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I’ve been friendly with Bunker on social media. He’s a sweet guy. But I’m fairly certain he moved out of escorting when he leaned into porn. He quit in 2024. No longer has the time or energy.

Well, this one's wide open, so I'm gonna walk right in. My favorite fetish provider is for sure.... ME! While the vast majority of my bookings are for sure still very traditional vanilla companionship, fetish is still very much on the menu. I still see vers WS clients. And I've been lucky enough to do a range of BDSM activities as a provider. Working with a legit paddling Dom who really puts me through it. Helping kink newbies explore their dominant sides. I'd also add a couple friends to this one: https://rent.men/SirKirk - if you're looking for a pro Dom, you can't do much better that Kirk. https://rent.men/BiSamOpenminded - kinkster best discussed in private, but amazing!

His pictures are 100% accurate. He looks exactly like them. Suuuuuper handsome smart guy.

This is surprising to me, as I’ve found them to be pretty quick to respond and transparent. I had my photos appear on someone else’s photo gallery, and they responded right away and took care of it. I also had a photo removed from my gallery. One of my favorite nudes of myself. It’s landscape rather than portrait, so I added a border to make it the right shape for a profile pic. It was immediately deleted. I re-added it. Immediately deleted again. I messaged the admin, and he responded immediately. Borders aren’t allowed oh RM photos. So sad. Instead I put it on X. 🤣 I’m surprised and a little confused by your predicament. Sorry you’re going through this. I hope you get it sorted out soon!

Case by case, depending on distance. But yes, the extra time and expense of travel would be factored into any of those conversations.

Manhattan based provider with wheels here! I'm always happy to go to NJ for an afternoon with a little advance planning. I see clients in CT, NJ, and upstate NY fairly often.

You might consider sniffies or another hookup app and just add coded key words like “generous” to your profile. I can’t imagine an actual professional - someone looking to make even a partial living as a provider - taking work for that amount. Especially in New York City. Rather than hiring an actual escort, you might find someone willing to be hired as a one-off.

Again, lots of us are into this. Just run a search on WS and bottoms. It’s less out-there than you might think. 😈 🐽

Lots of us are very piss oriented, given the opportunity. 👋🏻 If you search WS on rent men you’d be surprised how many of us there are.

A couple images below that are from shoots in borrowed spaces. They range from prominently featuring the space - because the host was into it - to almost fully obscuring the space. https://x.com/coxpix1/status/1820852886647230773/photo/1 https://x.com/coxpix1/status/2058991866725724299/photo/1

Well I wish I had some New Orleans plans. That sounds AMAZING. Also nice to know that this kind of situation might actually exist. Just far from me! 🤣

Oh gosh I love to do this to guys. I love when their eyes water they they cough up throat juices. I don’t often get the chance, but I do love it.

This is a question I haven’t seen raised here, not sure if this is the appropriate area to post it. I’m sure I’ll be corrected if I’m wrong. Just gauging interest here, assessing whether this is even possibly a thing. Wondering if anyone would be interested in hosting a nude erotic photo shoot in New York City. As providers, we all periodically need a steady flow of updated photos. And there’s never a shortage of capable pro photographers willing to shoot nudes, but shooting space is always the challenge. We'd be looking for a clean, well lit, well decorated space. Doesn't have to be a palace. It would be a single photographer and possibly two providers, taking turns. Photos would be nude and erotic. The space would likely be recognizable in the photos, which may be in issue for some. The host would be invited to hang out with us while we shoot, and welcome to assist if they wanted to. Though the priority would be the actual images themselves. Obviously all parties would have to agree to sound ground rules to make it acceptable for everybody. Theoretically this would be in trade. So it would likely only work for someone who's an actual voyeur, or someone specifically into the erotic photo shoot scenario. I'm sure the host would be invited to lend a hand, so to speak, here and there as needed. Is this a crazy idea? Is this a thing you could imagine someone being into? I'm sure this community will more let me know if I'm being delusional here. But I figured it was worth a shot.

Not to respond to this post with an advertisement, but… 😏 I recommend myself! In all seriousness though, posting here is a great move. There’s a lot of us out there who lead with empathy and really do know how to create a private safe space to explore. And the firsthand experience of guys with similar experiences is a great way to start getting recommendations. I’d also say… when you start talking to providers, be upfront about your situation and what you’re looking for. And pay close attention to how they respond. Many providers out there have this specific interest and have actual experience in this department. Being someone’s first is a responsibility and a privilege. So take note when talking to a provider that they show signs of understanding that. I’d caution against a results oriented mindset, especially if you’re looking to bottom. Don’t go in with a plan for how much dick you expect to take and how hard you want to take it. Trust that your first time out will be whatever it’s meant to be. Let the chemistry guide you. That in mind, don’t go cock shopping, and don't get hung up on the size of your provider. It’s counter intuitive, but sometimes larger ones can be easier in their own way. Smaller ones have their challenges too. Sensible to avoid the 9"+ club, I get that. But otherwise, providers on the larger side have been forced to acquire some skills in that department, and have had to learn to use their cocks with a certain care in order to make it happen. And the post above... Yes, don't forget to take some time to learn your body and how to prep. I know it’s a hurdle for a lot of new bottoms, but we all had to learn it at some point. It's the most basic act of respect for your provider, an actual necessity. But it's not just for your provider. You'll be able to enjoy the experience so much more without having to worry about that aspect. Good luck! You've got so many amazing discoveries ahead of you!

This is an in person happy hour for sex workers, off duty, not a group chat. No active sex work happening to bust. Though you are correct. Nothing is without risk. That in mind, each month we have a designated provider chosen to skip the event. That way - in the unlikely event the meetup should turn cataclysmic - one single provider will survive to bear the responsibilities of servicing the men of New York City.