DrownedBoy

Our puritan Homeland Security loves cracking down on escorts entering the country. Traditionally, European escorts could expect to make more money than back home. I'd like to know why too.

Yeah. I'm used to that single song that Murphy always played in the morning. Let's see who gets this reference.

He was on roids and threatened the hotel manager. That's when security got called.

For some reason, I just thought of the Monty Hall problem. "You can take this payment here, or you can choose the payment behind one of these closed doors!"

This right here is the correct mindset. Love and lust are 2 entirely different things. You might confuse them when you just come out of the closet, or when you're a teenager, but as an adult, you have to know the difference.

I checked the stats - last year, only 18% of all transactions were made by cash. However, I've studied this area, and cash is a preferred payment among people with lower incomes, etc. We can't go cashless without knocking out a good segment of the population. That, and I can't believe Americans would accept watching every cent they spend end up in a database somewhere.

Zero. I only bend over or stick it in for someone I'm actually seeing. Besides, I hire for the stuff boyfriends might not like. That combination of beating, domination, interrupted with kissing....I'll stop now.

Yup. I've called providers who completely lost it while I was texting them (one had got off the phone with a bad client, but still; the other was trying to get more money). And some in person did the same (the guy who assaulted me and got dragged out by security). Personality disorders are definitely more common among escorts. At least the ones who don't have a second job.

As mentioned in another thread, I have a long-time regular who sometimes brings young men who aren't escorts. He does sort of act like a "madam" in that he insisted on handling the money (taking a larger share since he drives) and doesn't give me the other guy's number. However, while he's been willing to do that, he would obviously prefer that I spend more money on him.

Nope. He was an amateur who just needed money for a few months between jobs, and he told me that when I first hired him. I congratulated him because he found a new job.

Depends on the city. There's a well-reviewed traveling provider who I see in Chicago, but he won't come here for Pride, because here it's only a one day affair. He does come during Market Days in Boystown since it lasts longer and is more festive. I didn't pay as much attention to RM ads during Pride this year, however.

I noticed he doesn't have any face pictures. I wonder if such providers are more likely to block.

Ah. You expect to get paid for sleeping. That's why I don't hire providers like you for overnights .

I don't think a provider should be offended by 1 above and if they are, it's good that they block me so I don't have to put up with a narcissist. I have no use for "luxury " escorts who think their looks entitle them to be rude. That being said, I usually only bring up rates on the second question, after I establish they're close enough, do outcalls, and kiss. It's less being polite than demonstrating I'm serious. Bad clients give everyone a bad name.

The absolute safest breath play is simply holding your breath. Even if, by some freak chance, you passed out, the moment you blacked out, you'd start automatically breathing again. It's simple enough to have a provider cover your mouth with his hand, etc., if they're ok with it. Usually I arrange to tap them so they know when to stop and let me breathe again. Others can be overly cautious, and let go too soon, even though I'm good at holding my breath. Physically choking someone with your hands or a rope is too dangerous for me. A provider once thought I'd like being choked, but I had to stop him.

Nah - you can buy decent Delta9 (that's real THC, not Delta 8 or its cousins) on the Internet a lot cheaper than legal dispensaries. I use a place called Binoid. Illinois dispensaries are overpriced, highly taxed, and you have to visit an ATM first. It usually comes in vape or edible form, but that's how I like to use it. Cannabis just makes me lose all my inhibitions and let my partner have his way with me.

It's also a bad idea because different providers are "worth" different amounts to different clients. There's a lot of guys other CoM members drool over that I don't find attractive at all, and vice versa. All you can do is hope you found a provider you click with.

Professional ethics, not everyday ethics. There's a difference.

I'll be asking about the RNC from one of my regulars, who made plans to be there. Unfortunately, he's too ethical to out those hypocrites.

Ditto. Don't expect a refund. Flag him in the Deli or the Spa so we know to stay away.

I find it useful to tell them they're attractive, but not gush about it. If their ad reveals they're proud of a certain part of their body, make sure to compliment him on it.

I had an escort try to stick me with a parking ticket. Since the ticket said "Mercedes" and the guy didn't have money or a sugar daddy, I scolded him for not being careful, then stopped hiring him.

That's the answer, for any such haggling situation. Offer them a lowball amount and then ask for a counter suggestion.

Breath play (which my username also indicates, although I enjoy it as part of a larger BDSM ensemble) can be tricky with providers, especially younger ones. It scares them - several providers cut off contact when I brought it up. I'd suggest looking for providers who advertise they're into BDSM and leather. They're more likely to be familiar with it.

He better watch himself. If someone pulled that on me, I'd make sure the "husband" accidentally died of an overdose before the will was read.