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For me, these are two very separate issues. If the photos are fake and belong to someone else, I would walk away immediately regardless of anything else. If the pictures are simply outdated but still of him and he is in decent shape, I would likely proceed with the meeting. That said, outdated photos matter a little less in the context of a massage provider than they do for an escort.

Your VPN is working as intended, it creates an isolated, encrypted tunnel for your internet traffic. As a result, it typically blocks access to your local network (LAN) to reduce the risk of local network exposure or snooping. When the VPN is active, your device is essentially placed on a separate virtual network, which can make it unable to detect local devices like a printer on the same physical network. Fix: Enable “split tunneling” or allow “local network access” in your VPN settings.

That wasn't my intention at all. I was simply suggesting that, in situations like this, clear and honest communication is usually the best approach. If it came across differently, I apologize.

I don't mean to be rude but what a provider does before or after your appointment is really none of your business. The only thing that should concern you is what they do, or don't do, during the time you've paid for. To be honest, asking these kinds of questions is unlikely to get you an honest answer anyway, they'll simply tell you what they think you want to hear.

Like with so many questions posted here, the answer is simple: communicate. Just tell him that you noticed he offers other services and that you'd like to try them. Straightforward, honest and uncomplicated.

You could use AI to help with that.

The crypto payment option still isn't showing up for me.

I generally prefer guys who are shorter than I am, which works out well since I'm 6'2". That said, I honestly can't remember ever turning someone down because of their height. It's a preference, not a dealbreaker.

I occasionally get a discounted rate from providers I've seen before, usually because they need the business or some extra cash. When a provider I've never met offers an unusually low rate, however, my first reaction is skepticism. My immediate assumption is either that it's a scam or that the upselling will start the moment we meet. In those situations, I do my homework beforehand, I make my expectations clear and I'm prepared to walk away if the arrangement suddenly changes.

I started it when my son was born and have simply kept it updated over the years as needed.

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One has to love guys that are ok taking a load up their a$$ but wont allow semen in their mouth, much less swallow it because they may catch something.

The account is less than a week old. A reverse image search links the photos to X and OnlyFans accounts based in Miami. At this point, I'd say it's a coin toss as to whether the ad is legitimate. If you're interested, I would recommend reaching out through his X account and asking whether the RM profile actually belongs to him. That should help you determine whether the ad is genuine or someone using his photos.

I have no idea. Crypto was the only payment method I ever used for both RMass and RMen

I just checked and it appears that RM is currently accepting Visa and MasterCard. The cryptocurrency payment option seems to have been removed.

Just to be clear, I’m not saying you’re wrong. I simply find it a bit surprising. My assumption would be that they could still read incoming messages without an active membership but would need a paid subscription in order to reply. That seems like a more logical incentive for maintaining an active account.

So what incentive would a provider have to pay for advertising if they can still read and respond to messages without an active subscription? That doesn't seem like a business model that would encourage many providers to keep paying for their ads.

No, I have not. I created my RM account using an email address that is virtually impossible to trace back to me. On the few occasions when I paid for a Premium subscription, I used cryptocurrency from a secondary wallet. I'm aware that crypto transactions are not completely anonymous and can still be traced by law enforcement, tax authorities and blockchain analytics firms. However, for the average person, that information is not readily accessible. Do you really consider that comparable to handing someone a copy of your government issued ID, a sample of your handwriting and signature, and your credit card information?. This gives whoever is on the other end everything they need to open fraudulent accounts, bypass bank security checks or commit identity theft in your name. To me, those are very different levels of personal exposure and risk.

No way in hell I would comply with this request. Combining a photo of your government ID with a handwritten, signed authorization note gives whoever is on the other end everything they need to open fraudulent accounts, bypass bank security checks or commit identity theft in your name.

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I met John a couple of years ago. His photos are quite outdated. Also, if you're planning an incall session, be aware that he is located in Davenport rather than Orlando. Depending on where you are staying and the time of day, the drive can take anywhere from 30 minutes to over an hour. Another thing worth noting is that he shares his living space with someone else and it isn't clear in advance whether that person will be home during your visit. The massage itself was decent, he will remain in his underwear. Not much in the sensual department, just some limited MT and HE. I saw him twice and ultimately didn't find a compelling reason to return. Of course, as always, YMMV.

One thing doesn’t contradict the other. I would assume they have different boundaries when it comes to people they create content with versus clients they don’t know personally. What they are comfortable doing in one context may not be the same in another. As always, the best approach is to ask them directly rather than relying on assumptions.

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