JamesB

I'd define a regular as someone you meet about once a month on average. For instance, if I consistently see a traveling provider every time they're in town, I'd consider them a regular. Likewise, if they consistently see me whenever I'm in their area, it works both ways.

From my experience, around 75-80% of providers typically reply within a few hours. The remaining either don't respond at all or do so days later. My initial message is pretty standard, usually along the lines of: "Hi xxxx, I came across your ad at xxxxx. I'm interested in xxxxx. Could you please share your rates and availability for [day and time].

Honestly, I find enjoyment in both roles, and my ideal scenario is when I can switch during an encounter. However, I'm not a fan of the preparation required for bottoming, so I'm selective about who I engage in that role with.

Not an escort but https://rentmasseur.com/AlexStar is fairly good at edging. Just let him know what you would like.

I have always considered myself as vers but, yes there is always a but, I will not bottom for just anyone. On the other hand, I will Top just about anything that moves. Does that make me vers Top?

I typically allow 15 to 30 minutes, depending on the location and time of day. The duration also depends on the quality of their communication regarding the situation. I had a regular who always sent a screenshot of Google Maps showing the estimated time of arrival when he was en route. I valued this approach greatly, prompting me to adopt the same practice for in-call appointments.

This is especially true from providers that view themselves as models.

Honestly, I'm not particularly keen on overnight arrangements. I've only engaged in them with two providers with whom I had long-standing relationships. One used to accompany me on travels often, while the other would stay over if he didn't have any more clients for the night. The idea of an overnight with someone I don't know well or have only met a few times doesn't appeal to me. I suppose everyone has their preferences.

If you are willing to go the masseur route, Jorge might be an option. He is more of a rub and tug type deal. He does have a great body but not massage skills to speak of. He is open to extras for the right fee and he is a bottom. https://rentmasseur.com/JorgeSB

Posts like this do more harm than good for a provider. Instead of helping, they act as a red flag. Anyone reading them is more likely to seek out a different provider.

With my regular providers, I don't confirm rates each time I engage their services. However, every six months to a year, I inquire whether they have updated or revised their rates. To date, none of my regulars have altered their rates on me.

I haven't had the chance to meet him in person, but I really miss his contributions on the forum. He consistently displayed kindness and positivity in his interactions here.

Weight: 360 lbs???

Outcalls £1000!!!. 😲

He's been around for quite some time and travels often. He ought to be in his early 40s by now. It's been about two years since I last laid eyes on him. Although the pictures in his ad are outdated, he's still stunning and maintains a great body. My experience with him was excellent. MN, MT, HE, with the added bonus of crossing into Deli territory at no extra charge. If our paths cross again, I'd certainly hire him without hesitation.

Everyone deserves a degree of privacy. If someone chooses not to disclose their occupation, it's important to respect their decision.

I'm comfortable using either RM Messenger or text for communication. If the provider has a preferred method mentioned in their ad, I'll adhere to that. Otherwise, my initial contact will typically be through RM Messenger.

I've received multiple requests to discuss my experiences with a provider. I'm open to sharing, as long as the request doesn't come from an account created just a few hours or days before. The level of detail I provide depends on the manner of the request and the engagement of the account within the broader forum. If I encounter a question that makes me uneasy, I'll simply choose to ignore it and refrain from responding.

Trust your instincts. If something doesn't feel right, it's best to walk away.

I'm still hiring at my usual pace, maybe even a bit more. However, I've observed two trends: Providers who rarely traveled before are now on the move more frequently, and I'm receiving a significant increase in messages from past providers wanting to meet again.

I'm puzzled why you're uncertain about this. Yes, you should have informed the provider that your roommate would be home.

In my opinion, the issue with deposits is that they only benefit the provider, offering no protection to the client. Deposits place all the risk on the client, creating an undesirable unilateral condition.

There's more to his ASSet than just Photoshop. Take a look at his Twitter feed, and you'll see what I mean.

In my opinion, the use of someone else's pics is a major red flag.

When I travel, I typically reach out about a week in advance, and I always have a backup plan, a couple of other providers just in case something happens with my first choice. By the way, it's never a good idea to disclose to a backup provider that they weren't your initial preference.