VictorMcHugh

Agree 1000 percent. The best dancers and performers don't have to try as hard at earning money. They have regulars they do privates with or they arrange to meet guys off-site. The ones begging for private dances give the least satisfying service. A lot of the good dancers don't even do showers there.

I love watching amateur videos of Chinese bathhouses where the guys get a full body scrub and massage and the massage masseur does a lot of playing with them during the massage and eventually finishes them off. I also like the videos of Indonesian pijat fery massage where the provider does a lot of playing and light touch to get the guys very aroused before eventually giving them a happy ending. I would love to find a place in the upper Midwest where I might have this kind of experience. I did find one guy at an Asian massage place in Milwaukee that did a lot of teasing but did not provide any release (very frustrating!). Has anyone had any good experiences with an Asian spa experience or traditional Asian massage near Chicago or Milwaukee?

Antropology has changed their hours. They aren't open every night anymore. They remodeled and reopened in October after being closed for a while.

I am in regular contact with many of the guys that work at the various clubs. It still is very active and they, of course, are encouraging people to come visit. There are a lot of great options for dancers, privates, massages, escorts. Lots of the dancers are willing to hang out outside of the club. Get their numbers! Many are willing to have a fun day on the beach, hang out for dinner and drinks or visit you at your place. I am excited to check out Boys Club when I go back next month.

yes, the strippers in PV are all saying it is slow. I have seen some photos of Wet completely empty. Some are talking about leaving for CDMX since they cannot earn enough with the drop in tourism.

PV is totally calm and safe right now. The burned vehicles have been cleared. There is clean up to do for the burnt out stores. My friends all report they are back to their daily routines. All the bars and clubs opened last night or will be opening tonight. Restaurants and stores are open. Flights are back on track. All is good.

I have been in touch with several of my stripper friends down in PV. They are all safe but worried about the hit on the economy and went without much food yesterday. To answer the question about private dances, I have no specific advice about how to get more service in privates but it has never been hard for me to get what I want. It helps to be a repeat customer and to suggest you may want more to happen in the private prior to going back and paying for your booth. I have been amazed by the range of guys, from muscled twunks, to rough trade-looking guys, to physically perfect muscle gods that get on their knees or offer up their ass. I do feel like 69 attracts my guys who just want to get blown. Wet seems to have a range of boys that are willing to do more but I also seem to know them better and that may be a part of it.

I saw Mauro three different times during my most recent stay in PV. It was fucking amazing. Worth every penny.

No, not at all. In gay Latino culture, "chacales" is more of a reference to masculine, working class younger guys.

I have been to 69 several times the last few weeks. Some very hot guys. I have a few regulars. A great mix of muscle guys, twinks and chacales. Sometimes if you go too early, they will sit around and ignore you until the owner tells them to get off their phones. Often I get a drink and sit down and one or two will attach themselves to me right away. I make it clear what I am looking for from the beginning. If I am not interested, I tell them I will buy them a drink but then will be moving on to someone else with whom I want to spend some personal time.

I agree, Gio, the manager is really hot. I always suggest that he dance but he won't. I did a private with one a few nights ago. He was ok, kind of sexy but gave gay for pay vibes. Not as into it as he could have been but sexy. In general B-Mine does not have the best range of dancers. I like the space there and sometimes it is fun but not my favorite.

I have been there a few times this past week and have a couple more weeks here in PV. I have a handful of favorites, some I prefer to see outside the club. I don't mind tipping but I don't like when someone approaches me for a tip for a shower dance or pole dance when obviously I did not see the show because I am on the other end of the club. I typically just tell guys that I don't have change and I will tip them later if I don't want to give them something.

Yes. It is just down the block from the new construction going up on the corner. It is next to the club CODE. Usually there are two or three guys standing in front. Was last there in beginning of November and was still open. Relax Spa is around the corner from there. There are always guys willing to give a mediocre massage but sex is pretty much guaranteed. A couple cute guys work there. Acqua is great for a quality massage and spa experience but have never had sex there. Hamam was hit or miss for me. A unique, pleasurable spa experience. The first guy I was with did way more than a massage with me and we ended up meeting up later.

It really depends on the guy. Most of the guys at Wet will let you suck them. At 69 it is hit or miss. Some of the ones that are straight and wanting to do the bare minimum thing a private dance is just striping to their underwear and letting you watch them touch their semi-hard dick. At B-Mine is seems even the guys that are probably straight trade will let you suck them and get into it. It seems I end up paying them about. 1500-2000 peso tip when there is oral involved at Wet. Some of them will suck you, make out, let you suck them, eat their ass, offer to let you fuck them. Once there is penetration, we are looking at 4000 pesos. I have had a few come over before their shift or at other times and for 4000 pesos, have them in my place, jerk off together, suck them, eat their ass, have them straddle my face, jerk me off. A few engage in fucking, flip flop. I have had a few offer me their ass at the club to fuck but I don't like fucking in the booths for some reason.

For legit spa with male staff, I like Acqua and Hamam. Hamam is a full Turksih spa experience. It can be very sensual. I have had a range of experiences there. Acqua gives great, very professional service. I did the vichy massage and full body oil massage combo last time I was there. I will admit I was hoping it would lead to a happy ending but did not.