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Well...according to some of the gentlemen here...its a new ask...but the providers have always had a right to run their business as they see fit. Same with deposits. Just say no. (If you dont like it).

Well...for the purpose of this conversation: Its the person who youre asking to have sex with you ! Everyone can take ONE good photo. One of my childhood girlfriends is now very fat. I still love her and am overjoyed when I see here. I don't think I could fuck her..but I still think she's sweet.She has some nice face.pix that she uses for her job. (LinkedIN) etc

Is that true ? I can't be THAT much of an outlier. I understand that some people only use escorts services because they are so unattractive that nobody would fuck them for free...so being rejected by their last chance at getting laid would be humiliating and sad. But the guys who I seek are good looking enough that they can pick and choose the clients they want. So I dont mind the momentary gatekeeping if it gets me what I want.

I have NO problem providing a photo. I dont send nudes to escorts. I send face/clothed body shots. Its not Grindr, but they do have a right to see who they are meeting.

We were talking about people flaking. I am not casting doubt on people coming and going in DC. THAT happens after every change of administration. I am saying that I dont think that many people are losing their job simultaneous to having contacted an escort so that they need to suddenly cancel.

He reached out to me recently and said hes on his way back to New York.

That doesnt make ANY sense. Does eveyone in DC get fired hours after contacting an escort ? 🤔

No one is in the city July 4th Weekend. Thats why.

There are a lot of closeted gay men who contact masseurs and escorts and follow through a booking up to a point, but then get cold feet (or they finished jerking off thinking about it). then disappear. Its an unfortunate risk of the trade. Always try to foster as many regulars as possible.

"Kia"...good misdirect, Kai. Pretend you cant spell your own name. Our respect for you would be higher if you'd come here honestly instead of pretending to be someone else and failing miserably at the deception.

Impossible to get a weekend reservation if you dont book months in advance.

I would agree that escort prices are more commonly understood as one price including anything from their "list of toppings". But masseurs are not escorts and their base rate isnt necessarily going to be worth licking your balls while you jerk off in their face. So the a la carte menu brings more clarity to some providers' willingness to go beyond the standard business model of a rub & tug.

I hope the gentlemen you hire are not actually treated as such. NO. its NOT the same.

I concur with that analysis about Kai. My "bad reputation" comment was more geared toward the issue in general where people suddenly pop in to comment on a thread where SOME (& sometimes all) the contributors had a negative experience. In this case the mood swings, bad temper, and awkward communications style are definitely red flags for some people to be cautious when considering taking the plunge. He's an attractive fellow. I personally wish the comments supported a more consistently pleasant experience.

It's been frequently discussed here. I have rarely run into it myself. But I have even had actual menus with prices texted to me by providers. Handjob+50. Blowjob+100 Fuck +200 💰

What a coincidence. 🤣 It's always the people who "just signed up" who are quick to refute significant amounts of information surrounding the providers with bad reputations.

I don't blame you. We always leave town for the day. The "ghetto" behavior tends to be at night, when we return and it's primarily the Lesbians making the worst impression on the people who live here. Much of the most outrageous behavior coincides with screaming IN SPANISH. Thus my opinion that the "ghetto" behavior at Pride is heavily concentrated in the Lesbian Latina community.

"Nico" in New York, is delicious. Is he really 38 in those photos ? It's rare for me to find a man in his late thirties to be attractive to me. (Not that I wouldn't agree that they were an attractive person). Just not MY thing. I wonder if Nico's photography choices were from his younger modeling days.

Part of the confusion lies in THIS fact: The category of "erotic" massage has been eliminated. It was commonly understood by most clients, that an "erotic" session INCLUDED a happy-ending hand job. (Most of the time). The move toward "sensual" being the only other category is that "sensual "does NOT guarantee a happy ending. (Not that "erotic" was a 100% guarantee either). Since providers DID typically charge more for erotic over sensual, what happens now is that when you book a sensual session, you pay for the sensual lead up, but the a la carte hand job becomes a separate charge. Different providers approach this in different ways. Some will tell you there's a menu BEFORE. Some will offer a menu IN THE MIDDLE and others will bring dessert to the table without asking. THAT is typically understood as a treat offered in exchange for a generous tip. There have been numerous massage providers over the years, who I hired, approached the happy ending as a treat and I tipped VERY generously. The next session always included additional treats, and many more ended up with full blown sexual services that were never discussed as a menu item. Just accepted my generosity. But one need to be sensitive to what generous means.

I've lived in NYC for nearly 30 years. THAT has never been MY perception. New Yorkers are VERY much sensitive to behavior...BECAUSE skin color is so diverse in every social circle, that you could never accurately define a person by their melanin alone. Only at the upper-upper reaches of monied society, does the ballroom become bright white, with guests while the brown people serve caviar. MY understanding of "ghetto" is behavior. I have enough friends who are people of color to know that they dont mean "black" when they say "ghetto". Secondly: my observation of this ghetto behavior during gay pride would be that its predominantly seen in the Latina Lesbians, not black people. I am a total snob about behavior. But that doesnt make me a racist. I grew up where the majority of trash were white hillbillies.

I suggest you STOP fooling yourself. THAT is the problem, here.

We had it last night with a filet of sole San Carlo. Delicious. 😋

I dont. I have zero interest in men my own age. In my late 20s..yes I dated men my age. Now..I am not dating and not attracted to anything over 30.

NYC is a frying pan 99 degrees Fahrenheit . Haven't left the house in two days, except to get a coffee on the corner.

www.calvinklein.us Too many people shop outlets believing they are getting the same clothing for half price. They arent. Outlets license the name and sell second quality goods with the brand stitched into it. I buy mine at Bloomingdales (when they go on sale).