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It’s not rude to ask imho as long as you ask nicely. I had the same concern about a month ago. I asked a masseur (a regular) if he had any availability on X day. He said he was pretty booked that day but asked me what time was I thinking that I wanted to come in. I said I could come in between X and Y hours but that “I’d really prefer to see you when you’re not so busy.” He said unfortunately it’s often like that unless you book in advance. He then proceeds to offer me a few optional dates on which I would get his “full energy.” The masseur knows his schedule best and if you are respectful he may try to accommodate you. No guarantees but worth the try.

Totally agree. I’m new to seeing masseurs. But am lucky enough to find two, right off the bat, that I really like and who are quite generous. (I had some help from this forum finding these masseurs.) My willingness to pay (economic concept) for their services is definitely higher than what these two masseurs charge - so I set my own rate for each of them (same rate for each, just in case they know one another 😁), which is above their own rates. I want them to know I appreciate how much work it takes to be EXCELLENT in this business. As another member wrote in a previous post, there are people who are paying those rates if that is what they continue to ask for. I’m one of those people 😁🤷‍♀️.

Thank you for the explanation. I learn something new everyday on this site.

I’m looking for some help interpretating a picture in an ad. I’m pretty new to hiring masseurs as well as being with other guys. I’ve been going to a masseur in the SF Bay Area that’s great. One of his ad pics shows just the bottom of one of his feet. I’ve always wondered if this means anything but am too shy to ask him. Does this signal anything (e.g., a foot fetish)? Or am I way over-thinking this? Thanks.

I read most of the reviews for a masseur I’m interested in on RMass, but actually put more weight on my initial communication with the masseur when making a final decision whether to proceed. I’ve seen a particular masseur in SF three times - he has been pretty amazing. He has one negative review on RMass. But this negative review is what actually sealed the deal for me to see him b/c I really liked how he responded to the reviewer. Very classy and non-emotional.

Anyone with recent (I.e., within last 6 months or so) experience with Ryan? Please share or DM me. Thanks!

You all just made my night! I’m laughing out loud at all of your comments. My wife is in the living room wondering why I’m laughing so loud. Thank you!

Free sessions? I didn’t think that was even possible. I’m new to hiring and M2M intimacy (married guy with kid and dog 😁); have had only a few sessions with a few masseurs. All of them totally amazing. But I usually pay double what their current rate is just so that they allow me to re-book with them. I might be doing this all wrong.

Thanks all for the info. Sounds like I’ll have to experience all three of them. Now to prioritize….:)

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