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The gays are already spreading STIs like candy at Halloween .

Thanks @BOZO T CLOWN I knew about the rest but George Tobias is news to me! Very interesting . Bernard Fox (Dr. Bombay) was married with children but often rumored to be bisexual.

I think THIS is the only substantive change. LOTS of pretty boys with Instagram physiques who have marketing campaigns that draw the "high roller" clientele of the world. Those of us with normal and even comfortable budgets can't reach the stratosphere of the new norm of Kardashian-world-style cock-commerce.

Quite the general question, dont you think? In the world of escorting there has certainly been more than ONE hairy chested couple who fucked old men for money.

Well....even as we age, personal grooming is still something that helps take the edge off the 'ick' factor. The lazy eye can be fabulous if you make it your own. I Loved Marty Feldman.

Maybe you need better photos. Most escorts arent expecting George Clooney to be texting them.

I haven't set foot in a gay bar since the 90s. I get hit-on all the time in NYC. Nobody seems to rely on "gay physical spaces" here. I don't doubt those are still important in small towns or states like Kentucky or Arkansas....but I have never felt unsafe cruising guys in public, while standing in most any of the major cities in the US. The rule of thumb has always been that straight guys may look at you once, but if hes looking back again...he ain't straight..

I have the same opinion. Nice fellow. nice looking . .but the experience was not worth repeating.

Everyone I know who's young and single and gay living in NYC says dating is near impossible here. Most blame it on the hook-up culture, which has grown exponentially with the ease of meeting from apps. "Anonymity" is now a desirable feature of online hook ups that wraps the whole experience into an immediate environment of emotional emptiness. Share two photos / meet / fuck / leave. Most guys don't even share their name anymore, let alone open up their souls to a vulnerability that begs to see if their partner is nurturing enough to hang on to... None of these young guys ever wants someone to see who they really are. It disrupts the glamor of their Instagram feed.

Same. Tried many people who claim to provide edging, yet haven't met anyone who's actually good for many YEARS.

His interests include Bondage, fisting and piss play....the photos are of a young man who's beyond handsome. The TGTBT vibe is heavy here.

One of the most recommended providers on this site. Definitely a gem, but hardly "hidden".

If youre in a high risk group, you should not skip the Covid shot. Although it doesn't prevent you from catching Covid, it does accelerate the body's natural immune response. They have yet to find a human who doesn't make an immune response to Covid. Just that many people made the response too slowly and the virus replicated too quickly.

Its called dark humor. Some people don't have enough joy in their life to laugh at the absurdity of the world and others do.

Todd is straight?? 🤔

Might I inquire....what is in this "mix" ? ..and ...what is your cultural background as opposed to ethnic background ?

Sometimes what we seek in a relationship are too specific and too multifaceted.

You may be surprised to discover how shallow many gay male relationships really are in NYC. Many of the young guys who I know are constantly in rent-not-buy mode. Always one foot out the door and emotionally detachable in case of emergency. Gay marriage is now as common as gay divorce. Boredom is an emotion that young gay men struggle with, and have little patience for. (Yes, I am generalizing)..but the generalization is not uncommon.

Seems to be making the rounds for rich gay men with a fetish for the Kardashians.

I'm gonna tackle this question after also reading all the other commentary that's been shared. I will precede my "analysis" with an explanation. Although shared before on C.o.M., you may not know where I am coming from. When I was in my early 30's, I identified as a gay man. I started dating men after many years of exclusively dating women.(Although sexually active with both). I am sharing this information, to say that I also found dating gay men to be difficult. Although the initial connections felt "right", every situation felt transactional in the sense that I was somehow there to entertain my partner and once I no longer brought fresh excitement to the meet ups, the interest waned. I also noticed that gay men rarely have the ability to give up their hook up lifestyle even for a few months while they focus on a relationship. (I dont believe in long-term sexual monogamy, but I do feel its important as a method of imprinting during a period of focused dating with one partner). My opinion over all, is that dating gay men in NYC is problematic because there are SO many emotional distractions. Loads of parties, venues, and available dick that makes these guys dopamine-junkies. This may likely be why so many end up meth addicted, when they run out of external stimuli to keep the brain-chemical party going. The overall unpleasant result of trying to date a dopamine junkie, is ABANDONMENT. Your feelings of being "seen" by your provider were an unexpected reward in an environment where the power-of-the-purse had you in control of the moment. The comment: "why do you need to pay" was an ego burst of "you are special" commentary that your mom might have given you at five years old. So familiar patterns of feeling cherished, understood and satisfied ensued. Overall, you've managed to pick well, and have scored a true professional escort. Because these are all the feelings that a lonely person, who is frequently feeling abandoned would seek. He sounds like a keeper. When you date, you are both going to be looking for the OTHER person, to be making the effort to provide a lot of familar sensory experiences. When either of you gets lazy, (or exhausted), the magic is gone. When you HIRE an experienced professional, you are guaranteed a magic show without needing to pull a rabbit put of the hat yourself, just pull out your wallet to say thanks for a wonderful time. To be clear...ALL relationships are difficult. I ended up marrying one of my college friends (female). I never did meet a guy who I felt wouldn't ultimately abandon me when he got bored. The trick is to find someone who doesn't mind being bored with you.

Time for a new therapist.

The problem here is that this is a shifting reality. Every few years you get someone running for local office who "wants to clean up" their district. Prostitution is always a favorite target because it will fly with people from either side of the aisle,(for the most part.)

Well...I get laid plenty without hiring. So..there's THAT. As far as the frankness of my opinions being "gross"..I am aware that some may find it as such. You are free to join in that opinion. I am not everyone's cup of tea..and I dont try to be. But when I DO have a personal relationship with someone ..you will find I am actually far more kind than you may think.

I dont know about the "steroids" but totally agree this is very much typical millennial behavior. Thing is...hes over 30 ..so should be more understanding of the concept of being on time. Im guessing its more of a brain-cloud from being depressed and/or substance abuse to self medicate. Either way, my opinion stands...a little empathy required when dealing with people. Maybe 45 minutes exceeds some limits. Thats fine we all have tolerance levels. But I find the whole attitude of coming here to bash the fellow's business etiquette, while KNOWING hes going though a rough patch to be more than a little selfish and frankly gross. As @BaronArtz said. It speaks as to why some people NEED to hire to get laid.