JamesB

It’s a bit ironic. You asked for honest opinions in a public forum and that’s exactly what you received. Being frustrated that people didn’t validate your perspective misses the point of how open forums work. You put a question out there and people respond with their interpretations. No one is saying you negotiated after the fact. The feedback is that the questions themselves came across as attempts to lower the price. If most people interpreted it that way, it might be worth reflecting on that rather than assuming everyone misunderstood your intent. You asked whether it sounded cheap and people answered yes. That isn’t an attack, it’s simply a direct response to the question you posed.

It does come across as cheap. I’m not sure where you’re located but in many places an outcall typically runs around $200–$250. You’re trying to negotiate around someone’s pricing structure in multiple ways instead of just accepting the service as it’s offered. Outcall pricing isn’t just about the table, it’s about travel time, scheduling limitations and the inconvenience of leaving their workspace. Asking to split sessions or reprice things puts the provider in an awkward spot and undervalues their time. It’s understandable to want good value but in this case the requests lean more toward minimizing cost than respecting how the service is structured.

Bump, Any recent experience?

I can tell you what I do, though I’m not suggesting it’s a universal approach. After I finish, I usually pause for about 10 to 15 seconds, then continue at a much slower rhythm for a few minutes. If I’m asked to stop and stay still after finishing, I’m perfectly fine with that.

To be honest, the only thing holding me back from going the semiannual injection route is the cost.

I don’t believe men have a hormonal cycle comparable to the female menstrual cycle. There isn’t a predictable 28-day or similar pattern in male hormones that most men experience consistently enough to track or use for adjusting something like a daily tadalafil dose. Men’s primary sex hormone, testosterone, follows a daily circadian rhythm. It typically peaks in the early morning, within a couple of hours of waking, and gradually declines throughout the day, reaching its lowest levels in the evening. Tadalafil is a PDE5 inhibitor, works by relaxing blood vessels to improve blood flow, and its effectiveness isn’t directly tied to daily or monthly testosterone fluctuations. In my own experience, fluctuations in libido tend to be more related to factors like stress levels, sleep quality and exercise rather than any kind of hormonal cycle.

Now that you mention the stomach, I’ve always found it a bit strange that at a Spa I visit regularly, they avoid touching it during a massage, yet when I get a body scrub, they will scrub the hell out of it. Go figure.

I’ve learned from experience to always ask whether they’re okay with the things that matter to me, even if those are listed on their profile. Keep in mind that providers, like anyone else, won’t excel at everything they offer. Some may be great kissers, others not so much, and the same goes for everything else. As long as they make an effort, I’m more than willing to guide them on how I prefer things to be done. Just as an example, about a month ago I contacted a provider who was new to me and didn't have his “into” section filled out. I asked about the things I like and he said no to one that’s a dealbreaker for me, so I thanked him and left it at that. Two days later, he updated his profile and listed that same thing as something he offers. So yes, it’s always best to ask, be specific and get clear confirmation on anything that’s important to you.

The zero effort option: GrandPad is designed specifically for seniors who have never used a computer. Best for Reading & Games: Amazon Fire HD 10. If she wants to read books, especially through Kindle or library apps like Libby and play games, this is the most cost-effective choice. The Modern Option: iPad with “Assistive Access.” If you already use an iPhone or iPad, this is the best option since you can help her remotely.

Profile is gone.

https://rent.men/SkinnyHot Roniel is a sweet guy who’s very eager to please and I had a good time with him. His place is near the airport, though it’s quite messy. Also, be aware that he likes to vape during sessions. https://rent.men/XL_horny As for Enrique/Felipe, he’s actually fully versatile and equally eager to please. His English is quite limited so using a translation app can help ensure he understands what you’re looking for during the session.

Also here for cross reference. https://rentmasseur.com/Andresdommm

Why would you find it “incredible”? I’ve been doing this longer than I care to admit and I’ve only been asked for a deposit once. The fact that one member keeps bringing it up in what feels like an attempt to frame it as a universal requirement doesn’t make it so.

Rent.men working just fine for me.

Rent.men working just fine for me.

Saily is data only. Airalo, depending on the location, can offer phone, text and data.

I prefer Airalo. I’ve run into issues with Saily piggybacking on low-coverage networks with limited speeds.

https://rent.men/Xnachoo

Name change https://rent.men/LetMeTOPuNow

There’s already a thread for him, so there’s no need to start a new one. https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/155206-411-on-jose_colombia-in-orlando/#comment-2352013

And this, my fellow forum member, is the difference between a true professional and someone just looking to make a quick buck. My hat’s off to you, sir.

I wouldn’t consider three times a year to be sexually active either and I should have clarified in my post that I was referring to unprotected sex; that’s on me. That said, you might be a good candidate for on-demand or event-driven PrEP, especially if you bottom, since condoms can fail and you’ll end up with a full load inside you. Don’t ask me how I know. In any case, it’s best to have an open and honest conversation with your doctor and then decide what level of risk you’re comfortable with, keeping in mind that the only completely risk-free option is abstinence.

I’m always surprised by how many people who are sexually active on the apps or hiring aren’t taking PrEP, let alone Doxy. It really boggles my mind.

I always use a burner number for the initial contact. If they become a regular, then I’ll share my real number. I don’t see a reason to give my personal number to every provider I try once or twice. For the same reason, I don’t host at my place the first time. It’s either an incall or a hotel.

Like I said, my experience has been different. At least in my area, most providers advertise as Top or Vers/Top. While I consider myself Vers, when I hire it’s usually because I want to Top, so I often end up topping guys who advertise themselves as Vers/Top. Contrary to what some members here (looking at you pubic_assistance LOL!) seem to assume, not everyone who hires fits the stereotype of a fat, sweaty, bald old man. That said, I’m not “hot as hell” either. There’s a guy I used to see occasionally who was originally a total Bottom and advertised himself that way. Over time, he changed his profile to Vers and eventually to Vers/Top. When I asked him about it, his explanation was simple: most of the clients in the area are Bottoms, and if he wanted to work consistently, he had to Top.