DrownedBoy
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Anybody else fall for the men they hire?
+ DrownedBoy replied to + Rgsnva's topic in Questions About Hiring
It means to politely rebuff somebody's advances and hope they get the hint. It's a good skill to learn, if you're a gay man. -
Good advice. I hired duos before, but only in hotels. I'll keep it that way.
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And for some clients, they are
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Anybody else fall for the men they hire?
+ DrownedBoy replied to + Rgsnva's topic in Questions About Hiring
Like you said: "could fall head over heels for him" I've met providers that I wished I could date....if there were fewer years between us. But glancing at my bank account throws cold water on any ideas like that. (although I'm hoping to get a houseboy when I retire) -
Yes - it shows the person doesn't have any class. Since gentlemanly behavior went out the window decades ago, I suppose many won't understand that.
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I'll need to measure how long something needs to be to enter my throat.
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If they count it before the session and pocket it, it means you're in for a lousy session. n=4, 1.0 correlation.
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The smart ones in Milwaukee are preparing. I know that much.
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Where have all the providers gone ?
+ DrownedBoy replied to Ali Gator's topic in Questions About Hiring
Different cities have different types of pride parades. One travelling provider who visits Chicago said he wasn't planning on coming that weekend because pride is short and barely lasts a day here. -
Dude I think you got the cause and effect mixed up there. 😄 I only reached out to one guy who ended up charging 500 an hour. He was a quicktalking, narcissistic, greedy bullsh!tter. Not a guy I'd spend 5 minutes with, let alone an hour.
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To be fair, they classify "prostitution' as unskilled labor. They don't mention "escorts."
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The UN and US say escorting is unskilled labor . The highest hourly legal minimum wage, I think, is $20 in California somewhere. Interesting comparison.
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Does a Good BFE Mean the Provider Is Just A Good Actor?
+ DrownedBoy replied to FaustOust's topic in Questions About Hiring
A too-common story. If this guy wasn't a jerk, I might feel sorry for him. -
I remember lots of videos from RentBoy escorts years ago, a lot of escorts telling clients what they had to do to have a "good time." The Federal government probably has those videos in RB's prosecution files.
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With TheBestFlex, the question is how interactive they are. I contacted several and they only allowed worship, not kissing. I haven't had much luck there.
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I've gotten that....from racist providers....
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Finally a constructive solution.
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Yes, it's very common for providers to forget to renew their ads right away. Especially among the flakes.
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A long-term regular. https://rent.men/ExoticFlavor EDIT: Although he's technically an escort not a masseuse.
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There will always be bad clients. Here - the moment the guy asked for a "special rate" you should have put your foot down. However, I and many other clients have been robbed by paying first. After you see a thief grab the cash and run off without doing anything, we learn the same. The best option is to have the money in an envelope, out in the open during the session, and the provider can grab it on the way out.
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And yet I've met providers who still didn't understand.
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That's a decision that should be respected by a client. However, you may not have had to "pretend" to be his boyfriend. If all he wanted was to "give the impression" that you were dating, being together should be enough. If he insisted on PDA or actually telling people you were dating, that might break some boundaries, though.
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Weird I've been seeing a lot more ads lately, a lot of newcomers. In my area - no idea about the other markets.
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Gay Escort you used to see all the time but not anymore
+ DrownedBoy replied to D21howie's topic in The Deli
There was a guy who came here from Uganda, a real gym bunny, who used to escort, but at times could be flaky, even with the same person. He moved to California and shut down his ad a couple years ago. I did friend him on FB though, and he's posting flex photos. I'm wondering if it's kosher to ask him if he still meets up. -
Besides seeing them on RM, how can you tell if they escort? Or do you have to pay to ask, like you did?
