nycman

It depends….. Sometimes I’ve called off a meeting if the provider was 10 minutes late and had not bothered to notify me, and sometimes I’ve waited over two hours if the provider kept in touch. What else I have scheduled that day, what other options I have, my mood, how many other people have pissed me off that day, the phase of the moon, how horny I am, if I’ve seen the provider before, the list of factors influencing my decision goes on and on. But once I’ve decided not to see you, I stand firm in my decision, no matter what.

I think what some of your missing is that she’s gonna be dead soon. She doesn’t really care about her reputation. Nonetheless, she was incredibly stupid. People need to have serious conversations with their banks, their accountants and their lawyers. If I try to withdraw more than $10,000 without a very good explanation, my bank has strict instructions to alert my accountant and my lawyer immediately. You never know when your mind is going to slip and you’re going to do something foolish. Also, I knew she was stupid the minute I read that the Russian/Ukraine war cut off access to her medication that she had to fly to Italy to get. I understand that people get desperate, but if a treatment or medication is not available in America, it probably doesn’t work. If the whore is smart, he’ll try to delay and wait out her ticking time bomb. Traditionally, the courts don’t have a lot of sympathy for stupid rich dead white people.

One of the most fun straight guys I’ve ever had sex with. I know nothing of his political beliefs, because I didn’t ask. I was there to fuck, not to debate the next US economic crisis.

Tables are for massage. Beds are for sex.

I’ve said this before, but I have a distinct recollection of licking the TV in the family room in front of everyone, right over the crotch of a contestant in the Mr. Olympia contest in the early 1970’s. In my memories, it was Arnold Schwarzenegger, but given my later taste in men, I think Lou Ferrigno is the more likely candidate. My poor parents!

It was a very long day that ended very abruptly. The horror of realizing there was suddenly nothing to do but bury the dead, and prepare for war.

If anyone close to me (escort, nephew, trainer, assistant) asks for a loan and I’m willing to assist, I just give them the money and never expect to see it again. I will never bring it up nor expect repayment. Some repay voluntarily and I’m happy to come to their aide should the need arise again in the future, Others make no attempt to repay their “loan” and their second (inevitable) request is met with open laughter.

Been around the world, including Japan….and never paid upfront. I’ve had a few beautiful men refuse to see me because this conflicted with their “money upfront” policy. And I’ve turned away a few men when their “money upfront” policy was announced only on arrival. Zero regrets. If I my refusal makes him upset, I think “welp, I just dodged a bullet.” And now in the grand tradition, I feel some a song coming on:

In the grand tradition…. I feel a song coming on:

It’s his J-O-B. It’s your F-A-N-T-A-S-Y. They are not mutually exclusive, but don’t confuse the two.

Instantly. Either the chemistry is there or it’s not. As a Grindr hook up once said to me, “I really like having sex with you, let’s not fuck that up with words”.

Brooklyn, Bronx, New Jersey??? This thread is getting worse by the minute!

And just like that…..another provider shoots himself in the foot.

#1 cash is king. #2 never pay in advance. This entire situation was avoidable. If you’re a regular here, you knew that. This one is on you. Live and learn.

While I whole heartedly applaud your effort to keep gay money gay, it’s a horrible idea. Hire your escort based on their ability to suck cock, not your financial advisor. And as others have said, with minimal effort you can do better yourself, regardless of whether or not your financial planner is a homo. After 5 years of having some funds managed by a financial planner and most of my funds managed by a bot, I went 100% bot when the data showed my bot was consistently generating 10-20% better returns than my human. Don't get me started on my “semi-professional day trader” relative. I made his “amazing returns” look like peanuts.