DrownedBoy

I believe he has a background in marketing, which he seemed rather skilled in. He was certainly persuasive. However, he didn't need to persuade me to hire him.

Did you adjust that for 50 years of inflation 😄 EDIT: Awww @Charlie just yanking your chain.

Why does it not surprise me that someone named @Becket is searching for Jesus. 😄 BACK TO TOPIC - How common is it for masseurs (not escorts) to be willing to French kiss?

Agree vote here too. If a provider acts like he's doing you a favor, he needs some life lessons. I wouldn't be surprised if he uses the "but" line to justify a higher rate table. (I'd ask what "xxx" means here, but probably not relevant)

For Christ's sake, this is a forum dedicated to men who pay or are paid by another man for some kind of sexual gratification. Complaining about a client's standards for attractiveness makes as much sense as getting angry at someone because you think they're too picky when buying ketchup at the grocery store. And please don't bring the LGBTQ community into this. I've belonged to some advocacy group since I was 19, and still, it's obvious that many, if not most, people in the community can be very shallow and selfish. If there even is such a community.

Hotel security isn't there for law enforcement. They're there to make sure nothing "unsavory" happens that would scare away guests, and to keep order. They don't have police powers. If people knew security had to tackle a fleeing, thieving sex worker, it wouldn't be good for their bottom line.

If you filled out a client profile page on RM, you have the same limitation. It's harder to write a short description than a long description. It's a skill everyone needs to develop.

That didn't stop a certain other politician from winning an even higher office.

Don't jump to conclusions. There are a lot of people who would sue and lie since he's got money. The fact that the one lawsuit was filed right before the deadline says enough. I just hope that, in one of these cases, the judges strike down these stupid laws and definitions. Under the current idiocracy, every single client could be called a "sex-trafficker," and every transaction "survival sex."

And as a provider, how do you view and treat potential clients who say that?

Countdown to thread shutdown in 10, 9, 8....

I'd report him to RentMen. You may not have proof, but at least he'll get kicked off if anyone else meets him and has trouble. EDIT: You won't be able to leave a review without meeting, so go the report route. I did this to a thief who also decided to ply his trade on RM. Shortly afterwards, I recall he received a1-star review, and was apparently expelled from RM within days.

Soliciting for a tip before the session. I kid you not.

I keep thinking about this line from either a TV show or movie, from the 1990s. If anyone recognizes where it came from, please reply. "You must be one of those people who believe hookers when they say they like you."

To some cops, all gay men fall into the "specific individuals" category. Especially in the red states where they do it. It's no different than when cops raided gay bars. They just find another justification to get rid of gays.

I don't think it's an unusual fetish at all. In fact it's massively tame. If you asked him to pretend to be John F. Kennedy, I might take a second look.

That's not been my experience, and I doubt if any rational, profit-motivated provider would do that. However, I never say "no." I say, "I'm out of town" or "I can't, but maybe next time." I've had travelling providers text me every time they're in town, even if I haven't hired them yet, but only shown an interest. One guy came to Chicago 4 times before our schedules meshed. It turned out to be worth waiting for.

If it's any consolation, that concern is not limited to providers.

As I've mentioned, I almost always hire for 2 hours - 2 orgasms separated by relaxation and conversation. Personally, I enjoy just letting the providers talk. A lot of them like to tell stories (with no names, of course), and quite a few got me to ROFL. Laughter is truly the ultimate aphrodisiac.

Save money. Buy a blow-up doll.

Cops often use the Grindr app to entrap gay men for "prostitution." There was that uproar after those Georgia police arrested gay men back in 2020 over Grindr, and charged with prostitution because they offered a smoke to the cop (which they claimed was payment for sex 🙄) I honestly don't know why cops put fake profiles on Grindr to catch johns when there's more accessible sites. Best guess is that the police closet cases are already using it to hire.

Yup. The most common is 300/500 1/2 hours, and I go for 2 hours if they have the time. I'm glad I'm not in NYC. Hiring someone from RentMen may be a luxury, but paying for sex hardly is, provided you're more resourceful and willing to take more risks. EDIT: To clarify, when I see RM visiting from NYC/LA/SF to Chicago, they charge much higher prices (was recently quoted 400/700 for 1/2 hour ; I didn't even bother to respond). However, different cities have different costs of living, and it seems that when the hotter ones travel, they usually end up at an overnight/party/yacht trip with a rich guy. Many traveling escorts most definitely market themselves as a luxury good.

Only if they stay the whole hour. EDIT: Also, although his ad says he's a "great kisser," he won't kiss until the "second appointment." That's one of his memorized English phrases.

I did, and would not repeat. His body is excellent, and he got me off (hence my 5 star rating), but his personality and professionalism warrant negative 5 stars. The first time I contacted him, he forgot the appointment; the second time I had to remind him of the appointment. More proof not to give second chances to careless escorts. His English is almost nonexistent, unless it's memorized phrases that he doesn't seem to know the meaning of. Overall, I found him to be an arrogant and rude brat. I'll leave it at that here. I limit details to PMs.