nycman

There’s a reason they named it "Hush"….
grin

My boss doesn’t pay me to drive to work.
 
I don’t see why I should pay others to do the same.
 
My boss does pay me to fly all over the world....that’s different.

I’m swearing off fruits and vegetables.  I’m going to limit my consumption to meat and bourbon.

I’m #1 sequential, but my tolerance for a response has rapidly declined from 24-48 hours to under 2 hours. Experience has taught me that if I don’t get a prompt response, he’s either unavailable, uninterested, or unprofessional.
I have no desire to attempt hiring anyone with any of those traits, so I’ve learned to move on quickly. I’m still not personally ok with shotgunning, but I’m becoming more and more warm to the idea. 

Rule #1: Don't gamble with other people's money.
Kevin Slater

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A smart practitioner immediately goes into “cuddle, afterglow, touch” mode.
At the same time he needs to be aware if the client is sending out clear “time to leave” vibes.
An escort that overstays his welcome is as annoying as one who leaves too early.
Which is which? That’s up to the ever changing moon, chemistry, and fickle clients. 
Nobody ever said the job was easy…..

Never up front. Ever.
If they request to be paid upfront during the booking process, I politely inform them that that’s a dealbreaker for me and that if it is for them as well, we’re just not a match. Thank you, goodbye.
If they wait until they arrive to make the upfront request, they are politely shown to the door. Thank you, goodbye. 
I have no problem with someone having that as their "policy" as long as they make it clear during the booking process. I also have no problem, turning them down and moving onto the next provider. Thank you, goodbye.
Anyone who waits until they arrive to bring it up is a really bad businessman in my book. Thank you, goodbye.
I feel the same way about "money on the table". I’m not quite as offended.  But it’s still a "no from me, Dog". Thank you, goodbye.

Welp, now I understand why the DJ refused my request of Stairway to Heaven. 

That really just depends on what you want from him.
It’s not a date. Don’t over think it.
And don’t worry he’s heard it all.
Just ask for what you want.
If it’s a match…hallelujah!
If not, be polite and just keep moving. 
Let me help get you started….
”Hey it’s (insert your name here).
We met the other night at (insert name of seedy joint here).
Are you available for X, Y, or Z". 
Cut and paste the above into a text message to him. 
Replace X, Y, and Z with whatever you’re after. 
Hit send. 

A smart practitioner immediately goes into “cuddle, afterglow, touch” mode.
At the same time he needs to be aware if the client is sending out clear “time to leave” vibes.
An escort that overstays his welcome is as annoying as one who leaves too early.
Which is which? That’s up to the ever changing moon, chemistry, and fickle clients. 
Nobody ever said the job was easy…..

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The definition of lying doesn’t change based on convenience.

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The definition of lying doesn’t change based on convenience.

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The definition of lying doesn’t change based on convenience.

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The definition of lying doesn’t change based on convenience.

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The definition of lying doesn’t change based on convenience.

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The definition of lying doesn’t change based on convenience.

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The definition of lying doesn’t change based on convenience.