DrownedBoy

On the 2nd, they issued a flood warning for April 3 - 5, but I re-checked, and the warning is gone. Weather forecasting ain't an exact science.

Basstiann, since you're one of Ryan's competitors in the Chicago market, I would think you'd have the courtesy not to use this forum to try and smear your colleagues. I read your long post on a different thread, and I read Ryan's here. You would benefit from some of his education and humility.

One of my regulars has this cologne that I ask him to keep wearing for me

Will people stop with this "corpse" thing? This happens to a lot of people. Just Google and look for people who get frustrating because their partners just "lay there" and let you do all the work. This happens to all couples, gay or straight, married or single, etc. All it means is that you get a bad f--k.

Chicago has flooding right now, along with our lovely offering of sleety snow. I won't get angry if a provider has to cancel because the river floods the roads.

Currently reading Ravelstein, Saul Bellow's final novel. Pretty interesting, basically an accurate portrayal of the U of Chicago prof Allan Bloom, whose book COTAM I read waaaay back in the day. I love how the book reveals that the grumpy, moralistic man who wrote COTAM was actually a closeted gay guy who paid 16-year-old boys for sex down in Hyde Park, even when he was dying of AIDS.

Those friends don't happen to have sharp teeth, and only come out at night, do they?

I take off my rings, but I don't recall being with a provider who wore rings. I also wear a gold crucifix 24/7 and I keep in on. I've had providers wear similar religious symbols, and EDIT I agree it looks hot between their pecs. Another wears a bracelet with a style that makes him look hotter and more masculine. This didn't happen with a provider, but my chain has gotten in the way a few times. One time, somehow, it ended up getting tangled around my partner's member when I was giving him head. That was pretty embarrassing, and no doubt painful for him I should probably start taking it off at such times.

I believe he has a background in marketing, which he seemed rather skilled in. He was certainly persuasive. However, he didn't need to persuade me to hire him.

Did you adjust that for 50 years of inflation 😄 EDIT: Awww @Charlie just yanking your chain.

Why does it not surprise me that someone named @Becket is searching for Jesus. 😄 BACK TO TOPIC - How common is it for masseurs (not escorts) to be willing to French kiss?

I'm not convinced the male sex drive needs a "funnel" to seek out real men. Unfortunately, actual physical contact is one thing AI won't be able to provide for a loooooong time. (and when it does, there goes not only escorting, but probably dating, marriage, etc.)

Agree vote here too. If a provider acts like he's doing you a favor, he needs some life lessons. I wouldn't be surprised if he uses the "but" line to justify a higher rate table. (I'd ask what "xxx" means here, but probably not relevant)

For Christ's sake, this is a forum dedicated to men who pay or are paid by another man for some kind of sexual gratification. Complaining about a client's standards for attractiveness makes as much sense as getting angry at someone because you think they're too picky when buying ketchup at the grocery store. And please don't bring the LGBTQ community into this. I've belonged to some advocacy group since I was 19, and still, it's obvious that many, if not most, people in the community can be very shallow and selfish. If there even is such a community.

Hotel security isn't there for law enforcement. They're there to make sure nothing "unsavory" happens that would scare away guests, and to keep order. They don't have police powers. If people knew security had to tackle a fleeing, thieving sex worker, it wouldn't be good for their bottom line.

If you filled out a client profile page on RM, you have the same limitation. It's harder to write a short description than a long description. It's a skill everyone needs to develop.

That didn't stop a certain other politician from winning an even higher office.

Don't jump to conclusions. There are a lot of people who would sue and lie since he's got money. The fact that the one lawsuit was filed right before the deadline says enough. I just hope that, in one of these cases, the judges strike down these stupid laws and definitions. Under the current idiocracy, every single client could be called a "sex-trafficker," and every transaction "survival sex."

And as a provider, how do you view and treat potential clients who say that?

Countdown to thread shutdown in 10, 9, 8....

I'd report him to RentMen. You may not have proof, but at least he'll get kicked off if anyone else meets him and has trouble. EDIT: You won't be able to leave a review without meeting, so go the report route. I did this to a thief who also decided to ply his trade on RM. Shortly afterwards, I recall he received a1-star review, and was apparently expelled from RM within days.

Soliciting for a tip before the session. I kid you not.

I keep thinking about this line from either a TV show or movie, from the 1990s. If anyone recognizes where it came from, please reply. "You must be one of those people who believe hookers when they say they like you."

To some cops, all gay men fall into the "specific individuals" category. Especially in the red states where they do it. It's no different than when cops raided gay bars. They just find another justification to get rid of gays.