DrownedBoy
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We're a bunch of horny gay men discussing who to hire next. Most of us are from the States, where escorting laws are archaic and society had this hang-up about sex work. Being in that situation will make anyone snarky when talking about their hobby.
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Mine was a muscular Latino I hired back in my mid-30s, and I went to his apartment in the city. EDIT RentBoy was still up. I was only interested in my fetish, and I heard him murmuring afterwards, "Well that was easy." I hired him once more after his ad went down, but that time he refused to kiss and charged too much. First lesson learned - careful when hiring a "retired" escort - they have nothing to lose from bad reviews.
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I knew I was gay by the time I was 13, since I was exclusively attracted to guys. I recall mentioning this to my father, who advised I wait until I was 18 until I was certain. After high school I (and most of my friends) were certain - I came out and slept with my first guy when I started college, age 19. -
Anybody else fall for the men they hire?
+ DrownedBoy replied to + Rgsnva's topic in Questions About Hiring
It means to politely rebuff somebody's advances and hope they get the hint. It's a good skill to learn, if you're a gay man. -
Good advice. I hired duos before, but only in hotels. I'll keep it that way.
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Anybody else fall for the men they hire?
+ DrownedBoy replied to + Rgsnva's topic in Questions About Hiring
Like you said: "could fall head over heels for him" I've met providers that I wished I could date....if there were fewer years between us. But glancing at my bank account throws cold water on any ideas like that. (although I'm hoping to get a houseboy when I retire) -
Yes - it shows the person doesn't have any class. Since gentlemanly behavior went out the window decades ago, I suppose many won't understand that.
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I'll need to measure how long something needs to be to enter my throat.
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If they count it before the session and pocket it, it means you're in for a lousy session. n=4, 1.0 correlation.
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The smart ones in Milwaukee are preparing. I know that much.
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Where have all the providers gone ?
+ DrownedBoy replied to Ali Gator's topic in Questions About Hiring
Different cities have different types of pride parades. One travelling provider who visits Chicago said he wasn't planning on coming that weekend because pride is short and barely lasts a day here. -
Does a Good BFE Mean the Provider Is Just A Good Actor?
+ DrownedBoy replied to FaustOust's topic in Questions About Hiring
A too-common story. If this guy wasn't a jerk, I might feel sorry for him. -
I remember lots of videos from RentBoy escorts years ago, a lot of escorts telling clients what they had to do to have a "good time." The Federal government probably has those videos in RB's prosecution files.
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With TheBestFlex, the question is how interactive they are. I contacted several and they only allowed worship, not kissing. I haven't had much luck there.
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I've gotten that....from racist providers....
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Finally a constructive solution.
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Yes, it's very common for providers to forget to renew their ads right away. Especially among the flakes.
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A long-term regular. https://rent.men/ExoticFlavor EDIT: Although he's technically an escort not a masseuse.
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There will always be bad clients. Here - the moment the guy asked for a "special rate" you should have put your foot down. However, I and many other clients have been robbed by paying first. After you see a thief grab the cash and run off without doing anything, we learn the same. The best option is to have the money in an envelope, out in the open during the session, and the provider can grab it on the way out.
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And yet I've met providers who still didn't understand.
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That's a decision that should be respected by a client. However, you may not have had to "pretend" to be his boyfriend. If all he wanted was to "give the impression" that you were dating, being together should be enough. If he insisted on PDA or actually telling people you were dating, that might break some boundaries, though.
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Weird I've been seeing a lot more ads lately, a lot of newcomers. In my area - no idea about the other markets.
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Gay Escort you used to see all the time but not anymore
+ DrownedBoy replied to D21howie's topic in The Deli
There was a guy who came here from Uganda, a real gym bunny, who used to escort, but at times could be flaky, even with the same person. He moved to California and shut down his ad a couple years ago. I did friend him on FB though, and he's posting flex photos. I'm wondering if it's kosher to ask him if he still meets up. -
Besides seeing them on RM, how can you tell if they escort? Or do you have to pay to ask, like you did?
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I do know that providers who meet in person discuss their clients or ask questions about them. But I'm not present when that happens, nor do I plan to be.
