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I met him once and he wasn't great, he was definitely rude at that time. This was yeeears ago but he reached out to me about 6 months ago saying he was visiting town and when I gave him the feedback he apologized and said he now knows better and if I could give him a chance. I did and we had a lot of good fun.

Interesting topic.
I don’t think this is about whether providers are “allowed” to have preferences — of course they are. That part feels obvious.
What this situation highlights for me is something a bit deeper about how these bookings actually work.
When people hire, they’re not just paying for the physical act. Part of the value is the feeling of being wanted, or at least not being actively outside of someone’s type. It’s understood that it’s transactional, but there’s still a layer of perceived desire that makes the experience land differently.
Seeing a personal profile that’s very blunt or exclusionary doesn’t offend me — but it does change the framing. It introduces a gap between how someone presents professionally versus how they express themselves personally, and that gap can make the experience feel more transactional than immersive.
At that point, it’s not about judging him or taking it personally. It’s just a different risk profile as a client:
higher chance the vibe feels mechanical less confidence in genuine engagement harder to buy into the experience So for me, it’s less “he shouldn’t have preferences” and more “this specific signal lowers the value of the booking.”
Everyone’s threshold will be different, but I don’t think it’s unreasonable to factor that into a decision and just move on.

This happened to me last year.
Met a fantastic provider, and told him my expectations. He was delivering those expectations... until he started slipping. We would meet for 2-3 hours usually and would have overnights once a month or every other month. After about 5 months he just... started doing the bare minimum. He didn't cum anymore (on 2-3 hour meets AND overnights). I told him that I expected it, he said that was the goal but sometimes he couldn't which I understood once, or twice but after 4-5 meets and him not delivering, I told him that I appreciated our time together but if he wasn't able to cum I understood but it wasn't going to work for me.
I told him if anything were to change on his side to let me know but I wasn't going to book again. He understood but don't think he took it well.
You stop booking, that's what you do. You tell them you expect X. If they don't deliver X then you don't book again.

I did ask him several times and told him that I understood if he was going through something or using a new medication or whatever. He never really shared anything else other than "It's just difficult for me to cum". 

So by that logic, you’d be open to seeing a client for free sometimes, just because it’s nice and makes them feel cared for?

Atlantis will throw you out really fast if they find out you’re actively soliciting onboard btw. I’d put on your ad that you’ll be available in the locations the cruise will stop at on the dates it does and without saying “Atlantis” directly you can say “On a cruise ship from X date to Y date”. 

I think when people, especially people here, refer to "drugs" as bad we're talking about the big offenders of badness: Meth, GHB, fent/morphine/opiods like cocaine. These are the ones that'll most likely cause sudden erratic behavior. Alcohol takes time, weed doesn't, aspirin??caffeine? nobody is referring to those.

I think when people, especially people here, refer to "drugs" as bad we're talking about the big offenders of badness: Meth, GHB, fent/morphine/opiods like cocaine. These are the ones that'll most likely cause sudden erratic behavior. Alcohol takes time, weed doesn't, aspirin??caffeine? nobody is referring to those.

He’s a superstar. Some of you know from my posts this past week I was putting the feelers this week for a new NY regular bf and amongst the ones I met Dino is the real deal and absolutely worth the price. We spent 2hours which I extended by another happily. 
 
He’s a professional in every way. Being on time, conversation, prowress, make out skills and everything else he is a superstar and I think I may have found the perfect regular 😉 
The ones charging 300 or less will stand you up, show up high, be rude, etc but at Dinos price point there’ll be no hesitation as to the pro he is, TRUST me

Check their ads for any keywords. 
 
PNP, Party, random G or K capital letters, clouds, smoke, crystal emojis or party hat emojis. “Long sessions” can also mean drug usage 

If they're someone I see regularly (2x a month) and ESPECIALLY if we do something like overnights or 3+ hour meets... I would expect them to reach out to me randomly in between meets with sexy /erotic messages. A once or twice a week "can't wait to get in that ass again" "I'm so hard remembering you sucking my cock" things that make me go "fuckkkkk" and keep me wanting to add more time or more bookings.

Oh I didn't come in with a follow up.
He reached out a few weeks after, I told him I was gonna be in Miami later that month, I told him we could do two hours he said he was excited, lets do it. Throughout the week he was texting me about it. The day before I said "OK See ya tomorrow at 8PM" he said "Yes!" The day of I texted him at noon "Hey still on at 8 right?" no answer. Around 5PM "Hey let me know if we're still on so I can get ready". He never replied. Never showed up. I blocked him everywhere, there's no point with him, 100% flake.

THIS is what just happened to me. Total jerk of message. Asked for a deposit then said "Are you going to book or should I answer someone else texting me?", I said "Happy to pay your uber but not putting a $100 deposit. I can share my rmen username so you know I'm legit" and went off on me "I also have FANTASTIC REVIEWS and DON'T NEED YOU, PASS" and blocked me. Avoid this jerk face

If they're someone I see regularly (2x a month) and ESPECIALLY if we do something like overnights or 3+ hour meets... I would expect them to reach out to me randomly in between meets with sexy /erotic messages. A once or twice a week "can't wait to get in that ass again" "I'm so hard remembering you sucking my cock" things that make me go "fuckkkkk" and keep me wanting to add more time or more bookings.

If they're someone I see regularly (2x a month) and ESPECIALLY if we do something like overnights or 3+ hour meets... I would expect them to reach out to me randomly in between meets with sexy /erotic messages. A once or twice a week "can't wait to get in that ass again" "I'm so hard remembering you sucking my cock" things that make me go "fuckkkkk" and keep me wanting to add more time or more bookings.

Lets see
https://rentmen.eu/Rainer
https://rentmen.eu/TheLawsonGraves

THIS is what just happened to me. Total jerk of message. Asked for a deposit then said "Are you going to book or should I answer someone else texting me?", I said "Happy to pay your uber but not putting a $100 deposit. I can share my rmen username so you know I'm legit" and went off on me "I also have FANTASTIC REVIEWS and DON'T NEED YOU, PASS" and blocked me. Avoid this jerk face

If I see someone with 'PNP' on their profile I won't book. When I've asked about this they either refer to Meth, or GHB. The whole "I have PNP in case my clients use, but I don't" is... sus.

I think when people, especially people here, refer to "drugs" as bad we're talking about the big offenders of badness: Meth, GHB, fent/morphine/opiods like cocaine. These are the ones that'll most likely cause sudden erratic behavior. Alcohol takes time, weed doesn't, aspirin??caffeine? nobody is referring to those.

I think when people, especially people here, refer to "drugs" as bad we're talking about the big offenders of badness: Meth, GHB, fent/morphine/opiods like cocaine. These are the ones that'll most likely cause sudden erratic behavior. Alcohol takes time, weed doesn't, aspirin??caffeine? nobody is referring to those.

I did a few weeks ago, he's got a huge dick and is always hard I'll say, but he does seem to be gay4pay so don't expect a gay time haha

THIS is what just happened to me. Total jerk of message. Asked for a deposit then said "Are you going to book or should I answer someone else texting me?", I said "Happy to pay your uber but not putting a $100 deposit. I can share my rmen username so you know I'm legit" and went off on me "I also have FANTASTIC REVIEWS and DON'T NEED YOU, PASS" and blocked me. Avoid this jerk face

If I see someone with 'PNP' on their profile I won't book. When I've asked about this they either refer to Meth, or GHB. The whole "I have PNP in case my clients use, but I don't" is... sus.

I recently had a massage guy in LA who would charge escort rates and we did some side play at the end of the massage, all good no problem. Until one time there was no side play after and I still paid escort rate and left... a week later he texts me asking if I wanted to book and I told him that while enjoy the massage the previous time there was no side play and... he went off on me saying that he brings ENERGY and his SELF to the whole session and he shouldn't feel PRESSURED to do things he didn't want to do.
I said "OK Understood" and didn't book again. 

In the gay community mostly Meth and GHB. Cocaine too. I don't book anyone with PNP on their profile.