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    + JEC got a reaction from BoyOnABoat in *Mike Gaite   
    I've seen Mike a handful of times and he is just great.  Introverts get their energy from within, not from other people. They will respond to other ppls energy, however.  This strikes as true with Mike...he waits to see what energy you bring and then responds to it, this may come across as shy or even lack of interest at first.  It doesn't take long for him to warm up tho' 🔥
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    + JEC got a reaction from Jacob_b in Overseas Trip   
    The bottom line here as others have said, is to have clear communication up front about what is/is not expected.
    As a client, I would expect to pay for all meals, snacks, coffee, drinks, etc.  Maybe some cash so they have some mad money for the week (this should be agreed in advance).  I would also assume I would "splurge" for a few things, but those should be splurges and not expected.  It should be a nice surprise when you do pick up the bill, and the provider should be grateful.  
    I could see some providers thinking they can go on a shopping spree, that's why it's important to establish boundaries up front so they know that's out of bounds.
    It would also be important to discuss other things like:
    - do he / you get downtime (apart) ?
    - can you / he see other clients/providers or hookup while traveling together?
    - is he open to hiring a 3rd if the opportunity presents?
    - are substances permitted?  how about drunkenness?
    - what are your expectations about sex - frequency?  limits?  on-demand?
    - is PDA permitted/expected?
    - what's your body clock schedule?  What time do you expect to start and end your day?  Being a morning person and being with someone who is a late sleeper (or vice versa) can be annoying
    - What are your habits - gym? Naps? snacks? computer time?
    - What's your activity level?  What kinds of activities or excursions will you do while traveling?  Do you have physical limits or limitations?
    - what are your food likes and dislikes (or allergies), traveling with a vegan could be quite limiting
    As the client, I think it's primarily your responsibility to communicate your needs/limits and where you are willing to be flexible.
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    + JEC got a reaction from + Just Sayin in *Mike Gaite   
    I've seen Mike a handful of times and he is just great.  Introverts get their energy from within, not from other people. They will respond to other ppls energy, however.  This strikes as true with Mike...he waits to see what energy you bring and then responds to it, this may come across as shy or even lack of interest at first.  It doesn't take long for him to warm up tho' 🔥
  4. Haha
    + JEC got a reaction from Mo Mason in The No Topic Thread   
    This is me exactly.  And I named the new site!
  5. Haha
    + JEC got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in The No Topic Thread   
    This is me exactly.  And I named the new site!
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    + JEC got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in *Mike Gaite   
    I've seen Mike a handful of times and he is just great.  Introverts get their energy from within, not from other people. They will respond to other ppls energy, however.  This strikes as true with Mike...he waits to see what energy you bring and then responds to it, this may come across as shy or even lack of interest at first.  It doesn't take long for him to warm up tho' 🔥
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    + JEC got a reaction from liubit in Overseas Trip   
    The bottom line here as others have said, is to have clear communication up front about what is/is not expected.
    As a client, I would expect to pay for all meals, snacks, coffee, drinks, etc.  Maybe some cash so they have some mad money for the week (this should be agreed in advance).  I would also assume I would "splurge" for a few things, but those should be splurges and not expected.  It should be a nice surprise when you do pick up the bill, and the provider should be grateful.  
    I could see some providers thinking they can go on a shopping spree, that's why it's important to establish boundaries up front so they know that's out of bounds.
    It would also be important to discuss other things like:
    - do he / you get downtime (apart) ?
    - can you / he see other clients/providers or hookup while traveling together?
    - is he open to hiring a 3rd if the opportunity presents?
    - are substances permitted?  how about drunkenness?
    - what are your expectations about sex - frequency?  limits?  on-demand?
    - is PDA permitted/expected?
    - what's your body clock schedule?  What time do you expect to start and end your day?  Being a morning person and being with someone who is a late sleeper (or vice versa) can be annoying
    - What are your habits - gym? Naps? snacks? computer time?
    - What's your activity level?  What kinds of activities or excursions will you do while traveling?  Do you have physical limits or limitations?
    - what are your food likes and dislikes (or allergies), traveling with a vegan could be quite limiting
    As the client, I think it's primarily your responsibility to communicate your needs/limits and where you are willing to be flexible.
  8. Haha
    + JEC got a reaction from + Charlie in The No Topic Thread   
    This is me exactly.  And I named the new site!
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    + JEC got a reaction from MikeBiDude in The No Topic Thread   
    This is me exactly.  And I named the new site!
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    + JEC got a reaction from thomas in *Mike Gaite   
    I've seen Mike a handful of times and he is just great.  Introverts get their energy from within, not from other people. They will respond to other ppls energy, however.  This strikes as true with Mike...he waits to see what energy you bring and then responds to it, this may come across as shy or even lack of interest at first.  It doesn't take long for him to warm up tho' 🔥
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    + JEC got a reaction from + robear in *Mike Gaite   
    I've seen Mike a handful of times and he is just great.  Introverts get their energy from within, not from other people. They will respond to other ppls energy, however.  This strikes as true with Mike...he waits to see what energy you bring and then responds to it, this may come across as shy or even lack of interest at first.  It doesn't take long for him to warm up tho' 🔥
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    + JEC got a reaction from MscleLovr in Overseas Trip   
    The bottom line here as others have said, is to have clear communication up front about what is/is not expected.
    As a client, I would expect to pay for all meals, snacks, coffee, drinks, etc.  Maybe some cash so they have some mad money for the week (this should be agreed in advance).  I would also assume I would "splurge" for a few things, but those should be splurges and not expected.  It should be a nice surprise when you do pick up the bill, and the provider should be grateful.  
    I could see some providers thinking they can go on a shopping spree, that's why it's important to establish boundaries up front so they know that's out of bounds.
    It would also be important to discuss other things like:
    - do he / you get downtime (apart) ?
    - can you / he see other clients/providers or hookup while traveling together?
    - is he open to hiring a 3rd if the opportunity presents?
    - are substances permitted?  how about drunkenness?
    - what are your expectations about sex - frequency?  limits?  on-demand?
    - is PDA permitted/expected?
    - what's your body clock schedule?  What time do you expect to start and end your day?  Being a morning person and being with someone who is a late sleeper (or vice versa) can be annoying
    - What are your habits - gym? Naps? snacks? computer time?
    - What's your activity level?  What kinds of activities or excursions will you do while traveling?  Do you have physical limits or limitations?
    - what are your food likes and dislikes (or allergies), traveling with a vegan could be quite limiting
    As the client, I think it's primarily your responsibility to communicate your needs/limits and where you are willing to be flexible.
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    + JEC got a reaction from Becket in *Mike Gaite   
    I've seen Mike a handful of times and he is just great.  Introverts get their energy from within, not from other people. They will respond to other ppls energy, however.  This strikes as true with Mike...he waits to see what energy you bring and then responds to it, this may come across as shy or even lack of interest at first.  It doesn't take long for him to warm up tho' 🔥
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    + JEC got a reaction from BSR in *Mike Gaite   
    I've seen Mike a handful of times and he is just great.  Introverts get their energy from within, not from other people. They will respond to other ppls energy, however.  This strikes as true with Mike...he waits to see what energy you bring and then responds to it, this may come across as shy or even lack of interest at first.  It doesn't take long for him to warm up tho' 🔥
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    + JEC got a reaction from jony in Overseas Trip   
    The bottom line here as others have said, is to have clear communication up front about what is/is not expected.
    As a client, I would expect to pay for all meals, snacks, coffee, drinks, etc.  Maybe some cash so they have some mad money for the week (this should be agreed in advance).  I would also assume I would "splurge" for a few things, but those should be splurges and not expected.  It should be a nice surprise when you do pick up the bill, and the provider should be grateful.  
    I could see some providers thinking they can go on a shopping spree, that's why it's important to establish boundaries up front so they know that's out of bounds.
    It would also be important to discuss other things like:
    - do he / you get downtime (apart) ?
    - can you / he see other clients/providers or hookup while traveling together?
    - is he open to hiring a 3rd if the opportunity presents?
    - are substances permitted?  how about drunkenness?
    - what are your expectations about sex - frequency?  limits?  on-demand?
    - is PDA permitted/expected?
    - what's your body clock schedule?  What time do you expect to start and end your day?  Being a morning person and being with someone who is a late sleeper (or vice versa) can be annoying
    - What are your habits - gym? Naps? snacks? computer time?
    - What's your activity level?  What kinds of activities or excursions will you do while traveling?  Do you have physical limits or limitations?
    - what are your food likes and dislikes (or allergies), traveling with a vegan could be quite limiting
    As the client, I think it's primarily your responsibility to communicate your needs/limits and where you are willing to be flexible.
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    + JEC got a reaction from mike carey in *Mike Gaite   
    I've seen Mike a handful of times and he is just great.  Introverts get their energy from within, not from other people. They will respond to other ppls energy, however.  This strikes as true with Mike...he waits to see what energy you bring and then responds to it, this may come across as shy or even lack of interest at first.  It doesn't take long for him to warm up tho' 🔥
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    + JEC got a reaction from Nightowl in You paid for an hour. It peaked in 30 mins. Now what?   
    It's pillow talk time!   I'm getting all my time LOL
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    + JEC got a reaction from + ApexNomad in You paid for an hour. It peaked in 30 mins. Now what?   
    It's pillow talk time!   I'm getting all my time LOL
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    + JEC reacted to + KensingtonHomo in New Provider Here NYC   
    Are you a bottom? It seems that way from your content. 
  20. Haha
    + JEC got a reaction from EZEtoGRU in My funniest health care moment.   
    Hooking up with the guy on Sniffies who was in the waiting room at my Dr Office.  We were chatting on Sniffies while waiting, then hooked up after the MD appointment.
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    + JEC got a reaction from rentaljock in Overseas Trip   
    The bottom line here as others have said, is to have clear communication up front about what is/is not expected.
    As a client, I would expect to pay for all meals, snacks, coffee, drinks, etc.  Maybe some cash so they have some mad money for the week (this should be agreed in advance).  I would also assume I would "splurge" for a few things, but those should be splurges and not expected.  It should be a nice surprise when you do pick up the bill, and the provider should be grateful.  
    I could see some providers thinking they can go on a shopping spree, that's why it's important to establish boundaries up front so they know that's out of bounds.
    It would also be important to discuss other things like:
    - do he / you get downtime (apart) ?
    - can you / he see other clients/providers or hookup while traveling together?
    - is he open to hiring a 3rd if the opportunity presents?
    - are substances permitted?  how about drunkenness?
    - what are your expectations about sex - frequency?  limits?  on-demand?
    - is PDA permitted/expected?
    - what's your body clock schedule?  What time do you expect to start and end your day?  Being a morning person and being with someone who is a late sleeper (or vice versa) can be annoying
    - What are your habits - gym? Naps? snacks? computer time?
    - What's your activity level?  What kinds of activities or excursions will you do while traveling?  Do you have physical limits or limitations?
    - what are your food likes and dislikes (or allergies), traveling with a vegan could be quite limiting
    As the client, I think it's primarily your responsibility to communicate your needs/limits and where you are willing to be flexible.
  22. Haha
    + JEC got a reaction from rentaljock in My funniest health care moment.   
    ...or the "drippies"  💦
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    + JEC got a reaction from Wings246 in Overseas Trip   
    The bottom line here as others have said, is to have clear communication up front about what is/is not expected.
    As a client, I would expect to pay for all meals, snacks, coffee, drinks, etc.  Maybe some cash so they have some mad money for the week (this should be agreed in advance).  I would also assume I would "splurge" for a few things, but those should be splurges and not expected.  It should be a nice surprise when you do pick up the bill, and the provider should be grateful.  
    I could see some providers thinking they can go on a shopping spree, that's why it's important to establish boundaries up front so they know that's out of bounds.
    It would also be important to discuss other things like:
    - do he / you get downtime (apart) ?
    - can you / he see other clients/providers or hookup while traveling together?
    - is he open to hiring a 3rd if the opportunity presents?
    - are substances permitted?  how about drunkenness?
    - what are your expectations about sex - frequency?  limits?  on-demand?
    - is PDA permitted/expected?
    - what's your body clock schedule?  What time do you expect to start and end your day?  Being a morning person and being with someone who is a late sleeper (or vice versa) can be annoying
    - What are your habits - gym? Naps? snacks? computer time?
    - What's your activity level?  What kinds of activities or excursions will you do while traveling?  Do you have physical limits or limitations?
    - what are your food likes and dislikes (or allergies), traveling with a vegan could be quite limiting
    As the client, I think it's primarily your responsibility to communicate your needs/limits and where you are willing to be flexible.
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    + JEC got a reaction from 56harrisond in Overseas Trip   
    The bottom line here as others have said, is to have clear communication up front about what is/is not expected.
    As a client, I would expect to pay for all meals, snacks, coffee, drinks, etc.  Maybe some cash so they have some mad money for the week (this should be agreed in advance).  I would also assume I would "splurge" for a few things, but those should be splurges and not expected.  It should be a nice surprise when you do pick up the bill, and the provider should be grateful.  
    I could see some providers thinking they can go on a shopping spree, that's why it's important to establish boundaries up front so they know that's out of bounds.
    It would also be important to discuss other things like:
    - do he / you get downtime (apart) ?
    - can you / he see other clients/providers or hookup while traveling together?
    - is he open to hiring a 3rd if the opportunity presents?
    - are substances permitted?  how about drunkenness?
    - what are your expectations about sex - frequency?  limits?  on-demand?
    - is PDA permitted/expected?
    - what's your body clock schedule?  What time do you expect to start and end your day?  Being a morning person and being with someone who is a late sleeper (or vice versa) can be annoying
    - What are your habits - gym? Naps? snacks? computer time?
    - What's your activity level?  What kinds of activities or excursions will you do while traveling?  Do you have physical limits or limitations?
    - what are your food likes and dislikes (or allergies), traveling with a vegan could be quite limiting
    As the client, I think it's primarily your responsibility to communicate your needs/limits and where you are willing to be flexible.
  25. Party
    + JEC got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in My funniest health care moment.   
    Hooking up with the guy on Sniffies who was in the waiting room at my Dr Office.  We were chatting on Sniffies while waiting, then hooked up after the MD appointment.
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