Height Difference - A Turn On/Off

[Mark_fl]

I'm 5'10" but provider height doesn't matter to me. Slim and smooth is what matters to me.

I was surprised once when a provider I was talking to asked how tall I was and seemed excited I wasn't short. I wonder of many clients are on the short side? Seemed like an odd question and reaction.

[+ RyanDean]

I'm not tall (5'10") but I do love a beefy/built short king. Especially if they're hung. 

[nomad]

5 hours ago, Mark_fl said:

I was surprised once when a provider I was talking to asked how tall I was and seemed excited I wasn't short. I wonder of many clients are on the short side? Seemed like an odd question and reaction.

I don't think it is odd ❓ I do think some people aren't sure how to handle the difference at times.  When you're the taller person more of the responsibility falls to you to make it work.  

Edited June 21 by nomad

[+ Act25]

It doesn't make a difference to me, although it's pretty rare for me to be with someone who's taller than me as I'm tall.  I figure once you're horizontal it feels like you're the same height. 

I remember the first time I kissed someone my height (20 years ago - Justin in Anaheim) - it was revelatory - his lips were right there, no bending down.  😀

[nomad]

I'm sure 

58 minutes ago, Act25 said:

it was revelatory - his lips were right there, no bending down.  😀

I'm sure you had to bend for his hips for other things.  😆

[+ Tygerscent]

Turn on and for different reasons: sometimes I like little guys that I can scoop up and put in my pocket and carry them around all day… Play with their butts when I feel like it… Take them in the bathroom and we pee together, in bed, I pick them up and sit them down on my hard cock… other times I like these little guys to go out daddy on me and that’s fun too 
 If I’m in a group setting, I fill out the room and hang back for a bit and then I find the person I wanna fuck. First could be a shorter guy could be a taller guy, typically average height or shorter than an and then I go through the romann start methodically fucking people up the butt. The bigger they are and the more muscular they are the more I get off on it.
 I was in Palm Springs one time and with a client who allowed us to go to the play party while he socialized. I went into a room where there was a number of slings and for whatever reason there were these construction guys… They had long hair and they were all muscle And they were big… Tall, musty tan long-haired guys and there was one was particularly hot for. He was fucking some guy in a slang. It got closer I could smell him. His scent was wafting over and I wanted him so badly. I literally pushed him over the guy he was fucking And I stuck my finger in his ass and then I went down and spit on his hole and I pulled his hips back so I could go deeper… And then I fucked him while he was laying on top of the guy he was fucking. It was awesome
 Well, I’m fucking him, I’m looking around the room to see who’s watching and who I wanna fuck next and then I went through all these big guys and I was so turned on… It was so hot because they were so masculine and they were taking it up the ass and I loved it  
In a fetish sort of way, I like guys with long legs, which means that they’re taller than I am. Especially hot if they’re standing over me with their dick and balls in my face and I’m staring up at their ass and I’m stroking my dick while they’re playing with my nipples… I’m gonna come for sure.

Edited June 25 by Tygerscent

[MxB]

I'm 5'7" and STRONGLY prefer taller men.  My first partner was 6' 5" and that was a huge turn-on for me.

When hiring I generally go for taller, muscular guys.  Tall is a preference, not a requirement.  I used to see a guy who was a wrestler / martial artist / Strongman competitor as well as a masseur.  He was 6' 2" and kinda my ultimate wet dream fantasy.  Sadly, he retired.

I've learned that there's a name for fascination with size difference: macrophilia.  I've created several AIs to explore this further.  The shortest one is 6' 8".  One of them is 10 feet.

[FLFunSized]

At 5’3” there aren’t too many guys shorter than me. I do prefer a taller man though, like 6’+, especially with a leaner build. I consider myself versatile but there is something hot about topping a guy that big. Unfortunately my height has been a barrier for some on more than one occasion. I get it, I just wish there was more tact in dealing with the situation. 

[Boaxxx]

On 6/19/2026 at 3:44 PM, Proximusss said:

Taller men are just a physical preference for me. Perhaps my only physical preference. Besides, my masseur and I often start the fun standing up. My current masseur and I have started incorporating BDSM into our sessions and his height makes it possible to explore more positions. 

Incorporating BDSM into a massage session? Do tell. 😉

[+ PhileasFogg]

This evening’s planned encounter is with a young man one foot taller than me…I’ll let you know how it goes 😉

[+ Charlie]

I am average height (5'10") and am influenced enough by stereotypes that when I am attracted to a much taller guy, I want to be a bottom, and if I am attracted by a shorter guy I expect to be a top. If we are similar heights, we can go either way. In a romantic relationship, one would expect that I would be attracted by someone my own height, but in fact, although my spouse was several years older than I was, he was also several inches shorter. Somehow the age difference helped to balance the height difference and make us equals.

[FLFunSized]

4 hours ago, Charlie said:

I am average height (5'10") and am influenced enough by stereotypes that when I am attracted to a much taller guy, I want to be a bottom, and if I am attracted by a shorter guy I expect to be a top. If we are similar heights, we can go either way. In a romantic relationship, one would expect that I would be attracted by someone my own height, but in fact, although my spouse was several years older than I was, he was also several inches shorter. Somehow the age difference helped to balance the height difference and make us equals.

It’s funny, what makes us tick. As a short guy, I’m the opposite of you. If I’m attracted to a taller guy, I imagine topping him. If I’m attracted to a smaller guy, I imagine bottoming for him. 

[Johnxlatino]

I believe it doesn't matter as long as I'm getting paid. But tall guys are always a plus in my book.

[jeezifonly]

In my rarer hiring pattern right now, it tends to be for massage on their (height-adjusted table) so I have no reason to consider height relative to mine (6')

I have never been with someone who is more than 3" over/under my height, so I don't associate height difference with any increased eroticism. Have worked alongside both short kings and giants, and been attracted to both, but when hiring full service, specific height is low on the wishlist. 

Unless we're going to take dance lessons at Kellerman's.