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Thanks. You found the Christmas 🎄 present I've been wanting... 🤩

Same here. I want you to want me. 😉 Nothing more disappointing and sad than a guy with a massive cock who can't conjure enough blood flow to get it hard. Give me 6 inches of rock hard dick and I'm happier than looking at 9 inches of limp sausage. I don't understand the obsession gay guys have with size. I rarely find men with huge cocks who can truly get rock hard. And if they aren't rock hard, it always makes me feel that I'm unappealing.

Love u too @samhexum 🤣 Happy Holidays. 🎄

You aren't in the relationship at all. You're a paying customer. Period. Sounds like you enjoy the fantasy of the potential for a provider to pick you as his favorite hang n bang. or maybe even leave the business for you, because you're just so perfect. That's all well&good but an emotional slippery slope if you struggle (as you most certainly are) separating your fun-fantasy from reality.

I can't tell you the number of times that I've had friends visit me in New York City and beg me to take them to one the "Best" pizza places. It's always a fail..because I take them to a place that makes REAL Italian style pizza and my middle America buddies (mostly friends from primary school or college) find the pizza to NOT to their liking. As I said...Americans like their food to be familiar. That's why you see Americans in Europe passing by incredibly good food and eating at McDonalds.

We can't discuss politics here. But the point is that anyone can be at risk of prosecution when someone is out to get you. Therfore NO paper trail should ever be left behind when it comes to escorting.

The Governor of New York was prosecuted (and publically humiliated) using the Mann-Act for hiring a female sex worker from another State. Yes...most of the time nobody cares. But you never know when somebody is going to have an "axe to grind"...you don't want documented evidence easily available.

ABSOLUTELY Some of these guys are incredibly naive about the risks you take in being so cavalier about engaging in a hobby that is still quite illegal in the US. I won't get into a political discussion..but everyone needs to be aware that anything that's illegal, yet mostly ignored, CAN be weaponized at any moment when the winds change direction in your country, state or city's legislature.

I think it becomes impossible to attract customers when the expectations are so artificially high. When I used to hook up a lot online, I refused to tell people my cock size and would only send a dick-pic. That usually seemed to satisfy most of them but had I provided a number under 8 inches (which I am) they would have surely cut off the conversation there.

American style pizza uses dry shredded mozzarella and the basil cooked into the sauce. Italian style pizza Margherita is fresh mozzarella and fresh basil with a lighter tomato sauce. The dough varies a lot from place to place in both. But I would say very often American style shops don't bother with a little burn🔥on the crust. Like most American food culture, they want each bite to taste the same instead of they way real chefs cook where each bite has a slightly different sensation as the ingredients are added whole and each bite gets different amounts of basil or cheese or sauce.

Lots of guys who escort/massage do so as their main source of income. You don't need to convince anyone here of the responsibilities of "bringing home the bacon". We get it. But ..you need to realize that ALL people who run a small business do so by accepting ALL the risk that comes with that business model. There are people who fail because they keep doing the same thing over and over and don't spend time analyzing WHY they are failing and changing how they do business (We all know who I am talking about). I hope the advice given by the professionals is helpful and adaptable to your situation. As a client I also spend time vetting a potential hire by analyzing the tone of the communication and thinking carefully about the type of person I am going to be meeting. You need to weed out the weirdos and focus on the nice guys and try to establish a regular relationship so you're less exposed to flakes and fakes.

Thank you @mike carey I hear a voice of reason in this thread from some of the other providers. You need to learn to "read the room". Stop the freaks who are sexting with you by insisting a first timer pick up a phone and have a conversation. I am married with kids myself...so I completely understand discretion. But if a mature adult man hasnt figured out a way to work out his method of discretion around his relationship...then THAT alone is a red flag right there. @Vin Marco seems to have figured it out and limited his exposure. I suggest his advice be read more than once and some time spent applying it to your own business model. As Mike pointed out..I won't waste time repeating the obvious. Time to move on to LISTENING to the very good advice being given and using it.

I like that he added his high school yearbook photo. 🤣

All gay men are 8 inches or above. (According to every profile)

Was it ? I think everyone said the same thing. Don't lie to your friends. Hardly "mean girl" territory.

As always @nycman you're the voice of bareback denial. FACT: Syphilis can live in your body with no symptoms. After time it reaches a level where no known cure exists.

I dont think that's always true. Personally I like to hire people for an erotic session. I'm not really into full-on-sex with a complete stranger. I've had a lot of satisfying sessions over the years with erotic masseurs.

Ask the question = get an answer. You don't want to be judged, then you could consider keeping your private life private. Once you share your thoughts you will get opinions that you may not like. I don't judge people for how they run their sex life. But I do draw an ethical line at deliberately lying to people who you consider to be your friends.

I picked up some balloons for a birthday party last week. I noticed there was something "off". Their usual gigantic Balloon display was empty. You could still choose something from the racks and have it inflated. It felt almost like they were getting ready to wind down this service, although not close the entire store.

Definitely worth the trip to Nutley. (He advertises as nearby Montclair). I booked a 90 minute session of mixed therapeutic/sensual/ erotic for $300. I have to say that was probably the BEST mixed modality session I've had in many years. He's definitely a trained masseur with strong hands that dig in deep and he knows where to dig. As the session proceeds he mixes in sensual touch and some erotic teasing. The build up from teasing to overtly sexual was wonderfully intuitive. I was rock-hard and really turned on for quite some time before he finished me off. I was also pleased to receive a relaxing neck and head massage after my full-release. Something that really stands out when so many other providers just sort of abandon you and turn on the lights after you shoot your load. SensualMasseurNJ is a good looking guy, very fit with a thick muscular rugby-boy body and a great ass. Not a fashion model, but very boy-next-door sexy. On top of all this he's a kind and giving personality and very generous with his body. I cant say enough good about this guy. Says he travels too...but I prefer a massage on a table. I tipped generously as the session was above and beyond my expectations. So the total was expensive for a massage but fine with me for the very well composed erotic offerings in the mix.

He's not incorrect. American style pizza 🍕 is a popular global food phenomenon. So much so that even in Italy you will find American style pizza served in the major tourist areas. Over the last twenty years and 40 countries..I can't think of one destination where American style pizza wasnt an offering in the main tourist district.

Hopefully not. With 25% of the ENTIRETY of the wealth of the American middle class floating to the top 1% over the last four years....Corporate greed is a HUGE problem that could use a symbolic martyr to keep the public awareness alive.

For free ? Don't all the kids monetize their pretty bits now ?

I had one cousin who I used to hose but he was really, really pretty.