Agreed that these are your best bets. Not sure if you've been already, but Monster Bar is a perennial favorite. It's a lively piano bar upstairs, and a clubby male strip club downstairs. They have a DJ, full bar, a main stage, a smaller back "stage" with a stripper pole, and private rooms in the back. There is usually a drag hostess up front calling out dancers and putting a show, and then another in the back regulating the private booths. I've never had a problem with her; I kinda like that she runs a tight ship. The booths themselves have a little light and an iPad to keep track of time. As mentioned they are "private" but the door is like a bathroom stall and can be peered over. The caliber of dancers is varied. You have muscle studs, twinks, and dudes from a variety of backgrounds.
I literally went to Buffdaddy's tonight and was totally impressed. The upstairs bar is a lively, well-lighted watering hole, but the atmosphere completely changes once you go downstairs. Dark, red lights, and attractive men walking around naked. There is also a full bar here. The atmosphere is a lot more laid back - it's literally a place to meet and have fun with strippers. There are 3-4 private areas are very dark and simple with a chair enclosed by panel dividers. The men there are right up my alley: primarily Dominican, tanned muscle bodies with dark hair and beards. There were a couple of lighter and darker gentlemen there as well. It seems just about anything goes in the private rooms, though I usually leave it up to the stripper as I'm not comfortable if they're not comfortable. Totally recommend the place. Hope you have fun next weekend!