I see what you are saying, however I’m torn…The kind of provider that would judge paying, respectful clients over looks would be the kind of person to thoughtlessly take your “rejected” pic and mercilessly mock you online with it. I’m paying a premium in this hobby NOT to have a petty, judgmental, masochistic Grindr experience. In my view, the fee delivered to the provider is simply a quid pro quo between a SW professional and a client he wouldn’t otherwise date… and I’m ok with that. If times are truly changing, I will do what it takes to have the experience I desire… patience, generosity, and kindness have always worked for me and go a long way.