JungleForest

Personally I have smoked with sexual partners in the past and it has mostly enhanced my experience with them. Especially after having more experience doing it and my level of comfort and chemistry with the other person. That being said, the times in the past that it hasn’t worked it out it is definitely more so related to the mental effects of weed. Maybe the person was nervous or anxious already, thought the weed would chill them out but just made them more in their head than they already were. I generally don’t smoke with those I don’t know because of these effects, it’s too much of a gamble. When it goes badly, it’s harder to recover (I’d say impossible) when you’re high. When you’re sober, I find it’s much easier to regulate yourself.

I wouldn’t recommend either tbh. I have tried them recently. YMMV with both if you’re looking for a little more than a massage (erotic etc). If you want just therapeutic, go for it lol.

Thank you for your wonderful reply. It makes me feel better for sure and gives me some insight into why he felt comfortable sharing that with me.

Met a provider that I have seen a couple times before, we are very comfortable with each other and he has even recommended other providers to me when I’ve been traveling. We have “known” each other for about a year. But during this conversation he brought up the difficulties of being a provider - some of the horrible clientele he’s had to deal with etc. He talked about what he’s done with learn how to deal with people like and he says things are better now. I did get a bit in my feelings about the nature of the conversation. I know he doesn’t feel like that about me and it was more of a moment for him to vent but still left feeling weird about the whole thing. I do believe that although the nature of our meetings is transactional that we have a pleasant rapport with one another. Has anyone else had a conversation like this with a provider and it almost made you feel guilty - maybe not the right word but I’m struggling to find the right ones right now. Was just curious of anyone else’s experience.

Hello, I will be in FTL this week and am looking for bathhouse recommendations. I am 37 and looking for a crowd around my age. As for the experience I am looking for I am not sure if I want something more chill or not. I just want my first experience to be fruitful . I have read about Club FTL and 321 slammer. Are there more? Or are they the only options. Also would appreciate some bathhouse tips if you have any for a first timer. I am really excited and just want to be as prepared as I can be. Like what should I bring with me, etiquette and anything else you can think of. I have read a lot of threads but seeing repeated information really helps cement what is actually important to do. Like should I buy a private room?

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Hey there, I will be in Boston this week and was wondering if anyone had recommendations for escorts or masseurs? I have checked some old threads but a bunch of the guys I was wanting to check out were either no longer in Boston or did not have active profiles. As far as type of guys I’m into, I don’t discriminate too much. I like pretty unsurprising things in a provider: nice body, short or tall, nice tool. Bonus points if he’s especially nice, vibes are very important.

Hi, has anyone else felt as I’ve described above? Sometimes I feel a bit overwhelmed by choice and just am unsure about hiring due to inexperience and I hire someone that ends up not working out as much as I hoped. Any tips on having a better “picker”?

Welp, I spoke too soon. He did respond to me. He still wants to see me. I also would like to see him but when I getter a better handle on things. As someone here said, if it weren’t for the cash we wouldn’t be in each other’s circle. It’s a good grounding exercise to remind myself of that.

Because I was started developing feelings for him. Yes, I know, classic. I recognized it happening in me and nipped it in the bud. The provider told me he was coming to town and I told him although I enjoyed seeing him that the relationship was becoming more than transactional for me. That for my wellbeing I had to stop seeing him. Not sure what I expected but I got dust from him. Zilch. I get it. But still disappointed I didn’t get at least an “I understand, wish you all the best” etc. Not really posting for advice just wanted to vent and hear if anyone has had to stop seeing a provider for any reason and how they reacted to it.

Do you think you had different expectations from what actually happened? And you lost whatever momentum you had? Can you explain a little more what happened? Orgasming isn’t everything but I can get why that’s something you would want.

I’ve had a similar experience in the past. Chalk it up to a great experience, it was fun, it felt good - it probably was a genuine connection. But it doesn’t have to be more than that. Don’t keep thinking in a loop, do something to break it up.

I appreciate having a provider’s perspective, as well as everyone else’s perspective here. I decided to be upfront and just outright say it and he basically asked me to raincheck our meeting. It was a bummer for sure. I ended up scheduling time with someone else though and that ended up being great.

…and you hired a provider? I don’t want to bail but at the same time I wanted to get rearranged. I’m just worried about the provider being annoyed, idk how to proceed. Would love some friendly advice, as I’m new to not only gay sex but hiring providers, please keep that in mind when responding.

Forgive my ignorance, but I booked an erotic massage (truly an escort session with massage) with a masseur but his profile doesn't show nudes. I asked if I could see some because we talked about adding extra elements to the erotic massage but he said that he doesn't send those. I purely want to see what he is working with especially because of the nature of our conversation - is this unreasonable? Open to being educated. I just figured that because talked about his piece I would get to see it before the appointment to decide if it is what I'm looking for - this is the first time I have encountered this issue. Now I am not sure if I am being swindled, especially when he's charging $400.