Proximusss

Thanks for linking this. It’s really helpful.

Thank you for this! I usually get off multiple times during our 2-hour appointments. I don’t have a set number as I just go with the flow. I’ve been to his apartment several times and it’s well kitted out. He said he would also provide food and refreshments. Thanks so much for the ideas, though!

Hi all, I have booked a 4-hour appointment with my favourite provider as a 30th birthday present to myself. I’ve seen this provider several times over the past 6 months and we have a good rapport and nice chemistry. The longest appointment I’ve had so far is 2 hours. I just wondered if anyone had any experience with a 4-hour appointments and could provide insight into how they are paced. I know that experiences will vary, but it would be good to get some ideas from both providers and clients. The appointment will take place at his apartment. Thanks in advance all!

Taller men are just a physical preference for me. Perhaps my only physical preference. Besides, my masseur and I often start the fun standing up. My current masseur and I have started incorporating BDSM into our sessions and his height makes it possible to explore more positions.

I prefer taller masseurs. I am 5’6 and all the masseurs I have hired have been 6ft+.

I use a local one in London as that’s where I am based. They do also take bookings longer than 2 hours even though their website shows 2 hours as the maximum length.

Two hours is the minimum time I hire for. It goes by way too fast, IMO (I don't think the agency I use allows for longer bookings otherwise I absolutely would!). It gives us plenty of time to settle in, chat, shower together (with lots of teasing), and a lengthy massage/fun time. If you gel with the provider, 2 hours will go by so fast. It will seem like it's not enough time.

Agreed! And the sessions are just a lot more pleasant. None of that initial awkwardness or trying to scope each other out. The two providers that I see somewhat regularly have also become way more intimate over time and are always the ones who initiate the ‘extras’.

Definitely more selective. It’s not just about looks for me, either. I have to vibe with their personality as well. I don’t like leaving things to chance, so I tend to stick to the same provider exclusively for a long period of time.

I’ve never done an overnight before, but if/when I do, I will definitely have a separate bedroom for him. I don’t like sharing my bed. Plus I want to give the provider their own space and downtime without having to worry about pleasing me.

This is why I get payment out of the way before the appointment. I would hate to be reminded to pay, so I usually transfer the money to my provider the morning of our appointment. I book through a very reputable agency though, so the chances of me getting stiffed are extremely low.

I always pay before. I either leave the money out on the side or send it via bank transfer. I much prefer it that way so I can focus on enjoying the experience.

I hate carrying cash, so I always pay my regular via bank transfer. The agency he works for asks for payment in cash but I asked to pay by bank transfer after our first session because withdrawing that much money (our sessions are over £500) was just too much hassle and stress for me.

What happened after this? Did he mention it? I honestly wanted the ground to just swallow me up when I heard the crack. Especially because I am also on the heavier side and my regular is muscular (about 200lbs).

Thank you. I will add a tip the next time I see him.

Hey everyone, I would appreciate your insight into this as I’m still reeling from embarrassment. I had a session with my regular at his place the other day. We usually alternate between my place and his, and this time the festivities took place at his place. We don’t always have sex each time we meet, but this time he was up for some very, very animalistic sex this time (as was I!) Anyway, as we were getting into it I hear a crack coming from the bed. I was absolutely mortified as he heard it too. I heard a further crack after that but he kept going and didn’t mention it again. My question is; should I offer a tip to cover the damage? I’m not suggesting replacing the entire bed I was just thinking of sending him a little extra for the inconvenience. Any thoughts would be appreciated.

Definitely (again, answering on behalf of a friend).

What happens if one does not drink tea? Asking for a friend 🤣

I also quite like the sense of separation that we have as a result of going through an agency to book the massage. We have each other’s social media accounts and we know each other’s real names.

It would make things a lot easier for sure, but I haven’t thought to ask him. I know he’s registered with multiple agencies owned by the same person and I would hate for him to get blacklisted if it got out that he’s effectively poaching clients.

Why, are you thinking of coming over too? 😌 I mainly just have some fresh fruit and items that are individually wrapped such as popcorn, pretzels, cookies/biscuits. I also make a mean graze board (so meats, various cheeses, breadsticks, hummus, cake pops, chocolate, etc)

Maybe I will give you the Proximusss outcall treatment one day and you can see for yourself. 😉

Good point about the dog. He has mentioned that he takes the dog out twice a day (once in the morning and once in the evening) to go to the bathroom. It also might be cumbersome for him to bring the dog especially if he’s coming to me.

Michele Morrone and Simone Sussina.

I wish I could. I don’t know how people aren’t embarrassed to bring someone back to their place if it’s disgusting, especially if they plan on getting intimate. I’ve heard some real horror stories on this which is why I ensure nobody who comes to my place has a terrible experience. It’s a case of treating people how I would like to be treated.