Is it rude to ask to not be scheduled in between appts?

[LuckyLechon]

This is probably asking too much of a provider but is it selfish to ask to not be scheduled when he's at peak business? I don't wanna feel rushed.

[nomad]

Not at all.  He may actually like it because it allows him to see others that don't have the same concern.  Depending on what you're looking to do he may prefer to see you first or last or on a day of the week where he isn't as busy.  Could work out well for both of you.  Just talk to him.  

[+ FrankR]

Just now, LuckyLechon said:

This is probably asking too much of a provider but is it selfish to ask to not be scheduled when he's at peak business? I don't wanna feel rushed.

You can ask for any time slot be it peak hours or slow hours - he may be flexible, but you are entitled only to the time you are paying for with a provider - expecting additional time so you are not rushed, is disrespectful of his time.  If you want more time to leisurely get dressed etc, book more time and compensate him accordingly

[LuckyLechon]

2 minutes ago, FrankR said:

You can ask for any time slot be it peak hours or slow hours - he may be flexible, but you are entitled only to the time you are paying for with a provider - expecting additional time so you are not rushed, is disrespectful of his time.  If you want more time to leisurely get dressed etc, book more time and compensate him accordingly

i wasn't asking for more time. you can feel rushed and still have only the time you paid for, it's a vibe that i don't enjoy cause i can pick up on it: that they are mentally not in the moment. 

[+ PhileasFogg]

I’d say anything’s fair to ask for.   But if you’re asking him to forgo compensation reserving himself for you, then he deserves fair compensation for the sacrifice. 

[marylander1940]

9 hours ago, LuckyLechon said:

This is probably asking too much of a provider but is it selfish to ask to not be scheduled when he's at peak business? I don't wanna feel rushed.

If you don't want to feel rushed book for 2 hours or book an overnight, even better fly him to you for an entire weekend. 

How do you know if he saw a guy 30 mins before and has another guy right after seeing you? 

It's a business..... busy days happen, slow and dead ones also happen. 

[marylander1940]

9 hours ago, LuckyLechon said:

i wasn't asking for more time. you can feel rushed and still have only the time you paid for, it's a vibe that i don't enjoy cause i can pick up on it: that they are mentally not in the moment. 

This isn't directed at you but sometimes feeling rushed, unsatisfied, etc. is in the eyes of the beholder.

[SecretProvider]

Unless he is honest and tells you that he has another appointment before or after  - you should have no way of knowing during your session. 

If he is honest and tells you when you ask and you know it upsets you to hear it, don't ask. 

 

[DMonDude]

I feel like you gotta just book a longer session. Even on a "slow day" you never know when another client of his may book a slot directly after yours, which would mean he'll have a hard out in order to be ready for that next client. You can't really ask him to put more time between his sessions, it's up to his time management and financial reasoning for how many sessions he does a day and how closely he does or doesn't book them to each other. The only part you can control is how long your session is.

Edited 1 hour ago by DMonDude

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

14 hours ago, LuckyLechon said:

This is probably asking too much of a provider but is it selfish to ask to not be scheduled when he's at peak business? I don't wanna feel rushed.

Instead of asking "I'd like a 90-minute session tomorrow at 2pm, but please make sure no one else is scheduled immediately before or after me", I word my requests like this:

"I'd like a 90-minute session anytime tomorrow afternoon, between 1pm and 4pm, at whichever time is most convenient for you".

This way, the masseur or escort will naturally choose a time that allows him to cleanup/rest/travel because he knows the entirety of his day, I don't.  There might be other doctor appointments, gym time, or day-job activities he needs to attend to besides other clients, and giving him a time range rather than a specific request naturally allows him to choose a time for me that he can be adequately prepared and not rushed.