DrownedBoy

Well that's it - I don't bed escorts, just use them, as someone just reminded everyone, for BDSM RP. Subs require obedience too.

I'd say there's a business opportunity for coordinating escorts meetings, but there's already a job title for that - pimp. If they ever legalize, and I have the capital, I'll open a nice old fashioned brothel, where old men can get their legacy needs taken care of. And we'll include pay phones while we're at it..

Correct, it doesn't. This forum discussed many immature, selfish men who ditched their long term partners for some young piece of ass. Perhaps some men shouldn't hire even if they're married, if that's how they handle it. A bond IMHO is emotional or friendship, distinct from being on good terms with someone. I've had the same barber, mechanic, and accountant for much longer than 8 years, and while I'm on good terms, the relationship only exists as long as we do business. Yes, working relationships often lead to deeper friendship - but usually not until you stop working together. That's my experience. And as much as I wish we'd treat sex work like any other type, most people seem to have difficulty separating them. And to be blunt, I don't hire escorts based on chemistry - that's how I choose a date. I hire based on their body, looks, and obedience. If one of those go, so do they. Bonds are created between equals, not between a person who needs money and someone who has it.

You care what the receptionist thinks? Are you obliged to answer their questions?

That's why - as has been recommended here - you shouldn't hire unless you're in a (non-paying) relationship. Or at the least, have relationship experience so you know what to look for, how it works, and can catch the differences.

I wish. When you see me writing like this, you see what happens when you take a working-class Chicago boy and give him a scholarship to a top ten university.

That's why prosecutors call their own psychiatrists. To counter what the defendant says.

A lot of escorts, if they're busy, won't even bother following up if they have enough business. That's especially true of younger ones. My advice - they don't respond, you cross them off your list. There's a lot of other guys out there who want your money.

I have a regular I've been seeing for 8 years. By mutual agreement, we don't do anything outside of business, we never formed bonds during sessions, and we treat it as a purely transactional, no strings attached business relationship. We get along well. He doesn't pretend to enjoy my RP fetishes, but he listens to instructions and does an excellent job pleasing me. I wouldn't want to waste his time texting.

Thanks. I considered hiring him in Chicago but glad I didn't. If they won't put the phone down, they go with whatever money they made up to that point.

And I'm sure that will come up in court, so there's no point speculating and playing armchair psychologist.

As an Android user, I should mention - using the Chrome browser, RentMen constantly freezes on me, and I have to restart my whole browser. Just started happening this year too.

First of all, scientific research isn't prejudice. Putting things into different boxes and making predictions based on a variable are the essence of science. That being said, I read the Strauss-Howe theory in college, during the late 90s. They claimed younger voters would be more likely to elect an autocratic leader. They claimed Millennials (who they defined as college graduates around 2K) would be the generation that fixes everything. They also claimed a crisis of Revolution/Civil War/WWII proportions should have happened by now, and coincidentally enough, the theory just kept getting updated from the original version I read. Analogy isn't science, and you don't change the goalposts - I don't think highly of the Strauss-Howe model.

Dude that masseuse is lucky he's still around. Quite a few clients (including myself), if they were physically attacked like that, wouldn't give him to chance to ever use his cell phone again. I also met providers who warned clients ahead of time about what they'd do if they were assaulted. Self defense is a thing.

Sounds like one of the cons providers arrange to leave early.

I need to ask one of my regulars for their measurements. I can think of fun uniforms they can wear.... Seriously, I think providers who already have some RP costumes ready have an advantage.

Yes and yes.

Yes, Tito was right up there with Mario Lopez for hot guys on Saturday mornings.

A "sharp" tongue? When providers demonstrate they have one of those, I don't hire them! I don't need arguments....

I've never been a fan of OF. I'm afraid I need providers to be "in the office" to enjoy their company

I can't repeat enough this one piece of advise above - spend an overnight together first so you know you'll get along. You're on a business trip, and thus in a vulnerable position should that boy decide he wants more. Make sure you have a backup plan if he causes trouble.

I guess I'm a low maintenance client. Never once have I asked or wanted a provider to come for me, and I was rather unhappy with a guy who went and did it on my couch without warning.

Tell me about it. I've had to supervise Gen Z workers who don't have basic knowledge. Like how to Google something if you don't know, or what year the Civil War started. And NONE of them read; they just half-listen to streaming shows and podcasts, and don't absorb it. General discipline is the problem. When I had my first job out of college, and was 5 minutes late one morning, the boss told me if I did it again, I wouldn't be coming in again. I can't imagine a manager in my firm doing that today. Likewise, you have to treat them with kid gloves. This morning, some juniors made the same deployment error they've made 6 weeks in a row. I'd be gone if I had done that 20 years ago; now you can only "constructively aid" those lazy bastards into doing their jobs.

I should clarify. The kind of "client" who would screw with a Latino wouldn't be a regular. They'd be those guys who endlessly text and screw with escorts. I can see some doing this. But the biggest effect I think are the platforms themselves - RentMen, RentMasseur, MintBoys, etc. I hate to say it, but undocumented escorts on there are very low hanging fruit for authorities. I wouldn't be surprised if ICE agents book providers, then arrest them for deportation. This will lead to a high turnover rate from foreign providers, and more precautions on facial pictures. Every week, more RM ads go faceless.