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Thanks for linking this. It’s really helpful.

Thank you for this! I usually get off multiple times during our 2-hour appointments. I don’t have a set number as I just go with the flow. I’ve been to his apartment several times and it’s well kitted out. He said he would also provide food and refreshments. Thanks so much for the ideas, though!

Hi all, I have booked a 4-hour appointment with my favourite provider as a 30th birthday present to myself. I’ve seen this provider several times over the past 6 months and we have a good rapport and nice chemistry. The longest appointment I’ve had so far is 2 hours. I just wondered if anyone had any experience with a 4-hour appointments and could provide insight into how they are paced. I know that experiences will vary, but it would be good to get some ideas from both providers and clients. The appointment will take place at his apartment. Thanks in advance all!

Taller men are just a physical preference for me. Perhaps my only physical preference. Besides, my masseur and I often start the fun standing up. My current masseur and I have started incorporating BDSM into our sessions and his height makes it possible to explore more positions.

I prefer taller masseurs. I am 5’6 and all the masseurs I have hired have been 6ft+.

I use a local one in London as that’s where I am based. They do also take bookings longer than 2 hours even though their website shows 2 hours as the maximum length.

Two hours is the minimum time I hire for. It goes by way too fast, IMO (I don't think the agency I use allows for longer bookings otherwise I absolutely would!). It gives us plenty of time to settle in, chat, shower together (with lots of teasing), and a lengthy massage/fun time. If you gel with the provider, 2 hours will go by so fast. It will seem like it's not enough time.

Agreed! And the sessions are just a lot more pleasant. None of that initial awkwardness or trying to scope each other out. The two providers that I see somewhat regularly have also become way more intimate over time and are always the ones who initiate the ‘extras’.

Definitely more selective. It’s not just about looks for me, either. I have to vibe with their personality as well. I don’t like leaving things to chance, so I tend to stick to the same provider exclusively for a long period of time.

I’ve never done an overnight before, but if/when I do, I will definitely have a separate bedroom for him. I don’t like sharing my bed. Plus I want to give the provider their own space and downtime without having to worry about pleasing me.

This is why I get payment out of the way before the appointment. I would hate to be reminded to pay, so I usually transfer the money to my provider the morning of our appointment. I book through a very reputable agency though, so the chances of me getting stiffed are extremely low.

I always pay before. I either leave the money out on the side or send it via bank transfer. I much prefer it that way so I can focus on enjoying the experience.

I hate carrying cash, so I always pay my regular via bank transfer. The agency he works for asks for payment in cash but I asked to pay by bank transfer after our first session because withdrawing that much money (our sessions are over £500) was just too much hassle and stress for me.

What happened after this? Did he mention it? I honestly wanted the ground to just swallow me up when I heard the crack. Especially because I am also on the heavier side and my regular is muscular (about 200lbs).

Thank you. I will add a tip the next time I see him.