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Exactly. The hair salon on my street charges $600 for cut and color. Don't like that? / Don't go there. Can you get that done for half ? Probably. Will it be as good ? Probably not. We cant all afford the best. But some can. That hair salon is busy every day.

Social media exposure.

Honesty is the best policy. You shared this with us. You need to share this with him. Nothing wrong with a provider doing follow ups with a regular. He is running a business. He is merely trying to manage his cash flow. Many of these young guys (if he IS a young pup) need guidance on these details. As far as I know most of these guys don't take courses in how to run a massage/escort business. If you feel he's being too aggressive, SAY SO. You say you enjoy the service and you enjoy the company, so I don't understand any of these people telling you to "LIE" or to "BLOCK". That is terrible advice. Talk about shooting yourself in the foot

Clearly. if we are talking about $300 as an "outrageous" fee for someone's time. My lawyer charges $500/hr. My Plumber charges $300/hr. Neither one of them ever brought me to orgasm.....😉

I remember when I was younger and hook-ups were initiated from meeting someone at a bar...I'd sometimes get home and decide I wasn't really into my chosen partner. So if I wanted to be polite I would just let them fuck me...since that way the easiest way to get the job done and send them home.

No face = no interest from me.

He used to escort. So did his husband. I've hired the hubby several times. Therefore I know exactly where they lived.

Tomato/Tom-ahto

I hire escorts for sex. Not affection. So cuddling after sex is NOT something I want and would turn down if offered. Like a lot of men, I compartmentalize my sex life. I still enjoy the company of my wife, so any needs for affection are still satisfied at home. But like a LOT of people, when youre married for nearly two decades, your sex life at home takes a nose-dive and its nice to be able to branch out and find other ways to satisfy those needs. I do still feel very happy curled up next to my wife (and former bestie). So cuddling with anyone else would feel wrong to me. Not just with an escort.

Oh wow. HOW horrible for his family. What a terrible thing to die over something so simple as a strong tidal force.

Oh God no. That would be creepy for me. I wonder what the demographics are with that statement. How many men want affection and a "cuddle" and how many just want the down-n-dirty. I mean, I'm married...so "cuddling" with an escort would just seem so wrong to me. Like a lot of men, I compartmentalize my sex life. But I'm sure the first and most obvious division would be exactly THAT: those who are single and those who are in relationships. I have a feeling @marylander1940 that it's not "most". But I'd be curious to know the percentage. Material for a new thread, I suppose.

I didn't realize he had such a diversity in his audience.

I knew a straight fellow who told me he enjoyed anal play and would engage in it with his girlfriend using sex-toys on his ass. He told me he always wondered what it would be like actually get fucked by a guy....*hint*hint*. So I volunteered. 🍆 He said he had a good time. (He definitely stayed hard and shot a big load.) But said he still preferred the company of women, in bed. I have no reason to believe otherwise. He and his g.f. eventually married. He's never mentioned any other same-sex experimenting to me. So...it is possible to enjoy anal penetration but not be too into the rest of the gay sex repertoire .

I never say anything, except "thank you" and then decline from tipping. I am always hopeful that a financial disappointment will speak more loudly than anything that might have come out of my mouth.

I've tried watching Colbert's show several times, under the impression it was a comedy show. Seemed more like a propaganda feed to me. Never understood how it stayed on the air as long as it did.

Not to mention: if you're MARKETING your heteronormative personality, you certainly don't TELL anyone that you're merely bisexual. "I only get turned on by dick if you pay me", is like a golden ticket to desperate gay men who crave sex with "straight" guys.

Well ..thats what he tells YOU. Bisexuality and one's sexual identity are always an interesting gray area.

My real estate taxes on my house are $7500 a month and I'm on a prime West Village block. $20K is absurd. I'm guessing your quoting the fee for one of those Arab Oil Sheik piggy-banks on 57th st.

In the end....if you're regularly having sex with men, you're NOT "straight". ALTHOUGH I have always consistently supported a person's right to IDENTIFY their sexuality as they choose. The reality of "straight" providers is that they are either merely using their "straight" identity as a marketing ploy, or as @marylander1940 points out, have some serious identity crisis going on and have a multitude of other symptoms that go well beyond this self-absorbed-gay-dude who thinks he's God's gift to escorting. I like the company of "str8" guys myself, ( paid and unpaid ) so I've witnessed first-hand, the mental acrobatics some of them put themselves through. Not always so easy to deal with. I don't love the "internalized homophobia" term. Their dilemma goes way beyond that description. It's a big ball of FEAR banging into a lot of MALE EGO that comes out the other end as SUPPRESSED ANGER.

Nice to see he's being smart and investing his money. All pretty-boys have an expiration date. Sounds like he's prepared for his own.

Got a nice follow up message today. Looking forward to another session. Definitely recommended for anyone passing through Fort Lauderdale or Boca Raton areas.

I dont know about a "forever" friend, but I did see a fellow pretty regularly for about four years who was in nursing school. Now that he's working at a hospital full time, he isn't doing massage/escort anymore...and is in a relationship too. But we keep in touch a few times a year. Very proud of him. Makes me happy to know he's doing well. I like hearing from him and that he keeps in touch. Always sends me a nice message over the holidays

Isn't that rather a big advantage ? Most Rentmen profiles are desperately lacking. Like you...I dont hire for the mystique of being in porn . It just convenient to have a good idea of what they're like in bed. I think thats a valuable bit of information as it can prevent me spending money on poor performance. Better to spend $600 on someone you KNOW is good in bed, than waste $300.on some eye candy that cant perform.