JamesB

It’s interesting that you pointed out the two accounts responsible for 6 of the 8 positive reviews. Neither of them has any profile information, all their reviews are in Spanish, and both accounts were created on the exact same day. Do you happen to know if Steavenm is from Venezuela?

Amway isn't a fly-by-night scam, it survived FTC scrutiny (ruled not a pyramid in 1979 because it emphasizes product sales over pure recruitment) and has an A+ BBB rating (accredited since 1991). Amway's legit as a product company, but the opportunity? It's a grind disguised as a shortcut to freedom. The couple seems nice because that's the hook. MLMs thrive on personal rapport. Your suspicion isn't paranoia; it's pattern recognition. The "sweet" bonuses are real if you crack the top, but for most (including that mentor?) It's more of a hobby than an empire. Curiosity's free; regret isn't. You've already done the homework most don't, so trust that gut. This is just my opinion and it’s worth exactly what you are paying for it.

I’m not a IOS user so I may be wrong but as far as I know: Blue: When both sender and recipient use Apple devices (iPhone, iPad, Mac) with iMessage enabled and an internet connection (Wi-Fi or cellular data). Green: When messaging non-Apple devices (e.g., Android), iMessage is off, or there's no internet (falls back to carrier SMS).

Your mention of hiring an escort was part of sharing your story after your wife’s passing, not something you meant to linger on. So it makes sense that his repeated references to it felt off, especially since they seemed to overshadow the rest of your connection and left you uncomfortable. People react to this kind of information differently. His comments might have come from curiosity, insecurity, or even judgment but it’s hard to know without more context. Sometimes when something is outside someone’s own experience, they fixate on it, like with him saying: “never having hired anyone.” The fact that he brought it up during and after intimate moments probably made it feel even more intrusive. If those remarks felt like a red flag, it’s completely fine to trust your gut and reconsider whether you want to see him again. Ask yourself whether his tone came across as judgmental or just awkward curiosity, and whether talking it through could help clear things up. For what it’s worth, I don’t usually mention hiring unless someone asks me directly. It’s not exactly common small talk material.

Try this: Open Outlook and create a new email (click the compose button) or open an existing one by double-clicking it. Click inside the email body (important, this enables the menu; if you don't, options will be grayed out). Go to the top menu bar: Format > Zoom (or look for the Options tab in the ribbon toolbar at the top of the window. If missing, right-click the toolbar > Customize Toolbar > drag "Zoom" to add it). In the Zoom dialog: Set the percentage to 100% (or your preferred size, like 125%). Check the box for "Remember my preference" if available. Click OK. Close the email without sending (just hit Cmd+W or the X button). Test by opening/creating another email. It should now display at normal size.

With today’s tools, editing photos is easier than ever. People can smooth skin, slim figures, tweak lighting, or even swap out entire backgrounds. Professional edits can be almost invisible, but quick or amateur ones usually leave traces. Look closely for inconsistencies like mismatched shadows and lighting, warped backgrounds, blurry edges, or unnatural smoothness. There are also AI tools available that can help spot these edits.

Communication, communication, communication! Don’t be shy, tell him what you like, steer him in the right direction, guide him and let him know what’s working (and what’s not). Think of it as giving him the cheat codes to make the session a win-win.

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/147679-asking-a-client-for-a-face-pic/#comment-2226502 https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/159381-is-it-common-for-providers-to-ask-for-a-client’s-pic/#comment-2438970 https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/130968-providers-asking-for-clients-pic/#comment-1929709

Sounds like your big head knows advancing the money is a bad idea, but your little head is whispering, “C’mon, what could go wrong?” Trust me, we’ve all been there and we all know how that story ends; usually it’s with your wallet a lot lighter and a lesson you didn’t really want to learn.

If you’ve hired him recently, I don’t see any problem with reaching out. But if it’s been a long time since your last session and he hasn’t advertised in several months, I’d probably just let it go. It also depends on how good of a relationship, if any, you had with him back then.

I can see the X pics as long as I’m in the US, but once I’m outside (using a VPN), no luck. So at this point, it’s either I get to see dicks or read the reviews but apparently not both at the same time. 😒

I wouldn’t describe Dubai as gay-friendly. Homosexuality is illegal throughout the United Arab Emirates, including Dubai, and sex work is also prohibited. Ultimately, it’s up to you to decide what feels safe for you.

You’re definitely a better person than me. If I see gloves, they’d better be for a prostate massage… otherwise, I’m out the door.

I’ve always paid in cash and never once had a provider complain. The only exception was with a long time regular who traveled with me a few times a year, between covering travel expenses and fees, cash just wasn’t practical in that case.

It sounds like you’ve got a really good thing going, you enjoy his therapeutic style and there’s already some level of friendship there. I stick with my earlier advice: show appreciation for the new extras and let him take the lead. No need to risk what you have by pushing his boundaries, just be patient and let things develop naturally.

It’s tough to give advice without knowing more about the dynamic between you two, but initially I’d suggest starting by increasing your usual tip to show appreciation for the new extras, and then letting him take the lead on how any additions to the session unfold.

You posted your story on a public forum, that means it was never private to begin with. Expecting that what you share here somehow stays contained is, frankly, wishful thinking at best. Once it’s out in the open, anyone can screen-grab, copy, or pass it along. That’s the nature of the internet. If your intent was to warn others, then you have to accept that the subject of your warning might eventually hear about it. Complaining that it got back to him doesn’t make sense, it was always a possibility the moment you hit “post.” The provider reaching out is just a harmless consequence

List from AI: 1. **Mutual masturbation** - Stimulating each other’s genitals by hand. 2. **Oral sex (fellatio)** - One partner performing oral stimulation on the other’s penis. 3. **Deep kissing** - Passionate, prolonged kissing on the lips. 4. **Body worship** - Kissing, licking, or caressing areas like the chest, abs, or thighs. 5. **Nipple play** - Touching, licking, or sucking on each other’s nipples. 6. **Handjobs** - Using hands to stimulate the partner’s penis to orgasm. 7. **Frottage** - Rubbing genitals or bodies together, clothed or unclothed. 8. **Intercrural sex** - Rubbing one partner’s penis between the other’s thighs. 9. **Erotic massage** - Sensual massage focusing on erogenous zones. 10. **Dry humping** - Grinding against each other while clothed. 11. **Mutual nipple stimulation** - Simultaneously stimulating each other’s nipples. 12. **Testicle play** - Gently caressing, licking, or sucking on a partner’s testicles. 13. **Perineum massage** - Stimulating the area between the scrotum and anus. 14. **Foot fetish play** - Kissing, massaging, or licking a partner’s feet. 15. **Role-playing** - Acting out consensual erotic fantasies or scenarios. 16. **Edging** - Bringing each other close to orgasm and pausing to prolong pleasure. 17. **Shower play** - Mutual touching or washing in the shower or bath. 18. **Body painting** - Using body-safe paint to create art on each other’s skin. 19. **Sensual tickling** - Lightly tickling sensitive areas for arousal. 20. **Erotic wrestling** - Playful, intimate physical grappling. 21. **Clothed stimulation** - Rubbing or touching genitals through clothing. 22. **Ice play** - Using ice cubes on sensitive areas like the neck or inner thighs. 23. **Blindfold play** - One partner blindfolded while the other stimulates them. 24. **Mutual stripping** - Slowly undressing each other as foreplay. 25. **Erotic storytelling** - Sharing or acting out sexual fantasies verbally. 26. **Body-to-body massage** - Rubbing bodies together with oil or lotion. 27. **Mutual spanking** - Light, consensual spanking on the buttocks. 28. **Earlobe play** - Kissing, nibbling, or licking a partner’s earlobes. 29. **Mutual teasing** - Light touching or kissing to build anticipation. 30. **Tantric touch** - Slow, mindful touching for emotional and physical connection. 31. **Sensual feeding** - Feeding each other fruits or sweets erotically. 32. **Mirror play** - Watching each other in a mirror while touching or posing. 33. **Temperature play** - Using warm or cool objects (e.g., warmed oil or chilled toys). 34. **Light bondage** - Using soft restraints like scarves for playful restriction. 35. **Sensory deprivation** - Using earplugs or headphones to heighten touch sensations. 36. **Hair play** - Running fingers through or gently pulling a partner’s hair. 37. **Mutual grooming** - Shaving or trimming each other’s body hair sensually. 38. **Candle wax play** - Dripping body-safe warm wax on skin for stimulation. 39. **Feather play** - Using feathers to tickle or tease sensitive areas. 40. **Mutual body licking** - Licking non-genital areas like the neck, back, or arms. 41. **Erotic dancing** - Dancing closely or performing a striptease for each other. 42. **Scent play** - Using scented oils or cologne to enhance sensory arousal. 43. **Mutual bathing** - Washing each other’s bodies in a bath or hot tub. 44. **Pressure point stimulation** - Applying gentle pressure to erogenous zones like wrists. 45. **Clothed frottage** - Rubbing against each other in tight clothing for friction. 46. **Mutual toy play** - Using non-penetrative sex toys (e.g., vibrators) on each other. 47. **Erotic photography** - Taking consensual, intimate photos of each other. 48. **Body mapping** - Exploring each other’s bodies to find new sensitive spots. 49. **Vocal play** - Moaning, whispering, or talking seductively to enhance arousal. 50. **Mutual stretching** - Helping each other stretch in intimate, close-contact positions.

You could host your pics outside of RM and provide a direct link in your profile. Not ideal but something to consider.

I don’t have much experience setting up group sessions, but one thing I’ve learned is that it’s crucial to lay out clear ground rules for both, what you want to happen and what you don’t. At the end of the day, you’re the client, so it’s in your best interest to make your expectations crystal clear from the start.

I used to pay for RM and only bothered writing reviews when things were either amazing or a total disaster. I finally canceled after one of my honest, 100% accurate bad reviews got deleted at the provider's request. No reason for me to pay or trust RM reviews anymore.

I’m in the .men team. The .eu site looks and feels outdated to me.

Bump

I don’t think that’s accurate. I don’t have a premium membership right now, and I can see different pictures depending on whether I log in on .men or .eu. On .men, only PG pics show up, but on .eu I can see all photos except the ones in premium or private galleries.