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An escorts job is to make YOU cum. Period. If you enjoy seeing your partner ejaculate, then I suggest you discuss that with him prior to the session's play time.

We tried to do our best to challenge our kids in spite of the schools trying to keep everything "equal". They are now 17 and they are finding most kids their age to be completely annoying with the level of entitlement. It's little wonder that most of their friends are Indian or Asian. Social groups who still value setting standards and expectations. Too many Americans have gone soft on their kids and left them helpless and hapless.

My love. ❤️ If I were younger I'd go totally gay ( again ) and marry this one. So handsome and sweet in person.

Same here. It's not unusual for providers to charge less for guys who aren't old and fat.

I own rental real estate in Manhattan. The AVERAGE one bedroom in a WALK UP/ no doorman building in a decent part of Manhattan is $ 4500. Door man / elevator AVERAGE is $ 5000. Luxury building/apartment in a prime neighborhood is $ 6000.

It sure did LOOK like the sort of place you could get yourself off while watching an adult movie ..... strange that anyone would be raiding such a place, knowing full-well what normally goes on in these kinds of establishments.....

Across the entire city...no. But most of these pretty-boy glamour models who are asking for $ 1000/hr. are staying in luxury apartments in Midtown Manhattan where the AVERAGE one bedroom is $ 6,000. a month.

I generally don't hire escort services while living in NYC. ( Mostly only looking for that sort of company when I travel ) but I DO browse occasionally in case something spectacular comes to town for a visit. I would say based on that browsing in NYC....the standard ask is $ 400 for nice looking/ fit company doing massage+MT & happy ending or $ 500 for full escort. Instagram models/ Only Fans models. Generally are asking somewhere between $ 600 and $ 800 in NYC ACTUAL well known porn stars and/or the best*of*the*best models are asking for $ 1000. PERSONALLY, I decline all these requests with the exception of the $ 400 to $ 500 range, as I just don't feel that my orgasm is any better with a glamorous Instagram model, than it is with some nice fit, boy next door type. It's nice to dream but we all have budgets to consider. The only people who I would have spent $ 1000 to meet tend to be actual models who aren't making themselves readily available to everyone. SO they were never a temptation to break the bank, since they weren't advertising as available to me.

I've always enjoyed getting a blowjob from a "straight" guy while watching straight porn. Definitely more exciting.

NYC lacks any modern DIRECT Airport to Metropolitan Station trains. @mike carey has supplied a good summary No matter which way you go, you're going to need to transfer from a monorail or bus to train at a shitty uncomfortable station somewhere. LaGuardia is probably your worst option with a bus to the subway being a depressing option when you have any amount of luggage to carry. Public transport from Newark via NJT will be a monorail to Train that drops you in Penn Station. JFK monorail to LIRR will generally, also drop you in Penn Station but there are options at Jamaica Station to end up in Grand Central. If you want a decent hotel adjacent to the train station...do the monorail at JFK to Jamaica and then to Grand Central, where you'll have a selection of better hotels. If you just want a cheap hotel to fuck a hooker and smoke some meth, then Penn Station area is a better fit. 😜

I really enjoyed watching Pee Wee's Playhouse...but that was mostly because I couldn't believe the amount of gay content they worked in to a kid's show ! It was incredible...and hysterically ironic. I had no idea that Paul Reubens was "in the closet". He was SO OBVIOUSLY gay that it never occurred to me that he COULD be "closeted". I am shocked that anyone didn't know.

OMG !! You mean they're developing a quality film with bisexual representation portrayed by Jeremy White ??? !!! Pinch me, I think I'm dreaming !!

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Agreed. It's also CNN...so I wouldn't be quick to believe the article anyway.

That is the most bizarre situation I've heard about Rent.men for some time. I've certainly had young providers hit me up for help AFTER having met them ( and fucked them )..so there is a friendly relationship of sorts established. But asking someone who you've not even MET for help is a total red flag announcing a con-artist. AVOID AVOID AVOID

It happened a couple years ago with a well known provider in NYC. People were commenting that he wasn't getting back to them, and the answer was that he had committed suicide a few weeks prior.

This is a fairly common occurrence on R.M. They respond ONLY becasue they can see you browsing their profile. They can NOT see your notes or that you've buddylisted them. Its a practical technique to follow up with someone browsing, as some potential clients can be shy, closeted, or lazy about reaching out. When a provider contacts you, it can feel like they're flirting which gives some men the confidence they need to "seal the deal" and schedule a meet.

My opinion: Be upfront with anyone you contact. You should also consider paying the provider for their TIME only on a first meet. Go on a "date" and make sure you are comfortable with your choice. The second meet up will be far more satisfying without all the nervous energy.

To continue this conversation without breaking the NO POLITICS rule, it will be necessary to not point fingers at a politician. Once you blame a specific person or party, your comment becomes politically charged. Tricky to do with a topic that is so influenced by politics. But do try to stick to the issue and talk about policy without blaming a specific member of a political party or the party itself. Post edited to remove a comment it had quoted. CoM Mods

Yes. I like the thrill of possibility. Paying for a guaranteed result is perfectly reasonable. But will never be as exciting for me.

I think that is a very good strategy. Personally...I just book an erotic massage and let them do their thing. If you're a pro, you should be able to read my body language and if you're a provider with a little range of services wandering into escort-land...then i tip generously and discuss what other services are offered AFTER the payment and before I leave.

I was referring to a B2 Visa which is awarded in 6 month increments with an understanding that you MUST leave in between stays. There is no specific requirement for time between stays but it is generally accepted that one sixth month visit PER YEAR is viewed as a non issue by immigration authorities.

Yes. Exactly. I grew up in the "rust belt". I still have friends and family there. People are sitting on the couch and doing meth because they are depressed. They are depressed about having NO opportunity. They have no opportunity because all the labor jobs are gone. My hometown went from 15 factories to ZERO. Unemployment went from 3% to 50%. Even the hospital had to close because everyone who uses it was on welfare. There are certainly people who would work, if they could find work. Without getting political...I will say the US (everyone) has ignored this problem for decades. Providing American citizens with enough welfare to survive while simultaneously exploiting poor undocumented immigrants is a terrible, terrible plan. I will not comment on who's to blame...but I will say it's certainly not a single entity. It's layers of incompetence and neglect. By neglecting a HUGE problem like this, there is certainly going to be a tremendous amount of fallout that will affect all immigration issues across the board.

I have certainly run across this myself. As I stated above...I didn't hand the extra money over as JUST "a tip". I shared my opinion that he should consider charging more, becasue the quality of the service warranted a higher price. I've even shared this same opinion after observation with restaurant owners with whom I am friendly, when they open a new location. If the price seemed off compared to the quality of food and service, I am less inclined to simply take advantage, and more inclined to help my friend understand their true value. I hear too many stories here on CoM about people who are happily exploiting young escorts who haven't yet figured out their value. I have always made a point to educate the naive, and give pointers on how they may increase value to their customers and simultaneously increase their income.

Correct. Your explanation of business expenses has nothing to do with tipping. That's a matter of the provider setting their price for the service. I do agree if you feel a provider has set the bar too low, for the quality of service, than a tip should be provided out of pity for their lack of business acumen. I don't agree with your viewpoint that keeping 100% of the fee has no relationship to a business (such as a restaurant) where the tip is given to an EMPLOYEE. Unless working st a spa, a masseur is a BUSINESS OWNER, not an employee. So ..NO...a tip is NOT a requirement for a business owner, unless you wish to thank them for EXCEPTIONAL service (or extras). The exception, (as noted above) is IF you feel their price was undervalued. But then you are actually correcting their mistake, not really "tipping". Giving them a "tip" in this case would be better if you handed them 30% more and SAID: "you should charge more for such wonderful service."