Overnight preference

[Mark_fl]

I just read someone's post that when they hire overnight,  they have a separate bed for them. Doesn't that defeat the purpose? 

Sleeping together,  for me, is the whole point. I'd want that closeness, just not someone handy in the morning. 

Also a fetish of mine is fondling and sucking (with permission of course) while sleeping. 

Anyone else hire overnights and not sleep in the same bed?

[Elite_XL]

I have never had that happen with a customer but I can see the point. Perhaps they are too accustomed to sleeping on their own that they can’t sleep with anyone next to them, which is understandable.

[Becket]

When I travel with my regular we have two beds in the room. I don''t easily fall asleep and we both sleep better separately. Besides, it's always fun and sexy to slip into his bed for a cuddle any time I want. I used to be a one bed only guy, but sleep is sleep. 

[+ Jamie21]

I had a client keep me in a separate room (in a two bedroom apartment in the hotel) on a vacation trip one time! It was fine, he’d visit my room when he wanted to play. He said he slept better alone and he snored so he didn’t want to keep me awake unless it was for fun. Very considerate. 

[SecretProvider]

I've had clients book overnights and get me to sleep in separate bed - mostly because they either snored./used a CPAP machine, or slept with tv/radio on (which I can not do) 

WE still snuggled until it was sleeping time and then in morning catch up again as soon as we wake. 

re: your fetish, I have had a client who specifically had a "free use' kink and wanted to be able to enter me when ever he wanted - including while I was sleeping and we consented to it first.

To each their own. 

 

[+ SidewaysDM]

I sleep alone at home. But, on an overnight with my providers, really love cuddling, and spooning until we drift off to sleep. I usually wake up around 3:00 am for a bit of playtime. Then in the morning we have a quickie before hitting the shower. Wish my schedule and finances allowed for more overnights. 

[+ Charlie]

Why would I pay to sleep with someone?

[Mark_fl]

11 minutes ago, Charlie said:

Why would I pay to sleep with someone?

Because it's less silly than paying to have someone sleep somewhere else.

[+ Pensant]

I think I was the OP. I always get two beds for overnighters. I love my sleep.

[+ azdr0710]

another person in my bed??.....hell, I don't sleep well if another person is even in my house!......

[big-n-tall]

For me, it depends on a number of factors.

One of my frequent regulars, when he comes to visit me, I'll try to book a hotel with multiple beds or separate rooms. It's not that I don't like cuddling next to him, but I know he works hard at his day job and I want to be in as much comfort as possible when he visits. He seems to appreciate this a lot and shows it. We have gone on trips places where we share a bed and that works out too.

For me, my biggest issue is I can run hot. Being snuggled up to someone all night, if the room isn't cool enough, can be unbearable. Although some guys love that I am so physically warm and it makes them want to snuggle more (especially in winter). 😱 😆
If I'm sharing a bed, I make sure it's the largest the hotel offers. I will definitely cuddle/snuggle but I can't do it all night usually. A large bed allows us to have our sides, but we can cuddle or whatever else any time.

Edited Sunday at 02:12 AM by big-n-tall

[Occasional]

23 hours ago, Charlie said:

Why would I pay to sleep with someone?

So that you wake up with them!  For me, the cherry on the cake of an overnight session is to wake up feeling refreshed and relaxed right next to an attractive, naked young man in bed with me. My hand gently finds his thigh and then slides up his leg to gently fondle his cock and balls, mentally reliving the actvities of the previous night and pleasurably anticipating a further round of action in the comfort of our warm bed .....

[sjmuktop]

I have been hiring since December 2006, and in all that time (blimey, it isn't far off being two decades!) I have only had about five or six overnight sessions.

One of those (the first one) was an outcall and the rest were incalls at the escort's place. All times the escort and I slept together in the same bed. I would definitely not have it any other way, and wouldn't entertain the idea of an overnight session if being in the same bed to sleep together was not a possibility.

I could not imagine sleeping in a separate bed as the escort, as I want the intimacy and physical closeness of cuddling up to him, but it is totally understandable if the client is accustomed to sleeping on their own and cannot sleep with someone next to them. 

Edited Sunday at 11:31 PM by sjmuktop

[Mark_fl]

20 minutes ago, sjmuktop said:

 

I have been hiring since December 2006, and in all that time (blimey, it isn't far off being two decades!) I have only had about five or six overnight sessions.

One of those (the first one) was an outcall and the rest were incalls at the escort's place. All times the escort and I slept together in the same bed. I would definitely not have it any other way, and wouldn't entertain the idea of an overnight session if being in the same bed to sleep together was not a possibility.

I could not imagine sleeping in a separate bed as the escort, as I want the intimacy and physical closeness of cuddling up to him, but it is totally understandable if the client is accustomed to sleeping on their own and cannot sleep with someone next to them. 

Please change this color scheme. It's painful to read. 

[+ purplekow]

3 minutes ago, Mark_fl said:

Please change this color scheme. It's painful to read. 

Thank you for pointing out that there was something written there.  I did not see it at first and once I did, I could not read it anyway.  

[sjmuktop]

24 minutes ago, Mark_fl said:

Please change this color scheme. It's painful to read. 

Done! I hadn't even noticed that it had gone like that because I use the site on 'dark mode', as my eyes are extremely sensitive to bright artificial light.

Thank you for bringing it to my attention. I'll have to go back on all my other comments I've recently made and see if they're the same. Bloody hell.

Edited Sunday at 11:35 PM by sjmuktop

[sjmuktop]

16 minutes ago, purplekow said:

Thank you for pointing out that there was something written there.  I did not see it at first and once I did, I could not read it anyway.  

Can you see it now?

I'm not sure what's happened, but I'm having trouble with my text and the colouring. Now when I switch to dark mode (which is more comfortable for my eyes), I cannot see what I've written. As long as others can see it in whichever mode they use the site, that's all that matters.

EDIT: It would seem I was typing in so-called 'rich text' colour scheme. Not sure how that happened, but I have switched back to 'plain text'.

Edited Sunday at 11:32 PM by sjmuktop

[Mark_fl]

14 minutes ago, sjmuktop said:

Can you see it now?

I'm not sure what's happened, but I'm having trouble with my text and the colouring. Now when I switch to dark mode (which is more comfortable for my eyes), I cannot see what I've written. As long as others can see it in whichever mode they use the site, that's all that matters.

EDIT: It would seem I was typing in so-called 'rich text' colour scheme. Not sure how that happened, but I have switched back to 'plain text'.

This looks great! Thank you.

[mike carey]

2 hours ago, sjmuktop said:

EDIT: It would seem I was typing in so-called 'rich text' colour scheme. Not sure how that happened, but I have switched back to 'plain text'.

That was probably the issue. Rich text seems to be 'what you see is what is posted' and if you're in dark mode 'what you see' is white text, which in light mode is not particularly useful (save for 19th century spies accustomed to invisible ink). Plain text uses automatic text colour, which varies between modes.

Something similar can arise in text you've copied from elsewhere. When you do that, the software may post a warning that it has been pasted in rich text (which brings text attributes, usually including text colour), but it asks you if you want to convert it to plain text. 'Rich text' doesn't discriminate, it can end up with faint or invisible text in both modes depending on what was copied. (I usually use dark mode, and illegible text seems to happen far more often there. Text being entered into a comment, whether by typing or pasting, with text colour set as black seems to happen more often than text set to white.)

On some occasions I've been able to 'fix' the issue in a comment I'd posted by opening it in edit mode, deleting the text (Ctrl-X) and pasting it back (Ctrl-V), upon which the warning I mentioned above posts and I can convert it to plain text. I haven't done it often enough to be sure that it works all the time, though.

[savantsav]

I've kinda started moving away from overnights. We meet at 9pm, have dinner, play until about 12:30, go to sleep then wake up at 7 and bye? IDK It seems that TO ME, I would have a much better time booking 3-4hrs from 8pm-12 then bounce. The difference in rate can be half or more.

Edited Monday at 10:57 PM by savantsav

[mike carey]

1 hour ago, savantsav said:

I've kinda started moving away from overnights. We meet at 9pm, have dinner, play until about 12:30, go to sleep then wake up at 7 and bye? IDK It seems that TO ME, I would have a much better time booking 3-4hrs from 8pm-12 then bounce. The difference in rate can be half or more.

If that's the experience you've had, I'd agree, but my experiences have been quite different. Start earlier, perhaps dinner, play more than once, sleep close, morning wood taken advantage of, breakfast, part mid to late morning with a glow.

[savantsav]

Three of the guys I've done overnights with want in at 9pm and want out at 7am. They say it's 10hrs. Hence why I'm saying this, rather do 4hrs 9pm-1am for more than half the rate of 10hrs

[Nightowl]

I see the point of overnights.  Why would I want to pay someone to sleep?

[Luv2play]

On 1/3/2026 at 4:02 PM, Pensant said:

I think I was the OP. I always get two beds for overnighters. I love my sleep.

I do too. We use one bed for play and mess it up pretty good. We then crawl into the fresh bed to cuddle and sleep together. 
If we decide to play in the middle of the night and in the morning we go to the messy bed. Sometimes we have to spread a towel over it since it is so messy.

I always leave a generous tip for the chambermaids. ($20)

[savantsav]

2 hours ago, Nightowl said:

I see the point of overnights.  Why would I want to pay someone to sleep?

People who crave that kind of intimacy which I understand.