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He's a good guy with a great massage technique, just... be mindful that he doesn't feel comfortable talking about any 'extras'.

Lists PNP and has a picture with one of those cock pumps. To ME that always implies they use meth and needs the pump to get hard.

For christmas I sent a provider I spent a lot of time with last year a $100 gift card to their favorite restaurant and a card.

https://rentmen.eu/Girth_Quake I met him so you don't have to. He's nice, but he was tweaking bad when we met. Reeked of crystal if you know what I mean. Was late almost 2hrs.

Reminds me, this escort would check out my RM profile and ping me at times to see if I wanted to book and I would tell him that I wasn't really interested, his profile said verse/bottom and I'm a bottom so I just wasn't interested. He said "I'll give ya a deal of $300" (I'm in LA) and I told him I would reach out cause I was traveling at the time. About a month and a half later, I reach out over text ask him how he is doing yada yada and when I talk about booking time and we choose a time he replies "It's $350/hr" and I went "Wait, didn't you say $300?!" and he said "OK I can do that". He comes over, we have some fun (nothing amazing/incredible) and he leaves, a few days later I check and he had given me a MR NUMBER review saying 'Cheap guy' (and I know it was him cause I hadn't booked anyone in two months). Well, he got a review back "SCAMMER AVOID". I don't negotiate, I've paid 500/hr with a min of 2 hours to 250/300hr in LA to all sorts, I have no issue with it. What I have an issue with is moving the target after agreeing on something, or worse going in the middle of the session "Kissing is $50 more, Cum is $50, etc"

Seriously haha I've met Dan twice and he was fantastic both times.

IIRC someone said Michael is like 1k/hr so YMMV.

Interestingly enough, I had a conversation with @SecretProvidera few months back where he didn't believe when I said escorts would demand 5 start reviews and be so upfront and borderline threatening if you didn't. I've resorted to "I don't have premium sorry"

I hear you and in my experience when I've "leaned in" I've ended up disappointed. That's that

Yes, but you still require the skill haha. I can pretend I am a very skilled gymnast, but I still need to be able to do the jumps and splits.

You misunderstand and are putting on me things that I do not subscribe to. I'm fully verse and idgaf about Top and Bottom roles, I fuck ass and get fucked by dick, there's no "bottom shame" on my side. When I'm looking to hire a Blacksmith and I see an Ad for someone, and I check their work and ALL of their work is in Carpentry, chances are, they won't be as good as a Blacksmith as they are as a Carpenter. There's no shame involved in it. There's no 'societal roles' and the like. Can they do the job, yes or no? If I see an Ad for someone and see all their smithing work chances are, they'll do a smithing job without issues. The times I've hired a Carpenter to do Smithing work I've been very disappointed and so I don't hire Carpenters anymore and ask them to do Smithing work. Do you see now how I see it ? Top/Bottom it doesn't matter, can you do the job yes or no and I've found that those whose content/profile mainly features them bottoming it doesn't inspire in me the confidence that they'll be able to Top and to that effect at least 6 guys have had issues performing the way I describe. So yes, that works for me to self select. I'm looking for a Blacksmith and a Carpenter just won't do, even if they swear they can do Smithing work.

It wasn't just one and one bad experience. I can count in two hands the times providers who advertise as Tops can't perform because they're really bottoms. One of them even asked me if I had any Viagra or Trimmix. So I am looking for that Top energy and if there's any indication offsite that they cannot bring it, I won't book. Many of them have OFs, Twitter, and yes even grindr/scruff/sniffies profiles, if in any of them they're overwhelmingly bottoming, I won't book, I've already been burnt several times.

I 100% get what you're saying, having said that I have been burnt before by providers whom I know are bttms in real life and aren't able to perform as Tops. So I rather not engage when I see it is SO far off from who they are.

The only time it makes no sense for me is when what they're advertise is so far away from who they are. I know someone in LA, they're this muscled stud, I've seen him on the apps as a 'Bottom' with his profile saying 'total bottom', I've seen him at the LA sex parties always ass up taking dick, I've seen him on sniffies posting his cumdumps where he takes 20 dicks a night, which is hot there's nothing wrong with that. He advertises as a Top however, so I see him topping as something so far away from who he is. I have to know/feel like they're into it even if it's very slight. It's like, I don't hire straight guys. I don't care if they can get hard and fuck, I know they're straight and not into it.

I met him once and he wasn't great, he was definitely rude at that time. This was yeeears ago but he reached out to me about 6 months ago saying he was visiting town and when I gave him the feedback he apologized and said he now knows better and if I could give him a chance. I did and we had a lot of good fun.