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I’m not very good looking and I’m overweight. The masseur looks the complete opposite (tall, muscular, Brazilian, fantastic skin and hair). I guess that would be the catch? 😆

I don’t have direct contact with him as any and all communications happens via his agency. I would rather not tell the agency that we have sex as it’s not an advertised service. We do follow each other on our personal social media accounts but I don’t know if mentioning it there in a private message is crossing a line.

The dog can stay, he can leave 😂

Thank you so much for your comment. I actually have all the things you mentioned in your first paragraph to hand already in the guest bedroom. I just bought my first flat in London last on my own so I have kitted it out with really fancy, schmancy stuff. 😁 But yes, I’ll definitely ensure everything is spotless. I also pay my masseur by bank transfer before the session (I trust him as I book him via an agency) so we don’t have to discuss money at all during the session itself.

We have had dates in the past and we follow each other’s personal social media accounts. I am not looking for anything more with him (I appreciate that’s a real concern with providers). I just wanted to ensure that he had a good time the first time he came over to my place. But I’ve taken the feedback to tone it down onboard as I don’t want it to come across like I’m after something other than a good client/provider relationship.

Also, he won't be staying over! But the session will be several hours in length.

Thank you for this! The reason why I mentioned bread is because I make it every weekend. I like the smell in my house plus it tastes great. But great point about potentially going overboard 😄 I do like to impress but will tone it down. Thanks for the tips!

Hi everyone, This question is more for providers (but fellow clients chip in too as all perspectives are awesome!) I have booked an outcall appointment with my favorite masseur. I have met with him several times at his apartment and each time has been better than the previous one. We get on really, really well. This will be the first time he will be coming over to my apartment and I wanted to see if there is anything I can do to make it comfortable for him (besides ensuring the apartment is spotless which it will be!). I don't have direct communication with this masseur as I book him through an agency so I can't ask him. At the moment I have thought of: Beverages (bottled water, soft drinks, all kept chilled) Freshly washed towels and face clothes Even more fresh towels Fresh bedding Snacks (was going to have some fresh fruit and homemade bread and butter on hand) Travel size toothbrush, toothpaste and mouthwash Ensuring the house is well scented (which it usually is anyway) Condoms (as we have had sex before) Would providing my own be an issue? A small gift Asking him to bring his dog over. This is a weird one, but I really love his dog and I look forward to seeing him when I go over. Any insight would be much appreciated - thanks in advance!