I saw a guy (Brody) a handful of times....he put an ad up on RM briefly when visiting Boston (where I live). Turns out, he grew up here and was home visiting family.
It was his first time escorting. He was young, hot, a sub bottom and was fire in bed. We met a few times, on his successive trips home to Boston. He LOVED daddy dick.
He also had a professional day job, at a boutique finance firm in San Diego.
He was considering quitting his day job and escorting full time. Or, escorting part-time (advertising on RM) while working his day job.
He liked escorting for the thrill. Hot sex, being used, daddies, findom I think were all in the mix - not to mention extra $$$.
My advice was:
1. Don't quit your day job. He seemed to be on a good career path in finance. I said "escorting has a short shelf life". What will you do when you're 40? Or, 50?
2. Escorting for the thrill, and doing is as a business are 2 very different things. A regular paycheck pays the rent. Struggling to fill your dance card to make rent is a drag.
3. If you advertise publicly, you will be fired from your day job. The majority of society do not understand, or accept sex work. Finance is a notoriously conservative industry, and since he needed to be bonded for his job he could become ineligible for boding, ending his career.
4. If you want to develop clients in a non-public way, that's the lowest risk. Many guys do/have done this. Hard to do if this is your primary income source, but as a "side hustle" (pun intended) it's all good.
He never did go full-time. Our run ended, so I'm not sure if he picked it up as a side hustle or not. I learned his name and see on Linkedin he's still at the Financial firm. Good for Brody.