DrownedBoy

That's the nice thing about male actors. Attractive, probably gay, but broke.

Text is pretty much the only choice. Most providers won't accept an appointment without one. FYI your texts are more secure than anything you type on RM Messenger. My advice is to always use euphemisms when setting a payment up. Under no circumstances type something that outright says, "I'll pay you for sex."

@keroscenefire is correct. I bet a lot of clients here have hired homeless people without knowing, although the definition differs. I've had escorts that I later learned were either perpetually couch crashing or living in a flophouse extended stay place. Likewise, the refugee I wanted to hire got moved to a different shelter, and constantly lost WiFi. If they try to hide it, let them. I agree with those who say not to give them money. But do give them a shower and some way to brush their teeth. You're much more likely to pick up the homeless on Grindr. But as we've been warned, desperation, disease, and possible mental illnesses can be a problem.

Immensely He kinda figured out I was into rough stuff during the session. EDIT and after he pinned me down, it started with me telling him I'd do anything he wanted. So I only did what he said because I was comfortable doing so. He just liked the rp too.

Nice guy. When that happened to me once, he just pinned me down, said my session was over, and now he was going to do what he wanted.

There's a thread here where a provider was cruised by Peter Pan on a Disney cruise.

Yeah let us know how interactive he is. Best Flex guys usually aren't.

Yes, but also - that's not something an escort would advertise, in case of the "I am going to be a regular" cheapskates. One reason some regulars, even those who locked my price in, are leaving it is because I'm not worried about anal, etc., and just smacking a person around isn't a hard or even necessarily an unpleasant experience. Escorts may offer discounts, but they keep it between themselves and select clients. That's why I don't name names here.

I once discussed Galois numbers with an escort....b😄 I still haven't figured out why sex and mathematics are often paired. Pascal gave up both sex and mathematics when he converted Rousseau was so awkward with a high-class courtesan that she told him to give up the ladies and study mathematics My high school calculus teacher once said solving an integral was better than sex. We gave him a dirty magazine with an integral equation scribbled across the centerfold.

Ask first. Some providers will do videos or photos for free. However, I don't take porn-level photos, so that might cost.

Yeah, because guys on Grindr are so much nicer....

It's simple. I look for guys I'd like to pick up on Grindr but can't. Personally, I love muscle the best, and bodybuilders if I can find them. I've met lots of friendly bodybuilders while hiring....except for the one straight guy 😄

Puncture their illusion then. Say you can line up a different escort if they want to reschedule. I learned the hard way not to let a provider set the schedule.

They have a lot of work to do. They need to develop better "skeletons" for the dolls and make them move with strength and precision. No sex doll will plow you. It'll only lie there while you plow it.

Some people's concept of hygiene continues to disgust me. A regular of mine had a client who has eating Doritos. When the regular asked that client to at least use mouthwash, he got offended!

Met him once years ago. Excellent body but limited to dry kisses. Has a cocky attitude and is a complete heterotwit.

How will he "prove" he was a lifeguard?

My regulars locked my price in (the exception was later fired for unrelated reasons). For my longest time regular, who I've seen for 8 years, I just gave him a raise after the pandemic inflation because he drives and gas went up. But if he's near me for something else, he'll text and offer a discount.

I met Mr. My-Lawyer-Is-Watching once, and he texted me when I posted here. I told him to find a lawyer who knew how to read.

Welcome to Company of Men.

I've seen providers who try to disparage other escorts. And God knows how many have complained about refugees undercutting them in the market.

Another question for providers, then. Does the pay change if you're being hired by a couple? That is, 2 guys who might tag team you?

That's why I also make the 2 hour offers. When I've asked providers for their "1 and 2 hour rates," with a couple exceptions, they only give me the hour rate. That's why I switched to making a 2 hour offers, since many new providers haven't priced it yet. Likewise, it allows you to weed out the "hourly" guys, like the 11k guy you mentioned 🙄

It means he thought you made that up to get out of the appointment. Very common among providers.

He was playing with you. Or got cold feet. Or changed his mind Who cares. Flag him on the Deli or Spa as a flake.