Muscle_Admirer

This gentleman (Transformative Touch by Jesse), I’ve seen a few years ago and it wasn’t a relaxing experience. However, I want to attribute that to being relatively new. He did disappear for some time then reappear, looking bigger and better than ever. I’m hoping in that time he’s honed his craft as I would like to give him a second chance. There was also a short thread about him 6-years ago: Feel free to indicate if you have had recent, positive encounters.

I agree. However, what’s odd about this provider’s gallery is that the professional shot, though beautifully crafted, makes him look even older than his candid shot. Even factoring a much older age, not to be blunt, but I can only assume that he’s lived a very tough life. I give him credit for presenting himself honestly, though it’s tempting to do otherwise in the age of AI.

I make it to Austin and Dallas quite regularly through the year. In the last couple years I’ve seen the options increase dramatically (more eye candy than not), probably due to influx of folks moving in from the coasts? I can’t vouch for how good the legit massages are since it’s been more than a decade since I’ve had a legitimate hotel spa massage (with a masseuse no less). As long as the masseurs doesn’t induce more aches than they assuage, I’m happy. I simply enjoy the touch/intimacy/connection of M4M massages rather than any therapeutic aspects.

It seems he's well-reviewed, so it might be worth taking a chance? That said, I don't do deposits, mainly due to privacy and discretion concerns. I'm not keen on sharing intimate details of my desired encounter along with my real name and contact details only to have him ghost me and take my money, then do whatever he wants with my information. However, I’m an open book after my first, in-person, encounter with a provider… especially if everything goes well. Needless to say, I do compromise by sending an Uber Black to pick providers up in lieu of deposits. It's not cheap, but it shows I'm serious about meeting. Unfortunately, Ronaldohot has a one-track mind about securing a deposit to confirm his bookings. In my experience, providers that don’t consider alternatives like the ones I often provide, tend to suddenly cancel 'booked' appointments chasing after more enticing offers, leaving you with a lighter wallet and nothing to show for it. I love Miami, and there are plenty of equally or more attractive gentlemen willing to entertain without requiring a deposit (or at least amenable to alternatives).

He has an unusual look that is quite intriguing to me, however, his behavior towards potential clients gives good cause for concern. His OF seems to be very run-of-the-mill with most of his recent posts being solo. He’s 6’+ so I presume his body is fairly proportional and presents the illusion that his member is average sized? His OF feed also indicates he has a type… so maybe he’s very hot/cold depending upon whether his clientele meets his personal standard for attractiveness and thus the widely varying behavior?

AceDaDon Aceleesuree This young man seems to have popped up in my feed a little while ago and has an enticing look. Anyone here have any recent interactions with him? It appears he has been on RM and rentmasseur for years, yet only one thread from two years ago was created with no reported encounters. He appears to have a good number of reviews on his masseur page and a good number of repeated reviews from one client in particular on his RM page. Honestly, I don’t really give RM or rentmasseur reviews any credence given our fellow forum members having a difficult time posting negative reviews on those platforms. If you prefer, PM me if you have any information you don’t wish to share publicly.

Interesting topic. I've never actually participated in WS myself, but I have a couple of regular providers who always start our sessions by urinating openly and very copiously right in front of me… in the bathroom. Looking back, I'm wondering if it was a subtle way of testing the waters…pun intended…to see how I would react. Maybe they just stay very hydrated? I'm thinking about asking them directly at our next sessions whether they were trying to invite me into something new.

This is interesting. I gladly stand corrected.

Definitely someone I would buy a weekend plane ticket to see… if he’s real. Some of the photos look a little TGTBT i.e. AI enhanced which might lead to disappointment when meeting this stud in the flesh. The lack of a phone number indicates to me that he’s either very new (and is knowledgeable about lookup tech regarding personal phone numbers) OR he’s a catfish with very little personal monetary investment. This person on RM is not Sam Sulek as far as I can tell. Besides, the narrative does not make sense. Sam Sulek, AFAIK has no meaningful affiliation with Quebec. Bodybuilders oftentimes do escorting or extras massages before they break out… but once they do, I’m doubting they continue. The whole muscle worship and escorting scene in bodybuilding world IMO is seen as a necessary evil to make good money on the way to achieving one’s goals. Interesting that the review is from a session in Melbourne, Australia? Seems quite out-of-the-way from Montreal. I wonder if clients are flying him out? Seems a little strange to take a chance on a profile that’s not Gold or Platinum with no phone or reviews.

I believe anyone who hires a provider, has their needs fully met, and then deliberately reverses the electronic payment is utterly despicable. Providers have everything to lose and operate under intense pressure to perform and satisfy their clients. In our hobby, we must never forget that consent is fundamentally tied to financial exchange from the client to the provider. When a client purposefully rescinds their financial obligation after the fact, it raises profound questions about what consent even means in this context. By the same token, if a provider takes their fee without delivering the agreed-upon service to their client, that is simply theft.

If I had to do my first extras massage over I would have hosted in my space. Less stimuli all around. I had to get to his space, try to relax in his space, then leave his space when the session was over—usually dealing with urban stressors throughout. Nowadays, I prefer my masseur to come to me, work his magic to send me to heaven, then order room service and sparkling mineral water, subsequently listening to meditative Benedictine chant as sleep takes me…

Very delectable gentleman. I would love to make his acquaintance; however, his current profile’s admission of “party friendliness” is concerning…crystal meth especially is a horrific drug. I require the men I meet to be sober and in the right headspace, as genuine consent and mutual enjoyment depend on it.

I definitely prefer contacting providers sequentially rather than throwing spaghetti at the wall by reaching out to a bunch at once. That approach just gets you labeled a time-waster by providers in general. They can sometimes tell when someone is blasting inquiries everywhere, then picking the first one who responds and giving the rest the proverbial broom. In my experience, it’s rare for a provider not to reply to a serious availability inquiry—who in their right mind would pass up $350+ for an hour of their time? The real issue isn’t whether they respond, but how quickly. With a little patience, you can land the right provider at the right time, every single time. When I’m traveling, I’ll usually reach out to just two providers I’m genuinely interested in. Often one will reply fairly quickly while the other takes longer. If both are available and a good fit, I’m happy to hire them both. That said, I never contact anyone unless I have serious intent to book them. To me, inquiring without real interest feels selfish, even though I know providers…especially the more popular ones…will sometimes cancel at the last minute for a better payday. I find this happens rarely if I’m a regular with someone, but if they find a more lucrative offer for their time, I remain flexible and encourage them to take it. That’s their prerogative. I suspect I’ve had two-hour appointments bumped for a $3,500 overnight or a $10k weekend getaway to the Turks & Caicos. It comes with the territory in this hobby.

I've never really taken the time to introspectively explore my feelings for other men until recently. What I've realized is that I'm simply not wired for traditional monogamy. In past romantic relationships, I usually feel genuine attraction and affection for the first six months to a year. But after that, the intensity fades, things start to feel routine, and I find myself craving variety and newness. It's not that I stop caring about my partner… it’s just that the spark becomes dull for me, and I need something fresh to feel fulfilled. I think this transition is traditionally seen as the evolution of love, but I’ve never experienced it as being mind-blowingly intense as I’ve seen it described on occasion. This pattern is ultimately what led me to transactional connections with escorts. For me, it’s a clean, no-strings-attached way to meet an immediate intimate need. Hiring ensures that I can select a top-notch partner on my terms. I can connect with an attractive person for a short time, compensate them fairly, and then go on with my life without expectations or complications. It works well with how I’m built. I do enjoy kissing in the moment because it feels good during physical intimacy, but I’ve never experienced it as something that creates deep emotional bonding. Once the encounter ends, I feel satisfied and complete. Because of this, I don’t believe I’ve ever truly been “in love” in the lasting, enduring way many people describe. What I’ve felt in romantic relationships has been closer to strong affection or infatuation. That excitement tends to wear off after a while, and the connection usually settles into something more like a close friendship in the context or a romantic relationship. This is simply how intimacy and love have shown up for me. I’m curious how others have experienced the intersection of romantic love, physical desire, and emotional needs… especially in relation to our shared hobby.

To be honest, I had no idea what scandal you were talking about, so I spent some time digging into the “Mike Jeffries Scandal.” OMG, what a train wreck. Older pictures of Mike Jeffries made him look like a classically handsome man, but all the cosmetic surgeries have turned him into a walking nightmare. The scandal itself seems more like a shakedown. Once a wealthy, powerful man falls from grace, those associated with him appear eager to cash in before the attorneys shake the money tree bare. From what I understand, just about all the models were compensated… cash or otherwise. I’m not sure why they thought they would receive thousands of dollars and first-class airfare just to attend parties. It seems they all had a clear choice: take the money and do what was asked of them, or leave the money and go do something else. I have yet to read anything substantial showing they were unlawfully forced to participate. Certainly, if that was the case, the accusers should expect and deserve justice.