savantsav

Getting pulled on this as I keep getting tagged. 
 
Sorry you went through all that but I don’t believe you had no way to let me know you couldn’t make it. You showed online on RM throughout the day and how convenient that when I texted you at 10:40pm then is when you could reply to me, in here you shared our screenshots but conveniently left out the ones where I’m texting you, all very sus behavior. You were cavalier with my feelings. 
 
Stop tagging me here, what you did was done and TL;DR for those in the future landing here. Never give him a deposit and make sure you have a plan b in place in case he flakes and won’t tell you

You had the whole day to let me know. I messaged you at 8am asking if you had made it to LA. You didn’t answer. I texted again already at 10:40PM asking what’s up saying hopefully you’re good and sound and THAT’s when you replied to me finally saying you had been sick. You know you could’ve messaged me at any time throughout the day to let me know. That’s the professional thing to do.
 
You want me to be empathetic about you being sick but there’s no empathy with my time. A reply to my 8am text “Sorry I’m sick can we move?” Would’ve have been the RIGHT and professional thing to do. Not wait until I text YOU again late in the evening for you to finally tell me you’re sick. 
 
and I put you on “blast” by…. coming to this thread and sharing the experience? Tagged you so you could provide your side?
That’s putting you on blast?
If this is an industry or business you want to be in, being professional by respecting people’s time is Escorting 101. I’m done with this conversation. Others should know to be mindful how you can just blow them off without a warning even after having confirmed. 

I tagged him so he could come defend himself. Wasn’t just gonna talk behind his back. 
 
and I can stay here allllll you all want. We already got to the root that I do not believe he couldn’t reach out. That’s it. Anything else you or anyone else wants to add? We can keep going in circles. 

I didn’t say you asked me for one, I said to people in the future to not give you one because you might flake on them. 
 
Again, I’m sorry about what happened to you, but I do not believe you had no way to reply for over 12hrs and it was only when I texted again late in the evening when conveniently you were waking up from your IV and was able to reply. You were not going to reach out on your own.  
 
There’s nothing at this point you can say that’ll make me believe you couldn’t so we’ll agree to disagree on that. 
 
That’s it, stop tagging me. I’m moving on. 

Daytime Soap Operas don't have this much drama or last for this long
 

Getting pulled on this as I keep getting tagged. 
 
Sorry you went through all that but I don’t believe you had no way to let me know you couldn’t make it. You showed online on RM throughout the day and how convenient that when I texted you at 10:40pm then is when you could reply to me, in here you shared our screenshots but conveniently left out the ones where I’m texting you, all very sus behavior. You were cavalier with my feelings. 
 
Stop tagging me here, what you did was done and TL;DR for those in the future landing here. Never give him a deposit and make sure you have a plan b in place in case he flakes and won’t tell you

Robert is amazing, we’ve met twice now and he’s great and legit

I’m gonna bump this because since this happened he reached out and apologized. We’ve met 3 times since and can say he’s fantastic. His directness can be considered rude but after meeting him I realized is really more about the language barrier. 
 
He read the menu and his delivery is top notch 

Getting pulled on this as I keep getting tagged. 
 
Sorry you went through all that but I don’t believe you had no way to let me know you couldn’t make it. You showed online on RM throughout the day and how convenient that when I texted you at 10:40pm then is when you could reply to me, in here you shared our screenshots but conveniently left out the ones where I’m texting you, all very sus behavior. You were cavalier with my feelings. 
 
Stop tagging me here, what you did was done and TL;DR for those in the future landing here. Never give him a deposit and make sure you have a plan b in place in case he flakes and won’t tell you

He's OK. Nice guy but maybe he was tired but he couldn't perform...

I'm poly so those feelings are different I guess? I can have affection for whomever is my current regular BFE provider but I know it's not love and 100% understand if there were no money involved they would have no reason to even talk to me. I'm hopeful they like me the same way you would like your coffee shop barista at least but I know unless they want coffee we won't be hanging out and chatting.

Getting pulled on this as I keep getting tagged. 
 
Sorry you went through all that but I don’t believe you had no way to let me know you couldn’t make it. You showed online on RM throughout the day and how convenient that when I texted you at 10:40pm then is when you could reply to me, in here you shared our screenshots but conveniently left out the ones where I’m texting you, all very sus behavior. You were cavalier with my feelings. 
 
Stop tagging me here, what you did was done and TL;DR for those in the future landing here. Never give him a deposit and make sure you have a plan b in place in case he flakes and won’t tell you

Also to everyone that reached out to me privately here, by text, by RM messenger, and to those that came to my aid I am so overwhelmed by the love and support especially while I’m still healing.
 
If we ever meet as client and provider I will show you just how grateful I am 😈🤤🥵 . 

I didn’t say you asked me for one, I said to people in the future to not give you one because you might flake on them. 
 
Again, I’m sorry about what happened to you, but I do not believe you had no way to reply for over 12hrs and it was only when I texted again late in the evening when conveniently you were waking up from your IV and was able to reply. You were not going to reach out on your own.  
 
There’s nothing at this point you can say that’ll make me believe you couldn’t so we’ll agree to disagree on that. 
 
That’s it, stop tagging me. I’m moving on. 

I didn’t say you asked me for one, I said to people in the future to not give you one because you might flake on them. 
 
Again, I’m sorry about what happened to you, but I do not believe you had no way to reply for over 12hrs and it was only when I texted again late in the evening when conveniently you were waking up from your IV and was able to reply. You were not going to reach out on your own.  
 
There’s nothing at this point you can say that’ll make me believe you couldn’t so we’ll agree to disagree on that. 
 
That’s it, stop tagging me. I’m moving on. 

The topic here is CLIENTS getting bad reviews. Or you think that clients acting in a way that results in bad reviews is cool?
My experience, both here and in other industries, is that workers generally only complain about bad customers, never good ones. 
Interesting that everyone is quick to jump up and down when providers behave in a way that results in bad reviews, (as they should)  but as soon as providers complain about similar behavior - the reply is to tell them to just get burner phones and don't address their behavior.
It's really disheartening and upsetting to read.

Robert is amazing, we’ve met twice now and he’s great and legit

No need to thank me at all - feelings are feelings, and they hit each of us differently.  Only you yourself know the amount of preparation you invested, and none of us have a right to judge you on that or diminish what that means for you.  And it doesn't sound like @GordyLex judges you on that either.  Perhaps the DMs on this forum could be a place for the two of you to come to an understanding, separate from the observations and comments of all of us onlookers?  Just a thought, anyway.  You both sound like reasonable guys, and it would be a shame to miss an opportunity to soothe the soreness each of you might be feeling. 
 
 

I’m gonna bump this because since this happened he reached out and apologized. We’ve met 3 times since and can say he’s fantastic. His directness can be considered rude but after meeting him I realized is really more about the language barrier. 
 
He read the menu and his delivery is top notch 

I didn't say I was immune. I'm saying it makes it better to deal with things like jealousy and compartmentalization.

So you could explain your side? That's what we're doing in this forum? We met here. We started chatting here. Did you expect people here wouldn't share the good and the bad? You stood me up, didn't even bother messaging me during the whole day/evening telling me you were sick, a booking we had been talking for months, that we had confirmed, that I had even offered an overnight after. I set up the time, I got the money, I prepared myself and you stood me up in incredibly unprofessional behavior, and I'M the one who fucked up? nahhhh.
Others here should know that even with a confirmed appointment you might blow them off without even telling them. That's what this forum is about, sharing these experiences. If you have an issue with unprofessional behavior being called out... then be a professional?

I had exited this conversation but since you tagged me, Thank you for acknowledging it. Of course it hurt me, I had to prepare physically, biologically, emotionally, financially, etc for us to have a good time and being ghosted is very hurtful. It was uncalled for and very unprofessional. 
 
Yes, I accepted his apology but doesn’t make what happen any less real. I share here these experiences because I am looking out for all of us. We here keep eyes out for the druggies, the scammers, the violent ones and the irresponsible/unprofessional ones. I don’t want any of you to feel the same way. 
 
As for grace, that’s what I was doing this morning when I went to check when he was gonna leave town but he had blocked me 🤷‍♂️ He has my number if he wants to turn the page and restart things, I have changed reviews/opinions before but first impressions are everything in what we do. 

I am actually quite sick and did not have the physical or mental capacity to attend to a lot of things in my life, including confirming plans.
 
once I was able to attend to messages, I realized that in delaying my travel to LA so that I could be evaluated by a doctor and receive treatment, I also missed my first scheduled appointment.
 
once savantsav spoke to me, I profusely apologized, acknowledged that I could have done better, said I would take this as a learning opportunity, and also think of a way to correct a misdeed.
 
you can see the attached text messages. 
 
sometimes people make mistakes/accidents happen. I didn’t ask for forgiveness, I took full responsibility for the failure to communicate, I expressed shame, I did not make excuses but explained that because of a pressing health issue I was extremely preoccupied and unwell so that Savantsav could at least understand why this happened.
 
i respected Savantsav’s pain, acknowledged it, and wished him well.
 
Savantsav was justified in writing his post regarding a failure to communicate. What I did not appreciate was being publicly shamed on the thread and called out after you and I spoke privately by text… totally unnecessary and inflammatory. Consequently I blocked all communication to prevent any further adversarial interactions.

I'm poly so those feelings are different I guess? I can have affection for whomever is my current regular BFE provider but I know it's not love and 100% understand if there were no money involved they would have no reason to even talk to me. I'm hopeful they like me the same way you would like your coffee shop barista at least but I know unless they want coffee we won't be hanging out and chatting.

I saw him once and that's all I needed. On his ad this:
Means he drops G and NEEDS to do G (GHB) to perform. He was drugged and barely could form sentences. Couldn't perform. He's in my do not repeat list.