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Although I personally am on YOUR team @BenjaminNicholas. I know that MOST Americans will prefer more of a "safe space" experience in their destinations. English spoken, familiar customs and food choices. Thats why PV is becoming the Disneyland of Mexico. Tons of US and Canadian tourists looking for their comfort zone.

Ok..although I agree it's rather an extreme and often risky fetish, I don't think it's always something that requires psychoanalysis. Same as with hanging around gambling Casinos. That also seems to be a real waste of resources, but lots of people enjoy it. In general..fetishes are niche interests and that means niche providers. I run into this all the time when I ask people who've ticked off all the boxes about their BDSM interests and they don't even know what that is.

This is the net result of any tourist destination becoming successful... it starts to becomes more commercialized and less like its authentic self....and yes full of people who don't live there. (White or otherwise).

If they list erotic massage on their profile it's: "Hi, I would like to book an hour session of erotic massage. How much is your rate for that? Thanks ".

Sex clubs in New York are full of "people posing" because they are on full display waiting for the highest bidder. In otherwords, they stand around waiting for the best looking person to hit them up. Same strategy the gays use for Grindr. It's like they are shopping for a life-partner, not a quickie. The smart person lowers his expectations at these places.

^^ THIS ^^

Some of you guys are confusing this situation with an escort hire. @Coolwave35 met this fellow on Seeking Arrangments, not Rent.men. So there should be no relating his financial expectations with those of a high paid escort. I think agreeing to pay someone's rent is an excellent offer. It's like having a trust fund set up. I am not surprised he is fucking his brains out with Coolwave in response to such a generous offer. 🍆🍑💰💰💰🤑

Am I looking at the same profile 🤔? "Hot" ? He couldn't be more ordinary. You can find this kinda guy cruising the toilets at any roadside rest in America. I am confused. Why would you PAY to be with somebody this old and out of shape ? Is this some sort of fetish ?

Because it's a sex club.

Agreed. Sitges is a laid back beach/bar scene. Puerto Vallarta has a greater variety of debauchery available for sex tourism.

When I was young we used to do GHB for private orgies. I assumed that was included in PnP although not as common as Meth.

Thanks @DrownedBoy UHC is already starting the gaslighting and propaganda.

Wow. File this one under: "who would you pay $1000 to fuck"

And where do we find you ? @DamizzonNYC

I've had similar experiences. Hired one fellow for a massage. Ended up fucking him way past the scheduled hour. Invited him to dinner. Returned to my room for another hour of fun. Hung out till midnight chatting and met him the following day at the Tate Modern to see an exhibit we both had an interest in seeing. Then back to my hotel for more sex and then a nice lunch. A very bright intelligent and handsome young man. Who was a university student doing escort/massage to make extra cash. He's working now and no longer escorting but I still see him when I'm alone in London for dinner and a hot fuck.

True. London is expensive. But only central London. You can literally walk to counsel housing flats from every point in the city. I've always found the prices for providers in London to be very reasonable. And the company is usually very respectful too. I usually end up buying dinner and chatting with them after sex. I've met some very bright young men in London who escort on the side.

Love the chick still wearing a mask, FOUR years after the epidemic ended. Brainwashing runs deep in some. Stupidity runs deeper.

All agreed. But... I never minded when (certain) people joined in. And I am not shy about swatting undesirables away. Like you said..there's always that ONE guy who can't read the room and appears out of nowhere wanting to kiss me mid-orgasm...thus ruining my whole vibe. Obviously when I say "public" ..I meant a segment of the public in a bathhouse. I thought that was obvious and didn't need explaining.

Well..THAT is exactly why I don't think a public setting is ideal if a couple doesn't want people joining in. PAY for what you want..don't expect it to randomly happen as you wish, when you're subjected to the general public.

You may be correct. I haven't been to a bathhouse for years. But when I used to go regularly, there would be a LOT of pushing people away if I wanted a one-on-one (I rarely did). Maybe people are more shy and less eager to join than they used to be.

I wonder how many years he's been "29" ? 🤔

Boxing day! What are you returning or regifting? We always called it Saint Stephen's day. It was the day you went to visit family who you didn't see Christmas Eve or Chistmas day. Today is Saint John day. When you visit your close friends for Christmas. ( "Saint John the beloved" was known as the closest and most beloved friend and disciple of Jesus. ) So today we celebrate our most beloved friends. My wife and I are hosting friends tonight. Been cooking yet another holiday meal since 3:00pm today. Schnitzel and Rotkohl mit Spaetzle

Exactly. He used to be kinda cute. Not so, now. I haven't been a member of Equinox since the early 2000's so it was probably 20 years ago...

Africa's a big continent. Where specifically are you interested in ?