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To the OP: You are on the right track, IMO, so press on! I started seeing masseurs about 8 months ago because I had very little experience with guys and wanted to be prepared to go out in the “wild.” 😀(I had some experience with guys right after college but then got married.) Look for the people that are patient and passionate (you’ll easily recognize this in your first session) and let them know that you’d like to explore. Be upfront with them. I also look for masseurs that accept everyone - read their ad. These gents take people of all body types, experience levels, race/ethnicities, age. These are the guys that really love what they do. I was lucky to find two masseurs who have helped me to explore. (They’ve become regulars.) One of whom I have topped for the first time ever and the other whom I have bottomed for for the first time ever. Both of these masseurs are super patient and genuinely kind and open people. We’ve done all of the fun stuff together. Keep looking because there are some really kind people out there who are willing to help you!!!

Super deep french kissing and some cuddling.

Yes, we’re all responsible for our own health! I started hiring masseurs just recently within the past 6-7 months. When I first started I was not on any type of medication. (In fact I’m such a newbie I didn’t even know there was so much advancement in medicine!) The first masseur I ever went to could sense that I was a bit apprehensive. After our second session, this masseur (who has become a regular) gave me two doxycycline pills to take “for my peace of mind” and said to me just don’t drink dairy with it 😃. Talk about going above and beyond! I am forever grateful. I go to this one masseur and one other masseur on a regular basis. Both list “neg and on PreP” in their ads. I don’t have any reason to not believe them. I have since started taking PreP and have an Rx for doxy Pep; I’ve also been fully vaccinated (Covid, hep, Mpox). I get tested regularly. I’ve also disclosed my health info to my two regular masseurs. Having taken care of my health has helped me to feel more comfortable and to be more adventurous and to have more fun in our sessions. I also believe that it has helped the two masseurs to feel more comfortable with me and to help me explore more as well. Our sessions have only gotten better!

It’s not rude to ask imho as long as you ask nicely. I had the same concern about a month ago. I asked a masseur (a regular) if he had any availability on X day. He said he was pretty booked that day but asked me what time was I thinking that I wanted to come in. I said I could come in between X and Y hours but that “I’d really prefer to see you when you’re not so busy.” He said unfortunately it’s often like that unless you book in advance. He then proceeds to offer me a few optional dates on which I would get his “full energy.” The masseur knows his schedule best and if you are respectful he may try to accommodate you. No guarantees but worth the try.

Totally agree. I’m new to seeing masseurs. But am lucky enough to find two, right off the bat, that I really like and who are quite generous. (I had some help from this forum finding these masseurs.) My willingness to pay (economic concept) for their services is definitely higher than what these two masseurs charge - so I set my own rate for each of them (same rate for each, just in case they know one another 😁), which is above their own rates. I want them to know I appreciate how much work it takes to be EXCELLENT in this business. As another member wrote in a previous post, there are people who are paying those rates if that is what they continue to ask for. I’m one of those people 😁🤷‍♀️.

Thank you for the explanation. I learn something new everyday on this site.

I’m looking for some help interpretating a picture in an ad. I’m pretty new to hiring masseurs as well as being with other guys. I’ve been going to a masseur in the SF Bay Area that’s great. One of his ad pics shows just the bottom of one of his feet. I’ve always wondered if this means anything but am too shy to ask him. Does this signal anything (e.g., a foot fetish)? Or am I way over-thinking this? Thanks.

I read most of the reviews for a masseur I’m interested in on RMass, but actually put more weight on my initial communication with the masseur when making a final decision whether to proceed. I’ve seen a particular masseur in SF three times - he has been pretty amazing. He has one negative review on RMass. But this negative review is what actually sealed the deal for me to see him b/c I really liked how he responded to the reviewer. Very classy and non-emotional.

Anyone with recent (I.e., within last 6 months or so) experience with Ryan? Please share or DM me. Thanks!

You all just made my night! I’m laughing out loud at all of your comments. My wife is in the living room wondering why I’m laughing so loud. Thank you!

Free sessions? I didn’t think that was even possible. I’m new to hiring and M2M intimacy (married guy with kid and dog 😁); have had only a few sessions with a few masseurs. All of them totally amazing. But I usually pay double what their current rate is just so that they allow me to re-book with them. I might be doing this all wrong.

Thanks all for the info. Sounds like I’ll have to experience all three of them. Now to prioritize….:)

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