DrownedBoy

That does not apply to all clients on this board. EDIT And mature men know how to control their biological urges, so yes, it's just a hobby. Not a necessity, except for people without impulse control.

Strange you should say that. Yeah, I plan on hiring less - I work in fintech and see what's coming. I've decided to only hire a local regular I've seen for years. His rate is reasonable (partly locked in) and he's professional and honest (things highly suspect in travelling escorts). As a bonus, he's great at finding college guys who are willing to make three, and who charge much less than escorts. I'll give them some scholarship money any day.

Because he told me to.... Seriously, swallowing is only something I do to people I'm close with (never escorts). Like Churchill above mentioned, it's like being claimed, and it's very intimate, demonstrating how people can become close enough to do something many others would find disgusting.

Tame.

Believe me - at the age of 20, I also believed gay men weren't capable of true relationships. At that age, at that place, and I hope, at that time in history, The vast majority of gay guys at college stayed closeted, often joining frats, then f*cked around like crazy, while looking down at the "out" gays. After all, those closeted gays had big plans in finance, law, or whatever their parents had planned for them, and gay men didn't rise to high positions back then. The only advantage was that we knew, and when you have closeted gays on the student council, you also have a lot of leverage. It was rather amusing to watch an attempt to close down the gay club fall flat on its back with the guy who proposed it humiliated in front of the school. I know we were all shaped by the times, but I do not excuse that type of behavior. Then or now. I still think young gays aren't ready for relationships. I was in middle age before I started dating guys who were genuinely interested. That's one good advantage of aging while gay. EDIT In fact, I'd say this viewpoint applies to all people, gay or straight. It's just youth.

Dude - this already happened in Canada! And the escort won. https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/nova-scotia/former-sex-worker-small-claims-court-national-precedent-1.6896597 To quote: "There was offer, there was an acceptance of the offer, there was certainty of terms, so all the hallmarks of an enforceable contract were there." Although there was no formal contract, and although sex work contracts were not considered legal, the court decided commercial law applied. Of course, this is Canada. EDIT This would never happen in the states.

No. Only if you choose to appear to be monogamous.

Yes to the first, so I can't complain too much. Willful means he was slightly argumentative and cocky. Most annoying. I really need to stop hiring guys with an IQ over 100.

I love that I'm not the only one that fell for that, although I had the excuse of only being 19.

More like - I almost always hire regulars (my most regular guy, I've seen for 8 years), and casual payment has become common to me. Looks like the new market is rougher than the old. Live and learn. Also, like I said - 3 stars. He gave me what I wanted, just not as long as I wanted. The other indicator I missed - and I shouldn't have - is that he was very willful during our chats. I came within a thumb push of sending a message cancelling. That was my ultimate mistake.

Yeah. I have a habit of, 15 minutes into the appointment, if the guy has good reviews and a reputation on here, just wiring the money so I can forget about it later. No more. If they demand up front, I say half first, half after - you don't like it, find someone else with money. EDIT - Translation - the people who posted glowing reviews of him on this site have a little explaining to do.

Yup. I mentioned it in the forum, a provider tried to stick me with a supposed ticket he got from a handicapped zone. The problem - he was a Thai masseur in a poor neighborhood, and the ticket said it was a Mercedes. Sometimes I feel like I'm paying for the entertainment value, which is honestly, pretty good.

The precise formulation was: I texted him before he came telling him where it was safe to park. On arriving, he said he decided to park elsewhere. Soon after he arrived, he casually mentioned that his car was towed in the past, and he was so worried about that. Before he left, he claimed an app said "his car moved," and "that has to be because it's towed!" He made a snarky remark to the effect of: the money he made here wouldn't be enough to cover his tow. Of course, I simply replied that I had specifically warned him earlier about where to park. He ran out muttering something. I learned tricks like this in grade school. These guys need to step up their game if they want to get more money out. A for effort, though.

No, they'd have their hands against the wall and sometimes lean forward to look around them. It was an uncomfortable position. It was "a pose" that said they were available. They didn't have smartphones back then, but I wish I could have taken as picture. Anyone around at the time might know more.

Oookaaay.... He's a complete hunk, a great conversationist with a college degree, an excellent kisser. I can't say enough about his body. He claimed his phone said his car got towed, and ran out half an hour before the session would end. In such a hurry he couldn't say a word. EDIT. I had paid him ahead of time. Never had much trouble there until now... My opinion? Mathematics dictated 3 stars. My judgement of his character will remain private, but I'm sure most can guess. EDIT At least I saved the tip I had tucked away a few feet from him 😂

Beginning in January (the most political thing I'll say here), government officials started setting "quotas" for ICE, grading offices by how many people they deport. That's the reality of the situation, and why things are picking up. If you have a quota, you grab what you can find. It's easy to call a guy on RM. Worst, he gets arrested; best, he gets deported for "sex trafficking" or some other bullsh!t charge. Mark my words.

I know quite a few, but the key here is the partner calls himself bisexual. Like everyone here said, you can't really look inside their mind. It's a change. When I was in college, the "Gay and Lesbian Alliance" was still debating whether or not bisexuals belonged in our group. Back then, there was the stereotype of bi men as just opportunistic, untrustworthy horndogs who had no loyalty, and could just hide in plain sight when gay bashing started. Now everyone's bi.

Yeah. Boystown at night was a spectacle in the 90s. Every block, you'd see at least one cute guy leaning against a wall with his hands behind his back, looking somewhat nervous. Fast food.

If I am looking for right now, you only get 15 minutes from me if you have the "Available Now." Then I text someone else. Whoever answers first gets my money. This is the service industry, boys. I'm paying for service, not sex.

Guys like him, I don't think take it seriously. He's sure as hell not worth 300, nor was he getting that when on FB (before it went down). I know exactly where he lives, and it's the inverse of classy. I thought he might have been good for a cheap quickie on call, since he was so close, but he doesn't take it seriously. I'm not sure he even escorts in reality, given the cavalier way he treated an appointment, like something he could just delay because he wanted to watch a TV show.

Yup. Personally, I would think of it as revenge - you're getting that straight high school jock who made fun of you, and now he's bending over for money. Then again, most gay men could say that about other gays they met, especially when young.

Yeah - it costs a lot more money now. One of my former regulars started out with a sugar dady who covered everything (rent/bills/expenses), but left after the daddy started putting him down for being so dependent on him. He said he lost a sweet place, but he preferred his freedom.

Ah yeah, the good ol' days. Around 2000. Back when a blow job in a West Side alley only cost a crisp twenty.

If nothing changes, I'll have the pleasure this weekend. He's very high priced, but I make allowances for bodybuilders. And he's literally down the road from me.

Waste of money. However, I'd definitely pay 950 for a threesome with those two😁