Do any guys with average size penis provide services?

[Mark_fl]

I know most providers exaggerate their endowments, but I think for me, and maybe a lot of others,  there is a market for average guys in good shape.

I don't even care if a dick pic is posted, nor would I ask for one. I just want to see a flat stomach, smooth skin (minimal hair) and a boy-next-door, clean-shaven face.

These seem few and far between from what I've seen. Most guys showing off their big dicks and hairy assholes. I know you give the people what they want, but I wish more average guys would put themselves out there.

[la_connor]

Use the filters in RM search.  You'll find many men with average equipment.

[DMonDude]

Yeah there are plenty, you just have to go beyond RMs front page which is just all the biggest dick having-est body builder gods who pay to get boosted on the front page. If you use the search and set the dick size setting, or whatever else. You can find exactly what you're looking for long as guys like that are in your area (this is a factor you can't really do much about though).

[Mark_fl]

I wouldn't filter for that, as I don't care about dick size. Its just that I fear having an average dick is preventing a lot of normal,  All-American guys from being providers.

[+ PhileasFogg]

It’s called a “starter dick” for those new to bottoming. 

[+ purplekow]

One of my favorite escorts, and the one that is the best sex partner, has an average sized cock but an huge amount of enthusiasm, skill, energy and endurance.  Granted, I do not bottom. so size it not an issue in that regard, but even if I did, he has the reputation of being energizer bunny like in this regard and there are videos to prove it.   I am always stunned by big muscle guys like Vin Marco and Apollo Phoenix who have great bodies and large endowments, but while they have been great for me, there is something to be said for all types of enthusiastic men.  

[DMonDude]

28 minutes ago, Mark_fl said:

I wouldn't filter for that, as I don't care about dick size. Its just that I fear having an average dick is preventing a lot of normal,  All-American guys from being providers.

Hmmm, maybe it's a location/city thing? Depending on what your definition of All American is, i feel like there's plenty of those guys providing.

[jmichaeliii]

They are out there which is great.  Its hard for me to give great oral to bigger guys as I can't handle my throat being jammed and my jaw muscles tiring!  The ones where I can take it all in heat things up because I love hearing them enjoying!

[+ KensingtonHomo]

2 hours ago, Mark_fl said:

I fear having an average dick is preventing a lot of normal,  All-American guys from being providers.

In my experience, lots of providers have average-sized dicks - or maybe the high end of average, like 7". The other things you desire are coded as white and either midwestern or maybe from New England ("All American, fairly smooth, clean shaven). So maybe filter for those qualities too. 

[soloyo215]

6 hours ago, Mark_fl said:

I know most providers exaggerate their endowments, but I think for me, and maybe a lot of others,  there is a market for average guys in good shape.

I don't even care if a dick pic is posted, nor would I ask for one. I just want to see a flat stomach, smooth skin (minimal hair) and a boy-next-door, clean-shaven face.

These seem few and far between from what I've seen. Most guys showing off their big dicks and hairy assholes. I know you give the people what they want, but I wish more average guys would put themselves out there.

RM allows to filter by size and type. I imagine that you have used those features, but if not, they can help weed out those that don't meet your requirements.

I also wonder if you could be ok with you to have a hairy guy that shaves. Not sure if a provider will shave for you, but it doesn't hurt to ask if he's willing to do that for you. The opposite is what's more difficult to cater (not sure the guy can grow hair if he's smooth).

Best.

[panpanda]

There are a lot of providers that have an average dick size. Also, don't believe any of the size unless you have a ruler and can actually measure it out. Many providers overestimate their size (heck, I think we all do).

Edited November 27 by panpanda

[NYXboy]

where are you based? the team may be able to to send you some recommendations. 

[Nightowl]

I’ve always wondered whether the decision to become a provider was because the guy wanted to capitalize on having a big dick…

[+ Alabastrine]

I've seen lots on rent.men with average size cocks, and I've used the cock size filter on occasion to eliminate anyone over 7ish. Don't get me wrong, monster cocks are super hot, and I am very tempted, but I know that shit's gonna hurt anatomy like and I'd be wasting my money if I'm not enjoying myself. Average is a very comfortable and fun ride.

[Wings246]

What is the definition of average-sized though?  Is it based on sociological statistics or is it a personalized standard?

[JB_Studio38]

On 11/25/2025 at 11:18 AM, Mark_fl said:

I wish more average guys would put themselves out there.

Trust me, average guys are putting themselves out there, for all the world to see. It’s just they post more on other gay sex platforms, than in the RM world. 
 

But there’s still a large culture in the “community” that sex is something to do when bored and horny. So many cities out there may have few to no “Rentmen” advertising, but a lot is going on behind the scenes. 

[pubic_assistance]

5 hours ago, Wings246 said:

What is the definition of average-sized though?  Is it based on sociological statistics or is it a personalized standard?

The gays all think 7 inches is average  while in reality, most men aren't bigger than 5" to 6" erect. So I would say socialigically, when shopping around the gay hookup sites and escort apps youre gonna have many guys afraid to say they are less than 7 inches.

I find that many, many men list 8 inches on their profile yet I upon meeting them, the question comes to mind...8 inches from WHERE ? Your asshole to the tip ? 🤔

[GentJ]

On 11/25/2025 at 4:27 PM, Mark_fl said:

I wouldn't filter for that, as I don't care about dick size. Its just that I fear having an average dick is preventing a lot of normal,  All-American guys from being providers.

If you're a pure top on RM, I'd say the expectation is that you have at least 7 (advertised as 8 or 9). Not sure if you're allowing vers or vers/bottom guys in your search, but based on my research in the NYC area, those are the guys that usually have 'Boyfriend Dick'. But yeah, you're probably right that the market prevents lots of guys that WANT to be tops from being escorts if they don't have the size. Bummer.

[Wings246]

18 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

I find that many, many men list 8 inches on their profile yet I upon meeting them, the question comes to mind...8 inches from WHERE ? Your asshole to the tip ? 🤔

This situation is a mirror image of the age shaving "phenomenon," except that one is inflated whereas the other is deflated.

[CuriousByNature]

2 hours ago, Wings246 said:

This situation is a mirror image of the age shaving "phenomenon," except that one is inflated whereas the other is deflated.

Generally speaking, it's probably closer to 8 inches when inflated rather than deflated.

[+ Jamie21]

Average size dick in sex work (for tops or vers top) is 8 inches 😂.  I’m average. If you don’t like 8 inches in you I’m fine to just use the first 5 (but there’s no discount sorry). 
 

[SometimesBi]

1 hour ago, Jamie21 said:

Average size dick in sex work (for tops or vers top) is 8 inches 😂.  I’m average. If you don’t like 8 inches in you I’m fine to just use the first 5 (but there’s no discount sorry). 
 

Ok, now I gotta ask: Do you really think that once you got going, that you could restrain yourself to just the 5 inch depth? I'd expect the urge would just be too strong for you to not, eventually, push all the way in. 😉 

[+ Jamie21]

5 minutes ago, SometimesBi said:

Ok, now I gotta ask: Do you really think that once you got going, that you could restrain yourself to just the 5 inch depth? I'd expect the urge would just be too strong for you to not, eventually, push all the way in. 😉 

Hmmm now there’s a question. It might slip in a bit further and tbh sometimes the bottom pushes back so yeah I might end up balls deep. 

[Nightowl]

New game show: “Who’s the bottom?” where contestants are faced with 10 guys, all with erections, and they have to correctly determine which is the bottom based solely on erection length.  Winner gets cash, prizes, and the opportunity to fuck the bottom.  Hell, I’d watch it….