Good question. I just reached out to 2 new (to me) guys in NYC and both were asking $800. I'm glad that they can ask for it, but it would be a pass for me unfortunatley. I miss the days when I thought $300 was a lot! lol.
I meet my 3-4 guys weekly so i don‘t have much time between refractory periods and laundry… so I hardly JO these days. Rather reward a willing partner’s orifice.
I'm staying as I have a lot of conferences, but looking forward to the fall when I'll be heading to the Galapagos and Paris. And later in the winter, Shanghai and Hokkaido.
When you‘re kissing in bed, you’re pretty much the same height. Though 69 with someone taller may require more flexibility. Other than that, no preference as long as there is good chemistry and hygiene.
Yes, seems there are “cowboys” elsewhere. This one from LA/San Diego looks particularly enticing: https://cowboys4angels.com/cowboy/steven/. Seems they may set their own rates and time.