DrownedBoy

It's simple. I look for guys I'd like to pick up on Grindr but can't. Personally, I love muscle the best, and bodybuilders if I can find them. I've met lots of friendly bodybuilders while hiring....except for the one straight guy 😄

Puncture their illusion then. Say you can line up a different escort if they want to reschedule. I learned the hard way not to let a provider set the schedule.

They have a lot of work to do. They need to develop better "skeletons" for the dolls and make them move with strength and precision. No sex doll will plow you. It'll only lie there while you plow it.

Some people's concept of hygiene continues to disgust me. A regular of mine had a client who has eating Doritos. When the regular asked that client to at least use mouthwash, he got offended!

Met him once years ago. Excellent body but limited to dry kisses. Has a cocky attitude and is a complete heterotwit.

How will he "prove" he was a lifeguard?

My regulars locked my price in (the exception was later fired for unrelated reasons). For my longest time regular, who I've seen for 8 years, I just gave him a raise after the pandemic inflation because he drives and gas went up. But if he's near me for something else, he'll text and offer a discount.

I met Mr. My-Lawyer-Is-Watching once, and he texted me when I posted here. I told him to find a lawyer who knew how to read.

Welcome to Company of Men.

I've seen providers who try to disparage other escorts. And God knows how many have complained about refugees undercutting them in the market.

Another question for providers, then. Does the pay change if you're being hired by a couple? That is, 2 guys who might tag team you?

That's why I also make the 2 hour offers. When I've asked providers for their "1 and 2 hour rates," with a couple exceptions, they only give me the hour rate. That's why I switched to making a 2 hour offers, since many new providers haven't priced it yet. Likewise, it allows you to weed out the "hourly" guys, like the 11k guy you mentioned 🙄

It means he thought you made that up to get out of the appointment. Very common among providers.

He was playing with you. Or got cold feet. Or changed his mind Who cares. Flag him on the Deli or Spa as a flake.

Yeah that's the reaction I got once. A regular was like, "don't compare me with other providers!" I didn't come out and tell him that I compare him to others whenever I hire, but I did say a few things so he'd stop with that attitude. He's competing with other escorts whether he wants to admit it or not, and he has lots of competition. A fact many providers forget.

"Reformed twink?"

It says you think culture is more important than economics. Suuuuuurrreeeee....

Dude you got it backwards. Europe is less capitalist than the U.S. Providers there have free health care, a social safety net, etc. High taxes prevent the emergence of a wealthy professional class (by American standards). That's why European escorts are cheaper.

In Chicago, I've been quoted between 1000 and 1500 for an overnight by established providers. A warning - this sample includes a 1.5K guy who thinks an overnight is 6 hours.

I understand the addiction to hiring. When you hire, you are completely in charge of who you will see, when, and what he'll do. Sex is about power, and you don't have that much power over an SO. Boyfriends and providers are an entirely different experience, at least to me . Also, I should mention that I dream of retiring to a country house with at least 4 cute young muscular obedient servants. That's not addiction; it's being a gay man.

Yes, but people with money have more weight to their opinion. Something that provider should have taken into account.

I've made offers years in the past, but only "standard" offers, not low-ball ones. But very rarely. I do make offers if someone gives me an hourly rate. I offer them more (but not double) for a 2 hour visit. Providers tend to welcome these offers

When I call a a man "boy," it reflects the fact I don't believe they're mature enough to be a man. If I say I want to "play" with someone, I mean emotionally meaningless NSA sexual activities, as opposed to an actual connection or relationship. Please note that I've called 70 year old men "boys!"

I've also seen an uptick in providers who don't take this side gig seriously and don't work with schedules. Once, I met a guy on FB and he agreed to come by at 7 one night. Then, he suddenly texts me right before and said he was hanging with his friends. I thumbs-upped him, and immediately removed him from my list. Then he texted me back offering to see me when he was done watching TV with his friends, and I turned him down, told him why, and blocked him. I have no use for someone who cancels/delays a scheduled appointment for something like that.

Give it up - he's a scammer or likes playing with people.