DrownedBoy

From what I can tell, deep down, most men are bottoms; they just learn to adapt due to the roughly 11:1 bottom:top ratio. As far as on RentMen, I know providers who don't bottom as much (or )charge more to bottom since they need to prep beforehand.

Ditto. An advantage of being short is that I never hired a guy who was taller than me, even if they exaggerated their height. Another advantage is that anyone I ever dated was also taller than me. I always wondered if that was the reason my boyfriend(s) tend to be short, but not shorter than me.

I once hired a pair of Latinos who jumped into the shower right when they arrived and stayed in for 20 minutes.

A Veggie Delight at Subway. I miss the Sonic and Wendy's burgers, not to mention the Chicago Style hot dogs (gout attacks are very painful). But my health isn't what it used to be. Damn kidneys.

When they act like they're "better" than you simply because they're younger and sexier. On the rare occasions that's happened, I've shot back with questions on how financially secure they are.

I've read a lot about older women who go to Jamaica especially for the dreadlocked, Rastafarian types. I'm wondering - have any men here had any luck finding such guys on vacation there? I understand that in Jamaica, you're largely confined to "safe" areas like resorts and such, because of the country's homophobia. Nonetheless, I've read of men who paid rastas for companionship. Any experiences here?

The moment you have feelings for a provider, it's time to stop seeing him. Especially if you get worried about stuff like this. Very unhealthy.

I have met attractive twink providers try to go twunk once they start to get older and less youthful looking. Unfortunately, it only works if they get muscle when they're still young. Otherwise it's simply aging into muscleguy.

"single straight guy" eh? Around Chicago, there's a lot of out-of-the-way places, and all you have to do is hop on Metra to get around. I am working on a retirement budget that will allow me....ample help when I get older, but I need to wait and see. The world will be much different.

Rural areas suck - that's all I can say. You'd had to pay a lot to get a decent guy to move in with you. If you want more "gig guys" you'll need to live closer to somewhere interesting.

I think you can figure that out....

No it isn't. Like you, I like relying on regulard.

Text. If they're marked Available Now, give them 10 minutes before you text the next guy. Repeat. First to reach a deal wins. The others get told they should have answered quicker.

You could just call a gogo bar. Or hang out in one and ask who's up for stripping.

The (ahem) bored upper middle class ladies who invited landscape workers inside always offered a shower first, as well as a way to brush their teeth. The shower was always the first. I recall this 70+ wealthy widow answering the door to this 18 year old Mexican kid, and she wasn't wearing anything but a towel.

The person with the money plays judge. That's how it works.

When I filed my complaint with RentMen, they didn't publish it, but told me they would "take it into account." Apparently he was already on their sh!t list. Hopefully that bumped one more thief mascarading as an escort off the platform 😘. It's a shame we can't call the cops on these guys, so it's essential we police them ourselves. Good work to all involved.

It may be something that providers are willing to do for pay; I was referring to a hookup, which took place on equal footing. Which is no doubt why the older "gentleman" was willing to criticize the idea of me being a white slave to a black guy. I'd still worry sbout calling someone a "cotton picking n****r" unless that was made extreeeemely clear and consensual beforehand. I recall reading an article by a black writer whose partner unexpectedly blurted out the n word like that, and it very quickly ended any nice feelings between them.

No idea. My theory is that gay closeted guys are really cowardly about rocking the boat, so they give 5 stars no matter what.

I've seen reviews that gave 5 stars, but when I contacted the reviewer, who has reviewed many others, he confirmed (from what I read on CoM) that it was a horrible hire. Useless.🙃

Like someone else said, I do need to see a hire's face first, even if they need to keep it private. Facial hair is a concern of mine.

You should definitely talk to the provider. Met a black gentleman, and he told me he turned down any guy interested in that. He even disapproved of the idea that I like to "be the slave" during roleplaying. To him it was a demeaning way of looking at black people.

This should go in The Deli

Especially when, at a diner I frequent, the manager is working while being mean to the waitresses he's "working with." When he got criticized by a waitress, I backed her up, told the manager he was being a prick in front of a lot of people, and pointed out how many years I'd been eating there. He wasn't there a few weeks later.

Guys - even EDIT valid reviews don't matter. There was a discussion in The Deli about a RentMen provider who was really G4P and refused to do what he agreed to upon arriving. He had 10 5-star reviews on RentMen. Out of curiosity (as I don't hire heteros), I asked one of those reviewers how well the session was. He replied it was horrible. And yet they gave him 5 stars...... Verdict - Totally Useless