DrownedBoy

I've seen RM go down on numerous occasions, even reverting back to the old page at least once during the past week. Standard web app problems, especially since RM probably doesn't have many software engineers.

"Drug related offense" is way too vague. If he got arrested for using drugs, ignore it. They should all be legal anyway. But if he hurt/robbed/raped someone while high....you get the idea. Like @APPLE1said, it's public record. Don't tell anyone unless it's something serious.

"Guts" is just another way to say intuition ,street smarts, and unconscious desire. Always go with your gut.

I'm sure that if escorting was legal, a mega-corp would find some way to force everyone to go through them. Somehow.

I agree. I don't believe RM messenger is as encrypted as it should be. I think it's just an unwritten rule - RM for basic info, and texting for actual hiring.

He was playing games with you, pretending to take 350 or 400, but then pretending it was for 2 hours. Cheap tricks for a cheap person. I think the best play here would be to say, "no haggling," and if the client tries again, say, "Okay, I'm ending this conversation until you want to discuss a serious transaction."

I had a provider who, right after coming in, suddenly started saying, "Is there anybody else here?" and opening the door to my bedroom, etc., that's off limits to providers. Entitled little brat - I told him to stop immediately, and after that he's off my list forever. Asking is one thing; intrusion is another.

This. All the "good economic news" that was (until very recently) going around only revolved around Wall Street and stocks. In reality, small businesses in America are still suffering badly. We're finally seeing the consequences of this.

Ask them

I was mistaken. Jordan and Valentin don't offer threesomes, only 4 handed massages. Glad to hear you enjoyed being with one.

He passes the collection plate...

There's no way around texting them, unless they specifically mention it in their ad. Unless you have someone specific, so other New Yorkers can chime in.

No...I mean the exchange goes like this: "What is your donation for 1 or 2 hour sessions?" "300 an hour" This always happens, as if the kid didn't bother reading the whole text. Which is why I started, after getting the hourly rate, to offer the 500/2 hour, which as everyone here has noted, is pretty standard.

Also, I'd suggest reporting the provider to RM, with those texts and proof of payment. Cons are all over the place. Best advice is to back off if you get a weird vibe from someone. This week I actually texted a new RM, and could tell from his words and tone that he was probably a con. However, he was also from Bronzeville, so I had a forewarning.

I don't think that's standard, for escorts to ask. However, I personally send them something if I have to cut at the last minute. I recall an escort who went off on me because he couldn't find his way around the city and complained about the cold, and said I should pay him money since he claimed he tried but couldn't visit me. But with that attitude, all he got from me was a block.

I can't even imagine, as a EDIT client, being that unclean. Before I see an escort, I always take a shower and specifically make sure my posterior is clean, even though I don't bottom for escorts. I also make sure to brush my teeth and use mouthwash when the provider arrives, and actually keep mouthwash out in case my mouth gets dry. A person who doesn't keep themselves clean lacks self-respect and/or basic manners. I know some men (especially older men) can be careless about this. They probably figure that since they're paying, they don't need to be considerate to providers or masseurs.

The thing is - I often ask providers what their 1 and 2 hour rates are, and I cannot recall a single instance where they also gave me their 2-hour rate. They only give me their 1 hour rate. No idea what that always happens.

That's what I would expect too. Ditto - on that I don't ask for discounts, but may be willing to entertain an unsolicited counteroffer. However, as has been mentioned on this board, there are escorts who quote an obscene price, then counteroffer with a merely outrageous price. Budding salesmen. Often, when an escort quotes me 300 or 350 an hour, I simply ask, "Would 500 be good for 2 hours then?" Although there's something of a "discount" involved, I usually don't get turned down or get a "compromised experience," since most providers offer that anyway. And if they don't, I'm not haggling over it.

Does anyone know what he's trying to say here? A lover of new experiences, I really seek to give palcer in a different way

I use a virtual credit card number, which my main CC gives me. It's completely anonymous. It's not perfectly untraceable, but I believe the only way it could be traced is if law enforcement both specifically targets EDIT that number and is able to get a warrant to force the bank to reveal info. You'd have to do something a lot worse than hire a legally-aged escort to get that, and generally, only the FBI or higher would have the resources to do that. (also, I use it for all web transactions to keep anyone from stealing my number)

Not in the physical sense - I mean in the monetary. I was wondering - how many clients try to get out of reimbursing what they promised? Are you generally able to convince them? And if not, do such meetings make you lose a significant amount of money?

It means that Latinos and Blacks don't always like each other. Not limited to Chicago. EDIT: And if you want to argue that, please do so in a different thread, because here's not the place.

Good move, and more appropriate than my response. My reaction to when a provider confronted me about a bad review was simply a variation of STFU followed by a block. You try to rip me off, you pay.

UPDATE - I met him eventually, and his English is fine, as are his manners and body. IMHO he's hot. @Yukon21 you are correct he has a schedule that can shift and cut people off. However, since I had the free time, I told him I'd be flexible to keep the session whole. He ended up coming in early. That's not an option we all have, including me when I'm working on something important.

I would not hire a guy with nipple piercings, however. I was with a guy like that once, and I had to be careful because even brushing against the rings hurt him. I'd hate to meet someone who also had scrotum rings, etc., for the same reason.