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Agreed. Even IF there wasn't a legal matter involved...I personally PREFER to meet people for a massage first. I have never been a fan of fucking somebody based on a few photos and never having met in person. I also like a bit of foreplay, unlike so many gay men who go from Zero-to-Sixty in under two minutes. A relaxing massage gives me time to feel the moment as well as giving my companion a chance to get comfortable instead of needing to provide sex-on-demand.

Remember @Jamie21 you have the advantage of working in a country where escorting is legal. Many USA escort providers choose to advertise on Rentmasseur for reasons of discretion with legality. So...they do NOT welcome direct questions about escorting. I find it works better to hire for erotic massage, see their comfort level with sexual connection and discuss "other" services in private, outside of documented platforms or the risk of recorded calls. We live in the age of Metadata.

Those vary according to my position...top bunk or bottom.😉

I agree with many of the sentiments above. If you want to treat your provider well...tip well. Flaunting your wealth with five star hotels and over-priced Michelin Star restaurants only leads to emotionally separating yourself from your evening's companion. A pleasant hotel room, with a degree of privacy, works just fine. Dinner, when I am traveling is always the choice of my provider. I will throw out a few suggestions and let him pick what he likes. I prefer a companion to think I spent my money on HIM, not the sushi.

Absolutely. Not everyone is so easily offended. Obviously you were being humorous when you quoted me. Your ability to stand up for yourself is admirable and very sexy.

My comment wasn't directed at anyone. So WHO did I "denigrate" ? You know very well, that escorts are often called by people who are so repulsive and fat that no one else would ever touch them. So I fail to see how mention of that FACT is a "cheap shot" when the subject is a STRAIGHT provider trying to get his footing in the business. It's certainly on topic. So I don't agree with your assessment here.

I have a friend who used to escort when he was younger. He was and still is straight. I asked him how he could stay hard, if he wasn't physically attracted to men. He said what turned him on was how attracted THEY were to HIM. Knowing he had power through beauty (he was very good looking in his 20s)..was a huge turn on for him. The worshiping, to the degree that men would pay HIM for the honor of letting them suck HIS dick, and cum in their mouth, was his turn on.

OK...so an observation from today...my wife and kids were away for the day and I decided to browse Rent.men in case there was some new interesting talent in town. Three of the profiles I looked at messaged me without me making any advances. And two providers who I had previously hired saw me online and also said hello. (I ended up making a visit to one of the repeats). Maybe coincidence...but the communications were much more aggressive than I've ever experienced before. Sign of the times ? I did well strategizing the market panic and walked away with some mad-money for the summer.

We recently binged Season 4 of "You" (with Penn Badgley). We've enjoyed the previous seasons. This one goes darker in preparation for Season 5 which premiers at the end of the month. Solid production, acting/directing all well done. Of course you need to have the stomach to endure lots of torture, and brutal murder ...it's not for everyone.

Moaner...plus like @Luv2play...very verbal. Love dirty talk.

I like this.. When I was younger I would have probably stared down the dude, knowing my chances of an immediate hookup were higher. Now in my 50s I would definitely be checking out the woman as my chances with her are 100x higher.

I think if he's advertising as "straight" then it should be understood by clients as a YMMV experience. For @romanhayes if you're still following the thread, you might consider removing the "escort" offering from your Rent.Men profile...because there IS an expectation amongst many gay male customers that an "escort" is someone who can stick his dick in any fat pig and still perform. Asking for photo or video confirmation is a step in the right direction but if you identify as straight, then even the visuals aren't going to make as much of a difference as personality will do. I've been with a lot of straight guys over the years...and most because they liked my personality not just my looks. Erotic massage is a good way to offer a client the guarantee of an ejaculation without the expectation that you're going to "perform" yourself. I find that spending a bit of time during a massage breaks the ice and allows you time to decide whether you're feeling the moment or not. Although some will disagree, having a range of pricing, helps a customer understand that if the massage is more than a hand job, it's more a more expensive service, not that you decided you were horny and are doing a freebie.

Nice guy / great looking. Incredibly boring. Like having sex with a blow-up doll. Very empty inside.

Stone fruit... 😋

Humans have periods of emotional journey throughout their lives. Everyone i know has "not been themselves" at some point. I know with myself, there are times when I don't feel very social and others where I am a chatterbox. I have lost friends because I lost contact for a bit and they misinterpreted this as some sort of "abandonment", when it was nothing more than me needing some space for a moment.

Again...Pagan tradition. The holiday as Americans celebrate with decorated trees and mistletoe is actually "YULETIDE". The ancient celebration of the Winter Solstice. We burn a Yule Log for 12 days and ask the Gods to return the sun to the world. We bring pine branches and decorate with small gifts because the Uber God Wotan dwells in a pine 🌲 tree. Nothing to do with Jesus. And if you follow religious canon, Jesus was born in the Spring, not in December. His birth was plugged in to existing holiday celebrations by the Christians. Pennsylvania Germans still recognize the holiday as 12 days with a variety of special feasts and solemn days during the period.

Try 15+ years old. This photo is the one that attracted me to his profile more than 15 years ago and one he's still using.

Both Holidays were pumped up with "gift giving" by the many successful Jewish Merchants in the United States. Most of the major name brands in Department Stores were started by Jews. R.H. Macy, the Bloomingdale Brothers. Abraham and Strauss, Horace Saks, Bergdorf and Goodman. Filenes, Gimbles, Sakowitz, Neiman Marcus and Kaufmanns...all went out of their way to decorate for Christmas but were all Jewish owned. Once the Christians were hooked on buying a gift for everyone they knew...the extended the custom into Channukah (which as you stated) was a formerly minor holiday only celebrated by religious Jews who would light a candle, recite a prayer and break bread.

Actually it's more likely the other way around. Oestre is an ancient Pagan holiday and the "Easter " egg hunt was typical to Germanic regions of Europe for hundreds of years. "Hiding the Afikoman" is specific only to Ashkenazi (German) Jews...and is a much newer tradition than the Oestre Egg hunt. So the custom was likely taken from their native German neighbors. Same for Hannukah. Traditional Germanic families (such as my own) celebrate for 12 days and children would get a small gift on each of the days as you would go around and visit family or host an evening meal for friends or family. (Typically we would invite our Jewish neighbors for the Feast of the Innocents). Likewise... Channukah celebrations never included gifts until Jewish merchants brought the idea forward in America around the 1890s. I don't know why Christmas got boiled down to one day of an orgy of gifts for a lot of Americans. My family still observes 12 days and 12 gifts.

ACTUALLY enjoys or does a good job pretending to enjoy in exchange for cash? 🤔

Looks like fun.

Quoted 350 in call. Haven't met him yet, but was very polite and easy to communicate with.

The butterfly effect. Let's tear it apart, and see where the pieces land. Every stock I own, was puchased during a "bad downturn". Every piece of real estate I own, was snagged at the bottom of a market shift. The best time to buy is when everyone's telling you it's the worst time.

That's quite a photographer...I should hire him. My Grindr profile would be off the charts if he can work such miracles with lighting.... 🤣

I am confused. One of the photos does indeed show a handsome man with a pleasantly worked out body. But another shows someone less attractive and less muscular. Are these the same person?? 🤔 @Brosnan "He is stunningly handsome and has a killer lean ripped body" The above photo doesn't seem to match the below unless there is some serious photoshop going on above. The fellow in the photo below isn't UNatttactive...but also doesn't look like a $1000 model hire..