Luv2play

On the local radio news last evening it was reported there are now 4 active cases of Mpox in Ottawa, which has a relatively small gay community. They do get quite a few visiting providers from larger centres though such as Montreal and Toronto. Something to keep an eye on as many gay men failed to get the full vaccinations when they were offered two years ago. I think many just thought the epidemic went away and wasn’t something to be concerned about.

I could overlook the tats.

I confirm the rate each time whether they are regulars or not. Mainly because I often schedule more than just the standard hour. For a short session I really prefer one and a half hours so that entails a small negotiation anyway. And some I might see after a year or so has passed so it’s best to check if the rate is the same.

I wonder how many of the men in the audience thought that this guy must be a great deep throater?

The best time I ever had was during the pandemic when I paid $2000 for two nights with the day in between. This guy came 3 times each night and once during the day in the kitchen while I was making lunch. I got a protein shake.

That was an amazing act. Perhaps not what I would expect at this type of religious event. I should get out more often to these type of shows!

You appear to be responding to the wrong thread.

Of course I mostly pay in Canadian dollars which are less than US by about 25 percent or so altho it varies but I have paid $2000 a number of times and once $2500 for a 14 hour session. The $2000 was for 10 to 11 hours generally. But of course I have done many in the lower ranges which were also satisfactory like $1100 to $1500.

Me too.

His twitter account is now suspended.

There was talk in the earlier thread about his rates. But $400 for an hour of oral and $1000 for 2 hours of the whole enchilada seems reasonable to me, if his pics and videos are accurate. It is a great ad he has with all the exposure of skin you could ask for.

You and my late father!

Actually as someone who broke his back in an accident when I was 19 and have the occasional flare up, I would not agree to a session if my back was sore or painful. I like to enjoy a vigorous workout in the sack and having back pain would kill any pleasure.

I think most providers and certainly the reputable ones understand when a client needs to back out of a scheduled session because of health issues. I most often schedule weeks and sometimes even a month or so ahead for providers since I either have to travel to them or vice versa. And not talking about cross town travel. It disappoints me as well as the provider for different reasons of course but nevertheless when I have really been looking forward to the meetup and have to cancel, it really sucks. I don’t pay a cancellation fee unless the timing is really last minute like the day before or less. I also understand when a provider has to cancel for health issues. That has only happened to me once or twice but it did happen last fall and I had already travelled to another city to see him and he only told me when aI was in the lobby of his hotel.So that really sucked as well well since I travelled 4 hours for nothing, 2 there and 2 back. He didn’t offer to pay for my gas, which amounted to $75 or so. And obviously my wasted time.

Obviously not. I’m supposing you said that tongue in cheek. To get a dancer to cum in the back booths usually took at least 5 songs or more. And you had to be careful becuz they did sort of monitor the area some nights more than others. Once a dancer and I got caught in the act but the monitor was nice enough to let us finish so I got the dancer’s load before he had to leave. He got suspended for a week or two tho. I felt sorry for him so took him home and he came back several more times to my place during his suspension. He was a lot of fun and let me take pictures of him, which I still have.

Oscar Wilde only got as far as Paris.

That was not my experience back in 2006. There was lots of touching going on then. I lived a block away and preferred Campus to Stock. I had some favourites and I was given carte blanche ( for a price). 👿

That says quite a bit, doesn’t it. When spousal abuse and violence mostly affects women (the odd case can be a man as victim), and it is treated by the media as an entertainment story, the situation is not going to be treated in a sensitive way that leads to a true understanding by the public of what is going on.

I read in the NYT today that as a result of Nicole Simpson’s death many improvements were made in California and other jurisdictions to deal with spousal abuse and intimate partner violence. Reviewing the case and its particulars I don’t think Maureen Dowd got it right by comparing it to Othello. This was more than jealousy, it was about a person with controlling behaviour and a penchant for violence. Here in Canada some jurisdictions are declaring domestic violence an epidemic. Whether that will lead to better outcomes remains to be seen. It is a daunting task to control someone’s behavior when they show a willingness to kill their spouses and then themselves. There is little that can deter that kind of behavior imo.

I hadn’t realized until now that O.J. and I were the same age. And while prostate cancer got him in the end, it hit me at 59 and I beat it. Back at the time of the trial, I had a young roommate who was an escort and looked after my dog when I was travelling on business, which was a monthly occurrence. I remember on the day of the verdict, we were watching it live on TV and he bet me O.J. would get off. I was in disbelief when the verdict came down. Later I realized I was basing my judgement from the vantage point of my privileged white upper economic and social status. People who felt oppressed by the system didn’t see things the same way. My roommate was a good looking kid in his early 20’s who was learning how to exploit the system despite his lack of education and other advantages. He moved out when he found an elderly sugar daddy to move in with and he no longer had to pay rent to me.

You didn’t say that at the outset when you posed your question. What else are you holding back?

If a provider appears prudish during conversations in whatever media I use to contact them, that ends the discussions right there. If I wanted a date with a prude, I would go to a church social. Not that I have anything against the latter, which I can enjoy on its own terms ( for instance the food offered is usually quite good).

As a bottom I like Swiss Silicone. It comes in a pump bottle which is a bit of a pain in luggage so I wrap it in a facecloth in case of some minor leakage. Some say silicone lubes stain bed linen so I place a towel down on the bed. Even for incalls where I will bring one with me.

I believe that is called tea bagging. Or as Dean Martin would sing: “When the balls hit your eyes like a big pizza pie, that’s amore.”

Yeah. Look at all the trouble the former guy got from dating hookers. Stay tuned for the details that will start coming out after April 15 in a New York courtroom. 😛