JamesB

My guess would be that it’s likely that a masseur with an expired profile can still see messages sent through RentMasseur’s site but their ability to respond or receive notifications may be limited unless their subscription is reactivated. This is only my guess.

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/151947-healing-bodywork-by-orlando-palm-springs/#comment-2296932 https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/157594-best-of-palm-springs/#comment-2402122

This provider has been discussed here before, and if I recall correctly, it wasn’t in a positive light and under a different name. If I can remember the previous username, I’ll share the link.

Also here for cross reference. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/51323/

He now has a new RMen profile: https://rent.men/BiRicanBilly

This hasn't been my experience at all. In over 15 years of hiring, I've only been asked for a pic once and that was a couple of years ago.

I understand wanting to be appreciated, but this feels a bit off to me. The tone comes across as resentful and borderline petty. Tipping should be a gesture of gratitude, not something tied to a mental checklist or used to quietly punish people. Clear communication and fair pricing go a lot further than vague expectations. Just my two cents.

In my very limited experience using DayUse, any additional taxes or fees are clearly shown during the booking process. Also, be sure to check the parking options and costs, if needed. Depending on the hotel, parking charges can be significant.

https://rent.men/Alejostud https://rentmasseur.com/Roberick https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/136870-411-on-newbie-roberick-in-nyc/ https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/144588-411-on-alejostud/#comment-2163426

I met Joseph last week. He’s originally from Cuba, previously lived in Miami, and recently relocated to Orlando. His place is clean and conveniently located. Photos are accurate and current. His massage is strictly therapeutic and he is clear and upfront about it. I’d rate the overall experience as a B+ / A-. He remained fully clothed throughout the session, and although his ad includes a sensual option, there were no sensual elements involved during my visit. Like always, this is just my experience and YMMV.

I'm perfectly fine with upfront, menu style pricing, what I really dislike is the upselling during the session. That kind of approach is a major turn off for me.

I'm not sure I fully understand the OP's post, but it reminds me of a situation I had with a provider I hired a few times. During our last session, after I handed him an envelope with his usual fee plus a tip, he suddenly told me he needed to raise his rates. I didn’t have an issue with the rate increase until he said it would apply retroactively to the session we had just finished. The strange part? His new rate was actually less than what I had already been paying him with the tip included. So I simply told him that the envelope already covered his new rate. Needless to say, I never hired him again. A couple of months later, he texted me asking why I hadn’t booked him since. I didn’t bother responding.

I really don’t mind sharing my experiences or even my opinions through DMs. I see it as an important part of what makes this forum valuable, and I’ve received some great responses to my own inquiries that way. That said, I usually check how long someone has been a member and how active they are on the forum before deciding how much detail I’m comfortable sharing. I also make an effort to clarify what I think is part of the typical experience versus what might fall into the YMMV territory. I also really appreciate it when people follow up with feedback after they’ve had their own experience.

You already know the answer to your question. That said, as a paying client, don’t you see how many things are wrong with this statement?

In my opinion, the core issue here isn’t necessarily that he works as an escort, people can have all kinds of professions or make personal choices for a variety of reasons. The real problem is that he chose to keep it from you. In any committed relationship, transparency and trust are essential. When one partner withholds something this significant, it creates a deep rupture in the foundation of that trust. From my own experience and from what I’ve seen in others' lives, once that trust is broken, it’s incredibly difficult, if not impossible, to fully restore it. You begin to question everything: what else has been hidden, and what can you believe going forward. As painful as it is, I agree with the advice others have already offered: consult a lawyer, get a divorce and move on. It may not feel like it now, but protecting your emotional well-being and long-term peace is worth making that difficult choice. You deserve honesty, respect, and someone who values the truth as much as you do.

I personally enjoy a bit of conversation after the session, it feels natural and part of being human. However, I’ve been seeing one particular provider regularly for the past two years who isn’t chatty at all. I suspect it’s due to his limited English skills, but who really knows.

Providers who ask for payment upfront are usually the ones who deliver a subpar experience and/or cut the session short.

Ohh got it, thanks for clarifying. I’ve never hired in London, so maybe that’s just how things work there. Thank you for the heads-up; I’ll need to keep it in mind if I ever look to hire in London, especially since Brazilians are among my top choices.

Maybe this is a location specific issue, because that hasn’t been my experience with Brazilians. The only time I was asked to pay in advance was by a provider from Colombia. Since that wasn’t mentioned during the appointment setup, I simply turned around and left.

I’m not arguing that he could be a scammer or that it's a potential red flag, but it’s funny that you suspect the guy might be a “bot or scammer”, yet you take “originally from Florida” at face value, as if it automatically means he was born there. It’s clear that his English is limited, so he might be misusing the word “originally”. Maybe he just meant that he used to live there. Maybe he just feels that telling a random stranger he's not from the U.S. isn't the best idea right now. In any case, you’d be surprised how many people who were actually born in Florida aren’t fluent in English. Some grow up in households where only another language is spoken, like Spanish, Russian, or French. Others are raised in tight-knit cultural or religious communities where English isn’t the dominant language, even if they’re white and born in the U.S.

Yes, it's increasingly common for people, especially the younger, to not consider vaping the same as smoking, even though both have health implications. The distinction is more cultural and perceptual than scientific.

You’ve got to be kidding! When was the last time you were actually in Florida, especially Central or South Florida? LOL!!!

Simply hover over the member’s profile, you’ll find the option in the bottom right corner. If that doesn’t work, you can also use the following link to add them manually. https://www.companyofmen.org/ignore

That is what the “Ignore” option in the forum is for. If you feel a member has been consistently nasty, you can just place him in your Ignore list. It works wonderfully. In my opinion the moderators here do an excellent job intervening when the rules are broken.