
and forum member @GentJ

I just met with GentJ this evening.BIG THUMBS UP! It was a BFE but some naughty, quietly confident jock thrown in for fun. I found him easy to communicate with over RM messenger and on text. 

He looks like someone to hang and chill with -- and he likes making cocktails according to his ad -- nice extra thrown in there! 

He is cute

A top who blows you.  Nice!  😉