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I pay my current regular £700 for 2.5 hours (including showering together). It’s absolutely worth it to me.

I hate carrying cash, so I always pay my regular via bank transfer. The agency he works for asks for payment in cash but I asked to pay by bank transfer after our first session because withdrawing that much money (our sessions are over £500) was just too much hassle and stress for me.

What happened after this? Did he mention it? I honestly wanted the ground to just swallow me up when I heard the crack. Especially because I am also on the heavier side and my regular is muscular (about 200lbs).

Thank you. I will add a tip the next time I see him.

Hey everyone, I would appreciate your insight into this as I’m still reeling from embarrassment. I had a session with my regular at his place the other day. We usually alternate between my place and his, and this time the festivities took place at his place. We don’t always have sex each time we meet, but this time he was up for some very, very animalistic sex this time (as was I!) Anyway, as we were getting into it I hear a crack coming from the bed. I was absolutely mortified as he heard it too. I heard a further crack after that but he kept going and didn’t mention it again. My question is; should I offer a tip to cover the damage? I’m not suggesting replacing the entire bed I was just thinking of sending him a little extra for the inconvenience. Any thoughts would be appreciated.

Definitely (again, answering on behalf of a friend).

What happens if one does not drink tea? Asking for a friend 🤣

I also quite like the sense of separation that we have as a result of going through an agency to book the massage. We have each other’s social media accounts and we know each other’s real names.

It would make things a lot easier for sure, but I haven’t thought to ask him. I know he’s registered with multiple agencies owned by the same person and I would hate for him to get blacklisted if it got out that he’s effectively poaching clients.

Why, are you thinking of coming over too? 😌 I mainly just have some fresh fruit and items that are individually wrapped such as popcorn, pretzels, cookies/biscuits. I also make a mean graze board (so meats, various cheeses, breadsticks, hummus, cake pops, chocolate, etc)

Maybe I will give you the Proximusss outcall treatment one day and you can see for yourself. 😉

Good point about the dog. He has mentioned that he takes the dog out twice a day (once in the morning and once in the evening) to go to the bathroom. It also might be cumbersome for him to bring the dog especially if he’s coming to me.

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I wish I could. I don’t know how people aren’t embarrassed to bring someone back to their place if it’s disgusting, especially if they plan on getting intimate. I’ve heard some real horror stories on this which is why I ensure nobody who comes to my place has a terrible experience. It’s a case of treating people how I would like to be treated.

I’m not very good looking and I’m overweight. The masseur looks the complete opposite (tall, muscular, Brazilian, fantastic skin and hair). I guess that would be the catch? 😆

I don’t have direct contact with him as any and all communications happens via his agency. I would rather not tell the agency that we have sex as it’s not an advertised service. We do follow each other on our personal social media accounts but I don’t know if mentioning it there in a private message is crossing a line.

The dog can stay, he can leave 😂

Thank you so much for your comment. I actually have all the things you mentioned in your first paragraph to hand already in the guest bedroom. I just bought my first flat in London last on my own so I have kitted it out with really fancy, schmancy stuff. 😁 But yes, I’ll definitely ensure everything is spotless. I also pay my masseur by bank transfer before the session (I trust him as I book him via an agency) so we don’t have to discuss money at all during the session itself.

We have had dates in the past and we follow each other’s personal social media accounts. I am not looking for anything more with him (I appreciate that’s a real concern with providers). I just wanted to ensure that he had a good time the first time he came over to my place. But I’ve taken the feedback to tone it down onboard as I don’t want it to come across like I’m after something other than a good client/provider relationship.

Also, he won't be staying over! But the session will be several hours in length.

Thank you for this! The reason why I mentioned bread is because I make it every weekend. I like the smell in my house plus it tastes great. But great point about potentially going overboard 😄 I do like to impress but will tone it down. Thanks for the tips!

Hi everyone, This question is more for providers (but fellow clients chip in too as all perspectives are awesome!) I have booked an outcall appointment with my favorite masseur. I have met with him several times at his apartment and each time has been better than the previous one. We get on really, really well. This will be the first time he will be coming over to my apartment and I wanted to see if there is anything I can do to make it comfortable for him (besides ensuring the apartment is spotless which it will be!). I don't have direct communication with this masseur as I book him through an agency so I can't ask him. At the moment I have thought of: Beverages (bottled water, soft drinks, all kept chilled) Freshly washed towels and face clothes Even more fresh towels Fresh bedding Snacks (was going to have some fresh fruit and homemade bread and butter on hand) Travel size toothbrush, toothpaste and mouthwash Ensuring the house is well scented (which it usually is anyway) Condoms (as we have had sex before) Would providing my own be an issue? A small gift Asking him to bring his dog over. This is a weird one, but I really love his dog and I look forward to seeing him when I go over. Any insight would be much appreciated - thanks in advance!