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The escort is a beneficiary and the executor would have been named by her in her will which I assume was drawn up by a lawyer. Unless she named him executor, the beneficiary (the escort Simon) will have hire his own lawyer to represent his interests. I am currently acting as an executor to a friend’s estate and fortunately all the beneficiaries are playing nice so far. I haven’t got to the point of divvying up the loot yet so we’ll see how it goes. Lol

I see another poster has already started this subject in another thread. Moderator: Maybe my post can be combined with his.

CBC is reporting a case that is going to trial in British Columbia. It involves a straight male escort who went by the escort name of Sam Gaines (no irony intended) and whose real name was Simon Garstin. He was 30 and his female client was in her 80’s . She died in 2021 and left her small fortune of $1 million to him. She was a widow and had no children. They had had what I call a regular deal and in one year she slept with him overnight 7 times. She was lonely and this was during COVID that they had a relationship. He advertised his services as a male escort for companionship and sex. They did both (what a girl!). Of course this is where the distant relatives step in and contest the will. They are a niece and nephew and live in Australia. Hardly ever saw her. But they are the next of kin and barring the will would inherit. They were also mentioned in the will but only if the escort predeceased her. And to complicate things a former trainer of hers, who was her beneficiary in a previous will, is also contesting the will. The kin are both mentioned as residuals if either the trainer in the earlier will or the escort in the last will predeceased her (fat chance). I’m rooting for Simon. In her last months he gave her the great gift of the human touch and intimate exchanges. The trainer had earlier given her some of the same human interaction concerning her physical well being. And the kin folk are just counting on bloodlines to put them at the head of the gravy train. We’ll see how it turns out.

No, I meant cannot. There are laws against it in many jurisdictions.

He’s done some great porn. One of my faves.

I had initially considered that but I think one cannot profit from committing a criminal act and then writing a book about it for personal gain.

You could be right. If I were him and he had enough money stashed away, I would take a lower profile when I got out of the slammer.

Looks like he will accept a plea that involves incarceration. What a fall altho he has already been locked up for a year already. When he gets out he won’t have a career to return to in all likelihood since his age will be against him returning to porn.

I’m not surprised the Montreal dancers are back home. This last weekend was Formula 1 Grand Prix weekend, the largest sporting event in Montreal revenue wise. The fans are high rollers and I imagine some are gay and show up at the stripper bars. There are other types of fans too so the straight guys probably are in high demand as well.

I still experience lust, especially when I have scheduled an overnight with my favourite provider and he is on his way to my home. At 78 and having had my prostate removed 19 years ago, hardons are a thing of the past. But as an enthusiastic bottom and still capable of orgasms, the sessions we have are still very rewarding. When my libido will fade away I don’t know. Until then I will just keep doing what I enjoy.

I think I read recently that drug can cause a lot worse problems. Maybe I m wrong but since I never tried to deal with my baldness since I can’t see it except using two mirrors I frankly couldn’t care less.

And one passenger literally walked away from the crash. He was apparently sitting in seat 11A right beside the emergency exit door. He got blown out of the aircraft and survived with non life threatening injuries. Amazing.

I can live with either situation. It doesn’t bother me if they have a first name on their RM ad that is a regular first name. If they have something that is not a real name like Top Stud, then I ask them what I should call them. I have had a handful of regulars over the years and always got to know their real first and family names. I would never divulge their names to others even if I recommend them as I think that is not for me to do. In the few times I have included them in a threesome with another escort, I will use their RM names during the session to protect their real identity.

He is quite funny.

I do have a recollection of about 30 years ago about meeting this 75 year old gay man at a party at his apartment in Montreal. He was very youthful looking and impeccably dressed in a blazer and tie. I had no sexual attraction to him, but hoped I would look like him when I reached his age. I reached that goal but now realize I probably don’t attract 40 somethings either now. Thank god for providers.

My days of knowing people 30 years older than I am are long gone. 108 year olds are extremely rare. Lol

I don’t claim to have found the fountain of youth but 20 years ago I was a regular gym goer and my older friends weren’t. Today at 78 I still have a gym membership and go regularly. I tend to swim there more than work out but today I did both, for instance. I also spent 3 hours this morning doing yard work, cutting the grass and planting new flowers. The best thing I do to keep young feeling is scheduling an overnight session with my favorite provider. He puts me through the paces. I feel a little exhausted the next day but recover the next day. When that stops I guess I will have to hang up the cleats.

I disagree. Most of my friends over the years have been my age or since my 50s older by up to 20 years. Today in my late 70s my friends are between 50s and 80s. The older friends from 20 years ago are all dead.

You’re going in the right direction. The only thing I don’t do is coffee in bed in the morning. I like to get up, clean myself up, and head down for breakfast with the escort if in a hotel or down to my kitchen where I make breakfast.

The question is always how much are we to believe a magazine cover photo. Concerning the shirtless photo of Rob and one of his sons, the other son commented that the photo looked photoshopped. A son should know.

Papineau it is. Congratulations. Amherst is pronounced Am hurst. General Amherst had a distinguished military career in Canada but has been condemned recently for his alleged advocating the use of smallpox infected blankets to poison the natives. Today the issue has come back as the Hudson Bay Company is dissolving and their famous blankets were implicated it would appear. Despite that I treasure my Hudson Bay four point blanket.

Gee he has good reviews. How did he stand you up?

Most of the streets in the Village are named after French Canadian notables from its history. The one English one I can recall, other than Wolfe, which is beside Montcalm, is Amherst, which was expunged a couple of years ago. Other English ones bit the dust decades ago. For example Craig St became St. Antoine. Dorchester became Rene Lévesque. All of this of course reflects the rising nationalism in Quebec. I only object when streets are renamed with unpronounceable and unspellable names. Like Amherst with …?

When I had a place in Montreal in the Gay Village 20 years ago I struck up a friendship with one of the dancers from Campus. After several sessions in the back rooms, which were hot and steamy, I took him back to my apartment. As it turned out he was a descendant of one of the famous ‘Patriotes’ of 1837. Even has a Montreal street named after him not far from Campus. I still have photos taken of him naked with a hardon in my bedroom.

I find at my age I spend more time doing laps in the pool at my gym and less time in the gym. My goal is to increase the time spend in the gym this summer.